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something special? one friend¡¯s birthday is coming, we are thinking what gift should buy to her this year, of cause should be different as last year. Her ex-boyfriend was a lovely person, every time he bought one jewelry to her, watch, necklace, bracelet, earbob, some else. What he explained was he hope it can be with his sweeter everyday as his love. (girl likes these words.) But my girlfriend doesn¡¯t love him much. she feels the love is too heavy to take on her neck. Few month ago, they separated, ¡°it¡¯s more nicer if having some distance with us.¡± Then that boy asked all the special gifts back. God,kidding me, don¡¯t know if he would keep them to the next ¡°sweeter¡± , but he¡¯s seriously to what he did. I think if he make some fireworks on the beach, maybe can go on this relationship. There¡¯s a old love song: ¡° if you want the star in the sky, I¡¯ll catch for you¡..¡± oh, it's so hard to choose a right and good gift... or actually we don't understand each other very well? ... 
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7/10/2005 9:46 am |
find out her feeling before you give her all these gifts, .. because her accepting them may make her feel obligated in ways that she choose not to be obligated, or she may feel it's a pressure that she has to be or performa in some certain manner.. or that love will fade and the gifts will have represented a simbalance of one trying to purchase her.. you need to talk with her.. if it's possible.
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7/10/2005 3:40 pm |
I think guys tat started off buying expensive gifts are bad signs. oh well, this is just my personal feeling.
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Hard to say who is right and who is wrong! Maybe she really should return his gifts as her boyfriend obviously would her to forget him and his love as well.So why keep these gifts indicating his love?
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7/10/2005 6:29 pm |
So will your friend return the gifts he bought for her? Most guys won't ask for them to return, but it depends on their situation I guess. But if he asks, then she should return. In this case it makes it easier for you to buy her a present right? Now she'll need some jewelry. 
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Travelling together is better gift. Thus, you can companion each other and have a good time, and it can not be returned.
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