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elle7806 45F
764 posts
11/4/2006 2:53 am

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1/1/2007 7:05 pm

Do you know...


Everyone who can see me they thought i am happy, why not I always smile and laugh...i am having fun most of the time...they only hear my laughters but how about my tears, Can you see it?
How about my pain? Did you feel it?
No one really knows me except for my self...

You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same


serenity92 67M

11/4/2006 6:55 am

The whole world is a stage and the people on it are the actors .
We all pretend for time to time. Happy when we are sad or angery when we are not. We all like to think we can make good choices for ourselfs. When we don't, how do we feel then ? Perhaps the sooner you find out that the person you have chosen is not right for you the better. I did not say easer. You are young there is time.
Good luck and keep looking. Best wishes S.


MrStan
(Stan Harrison)
60M

11/4/2006 7:57 pm

We cannot feel other peoples pain, however we can empathize with other people pain. We can do this much better when we have had similar experiences with our own pain through a relationship that didn't work out.

I know what it is like to smile on the outside and cry on the inside just because I didn't want to be that vulnerable in front of unsafe people. My ego also would not allow me to cry in front of others until I couldn't hold back my tears anymore.

I know the numerous types of pain that we often go through and it is tough to get over unless one is made of stone. I am made of simple human flesh, I am a man and I do cry or become angry when I am betrayed or have been cheated on by someone that I loved and trusted dearly.

There is no shame for me to admit this.

We are only human and we are more sensitive than we often care to admit.

Yes, Miss Elle, I can empathize with your pain because it reminds me of my own that I use to carry. It does get better, but it sure is hard when we are trying to get over someone.

Extremely painful I know

Your friend,

Stan


a student of life


TopGent2
(Roger F)
73M
1334 posts
11/5/2006 12:13 am

Little Elle - you must move on. Think of your part in our world - the pretty smiling face that goes off into the world each day brings so much pleasure to those around you. An unhappy sad face does not.
I do understand the pain of a break-up and we all know that time will mend it. My way is to 'speed-up' that time and make it pass quickly.
Our sadness is part of us but our happiness effects others so much more positively.
At the start of a new season, a new week, or even a new day - put on that pretty smiling face, walk outside and yell 'hello world - what can I do for you today' (you don't actually have to do that, it can be done in your mind)
TG


fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
11/5/2006 2:30 pm

You can do better than that...just wait and see !


elle7806 45F
598 posts
11/5/2006 6:48 pm

    Quoting serenity92:
    The whole world is a stage and the people on it are the actors .
    We all pretend for time to time. Happy when we are sad or angery when we are not. We all like to think we can make good choices for ourselfs. When we don't, how do we feel then ? Perhaps the sooner you find out that the person you have chosen is not right for you the better. I did not say easer. You are young there is time.
    Good luck and keep looking. Best wishes S.
Thanks serenity92...yes i am an actors in this stage called world but i just wish that i am an awardwinning actress or if not at least a good actor...

You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same


Russell90028 65M
741 posts
11/5/2006 8:14 pm

Dear Elle:

As hard as it is for you to believe, it will get better. But you must close the door behind you before opening another otherwise it will be doomed for failure.

Be Well, R


elle7806 45F
598 posts
11/5/2006 9:46 pm

    Quoting fedders:
    You can do better than that...just wait and see !
Yeah your right...Thank's, I am not losing my mind yet

You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same


Jalo05
(Lani Jaloux America)
54F

11/10/2006 12:14 pm

Hey girl, almamia!

I'm older than you, but I never loose hope!

Simply J


elle7806 45F
598 posts
11/13/2006 7:46 pm

    Quoting Jalo05:
    Hey girl, almamia!

    I'm older than you, but I never loose hope!
Amiga, I am no losing my hope...i know one day my frog prince will come and after i kiss him he will become "aswang" ha ha ha...

You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same


Jalo05
(Lani Jaloux America)
54F

11/20/2006 8:41 pm

    Quoting elle7806:
    Amiga, I am no losing my hope...i know one day my frog prince will come and after i kiss him he will become "aswang" ha ha ha...
ASHWANG daw! Said Mr. Stan!
Why not find other men my darling friend! Why stick to your aswang when he is now writing something about falling in love women and men.
I feel your pain , pain where? It's always painful there specially when it's malaki!
I don't have to worry about the pain because no one can hurt me anymore TALAMAK NA AKO DEAR!
You'll soon be the same as me!

Simply J