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True Soulmate " One who looks for money, beauty, status or anything physical in a relationship will NEVER find true soulmate" quoted from Tana Devei Eliyahu Simply J |
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they NEVER find a true soulmate but they can find a long lasting material girl who always need a financial security but once the bank account is empty... feel SORRY for them. Well this is the reality Ate Jalo, money and status is what men offers to a women...of course they will accept it who doesn't want a wealthy man? Tsk! Tsak. Sad to say those kind only stay with their men because of material things...i've known some who still stay in marriage not because of love but due to money. But for majority of men they call this kind as "good and submissive women" and they beleive that this kind really love them, why not? the women cannot live with out her man, without his support and they are too depnedent and obey what their man will always told them...and the most important part is, this kind will accept everything what their men doing to them(cheating,laying etc.) as long as the man can provide a FINANCIAL SECURITY. Women who is independent enough,who doesn't need a money and love is not FOR SALE or in short who doesn't have a tag price considered as HARD WOMEN AND FAKE, Ironic but this is the reality once you decline men love offering in a form of FINANCIAL SUPPORT they will tell you that you are the worst women they ever meet and they are not sure about you on how long will you stay for them... But remember decent women LOVE men, simply because they LOVE YOU and not for whatever reason it may be...they will stay thru thick and thin if the love is real not based on finnacial and material aspects of life. I admire those women who is strong enough to brake the tie of marriage because they couldn't take anymore all the infidelity of their partners,choose to live with thier own than to do the same thing. Just wondering why men keep searching for women who is not materialistic and who is real but they keep using their wealth to attract a women they like??? You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same
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4/26/2007 8:36 am |
I totally agree, but as Dummy metioned before, it is still a really personal question. People look marriage and love in different ways, we do not have right to judge and say who is b=good and who is not good. Life is made by different people's eyes and thoughts, maybe some material women can live that with their happy life, u never know, right? But this is really good point, i agree that strong.
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4/26/2007 2:02 pm |
Of course, the quote is correct. If you are looking for a Soulmate then you have to nurture your soul and spirit. Soulmates have nothing to do with marriage per se.
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Mama J, your blog really made me think last night  As i am browsing to different dating sites,i saw those profile whos looking for their "soulmate" as in long term relationship,love and marriage...but i remember as i read before, that everyone of us can have a lot of soulmates, it could be your best friend,you neignbor,cousins, brothers etc. meaning to say that not all "soulmate" have something to do with romantic realtionship. However it can be associated with friendship,intimacy,sexuality,love and compatibility. I'll stop here now, i will wait for your further explanation (I know you have a long explanation about this matter) You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same
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It's funny how John Lennon found his soulmate, Yoko Ono, He went to art exhibit, got on a ladder, read the word, "yes" she had written on the ceiling and thought she meant she wanted to marry him. LOL! Well, whatever she ment it worked for him. Sometimes the oddest things bring us together.
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4/26/2007 8:59 pm |
It doesn't mean that the one you married is your soulmate. There are two soulmates. The one that help and the one that oppose.  Help soulmates are 100% on your side with continious support, help, love, passion and an eternal unconditional love and will NEVER, EVER hurt you. Opposition soulmates are teach a person by giving him challenge through emotional bitter lessons with pain and difficulties. Soulmates as we all know is our other half. Without it one is void or empty. True soulmate is the desire to reunite your souls together as ONE and refusing to allow anything physical or material distract or block your souls to be together. What you've written is one example of unconditional love for her family and children but your question tells me that there is some material or physical that blocks which might be selfishness to the part of Pierre. Have you asked these questions to yourself: 1. Do you want to be so different from that person? 2. Do you wish to actually be identical to that person, and be part of that person, in every single way? Thank you for your comments and you're always welcome here in my blog! Simply J
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4/26/2007 9:11 pm |
When you connect with your soulmate there is no intellect involved, you don't think about whether they are or are not your soulmate, you don't have to look beyond anything, a soulmate is a soul to soul completion, it is beyond thought and feeling. The only way the concept of a soulmate can be understood is to appreciate that we are spiritual beings having a human experience, so soulmates are spirit mates.
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4/27/2007 6:29 am |
I don't know how men and women think about this. I just find it the right and apropriate quotation for a friend who wants to leap on something she never knew.  I also agree with this!  Simply J
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4/27/2007 6:30 am |
I don't understand what you mean.  Will you please explain it to me more further?  Simply J
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4/27/2007 7:46 am |
they NEVER find a true soulmate but they can find a long lasting material girl who always need a financial security but once the bank account is empty... feel SORRY for them. Well this is the reality Ate Jalo, money and status is what men offers to a women...of course they will accept it who doesn't want a wealthy man? Tsk! Tsak. Sad to say those kind only stay with their men because of material things...i've known some who still stay in marriage not because of love but due to money. But for majority of men they call this kind as "good and submissive women" and they beleive that this kind really love them, why not? the women cannot live with out her man, without his support and they are too depnedent and obey what their man will always told them...and the most important part is, this kind will accept everything what their men doing to them(cheating,laying etc.) as long as the man can provide a FINANCIAL SECURITY. Women who is independent enough,who doesn't need a money and love is not FOR SALE or in short who doesn't have a tag price considered as HARD WOMEN AND FAKE, Ironic but this is the reality once you decline men love offering in a form of FINANCIAL SUPPORT they will tell you that you are the worst women they ever meet and they are not sure about you on how long will you stay for them... But remember decent women LOVE men, simply because they LOVE YOU and not for whatever reason it may be...they will stay thru thick and thin if the love is real not based on finnacial and material aspects of life. I admire those women who is strong enough to brake the tie of marriage because they couldn't take anymore all the infidelity of their partners,choose to live with thier own than to do the same thing. Just wondering why men keep searching for women who is not materialistic and who is real but they keep using their wealth to attract a women they like??? Ok, then let me ask you if the one who's offering you money, status, or anything that you like was your type of man, will you accept it? I think you will because of the physical chemistry between you and him. PHYSICAL CHEMISTRY in love and relationship, men and women are magnetically aroused and attracted to each other. There is a certain chemistry between men and women to fall in love with each other. They have the common factor to make their relationship whole and fulfilling. the woman cannot live without her man, without his support and they are too dependent and obey what their man will always told them There' nothing wrong being submissive to your partner as long he's doing the same thing for you. Remember , soulmates think, feel, the same. They have the same in common. The woman maybe desires to love selflessly and unconditionally to her partner but her partner don't know how to do the same for her instead cheats and lied. He created a negative blockages for the two of them to grow. Which I consider that people who don't know how to love are dead!  Another question: What are these men who offer material things to woman have in common? And why do they use their money to lure women? It's obvious, some men thought that they can show their love through their money. And this kind of love never lasts. Because there is no Physical love and spritual love between them. Last question: Can you show that kind of love that you're now saying to any man that offers you love without Physical attraction? Isn't it, it is best to show your love to the person whom you are really attracted to,  and both of your souls are communicating to each other, near or far. Both of your senses, feels and thinks the same.Don't worry my cutey sis, you'll find him because every person has a designated other half. Maybe it's traffic in Quiapo, he didn't make it on time to meet you in City Hall! Simply J
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4/27/2007 4:30 pm |
Your comment is identifying the difference between physical love and spiritual love. Physical love which is there for a short period of time. As you said the beauty, figure, or the physical "skin deep" beauty. Whereas, Spiritual love lasts for eternity. Such as kindness, forgiveness, and so on..... Not all men are attracted to women or vice versa, there must be a certain connection for both in thinking and thoughts. There must be wholeness and fullness in the relationship or the love is like a superficial animal-instinct sexual love, which usually fades within a few weeks. I think anyone can be a true soulmate to his partner if they want to share and give love to grow each other together, refusing to allow-in any destructive or negative energies into their relationship. Simply J
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4/27/2007 4:39 pm |
Of course, the quote is correct. If you are looking for a Soulmate then you have to nurture your soul and spirit. Soulmates have nothing to do with marriage per se. Soulmates are group of soulgroups living or dead. Soulmates may either be with you or oppose with you. Why do some soulmate oppose is that, most people must learn from bad and challenging relationships in order to teach a person important lesson, guide us to change, make correct decisions and correct good pathway that our souls will find inner peace. Simply J
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4/27/2007 4:48 pm |
It's funny how John Lennon found his soulmate, Yoko Ono, He went to art exhibit, got on a ladder, read the word, "yes" she had written on the ceiling and thought she meant she wanted to marry him. LOL! Well, whatever she ment it worked for him. Sometimes the oddest things bring us together. Simply J
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4/27/2007 8:01 pm |
You got that right again, SEXY CURIOUS! Soulmates are group of soulgroups living or dead. Soulmates may either be with you or oppose with you. Why do some soulmate oppose is that, most people must learn from bad and challenging relationships in order to teach a person important lesson, guide us to change, make correct decisions and correct good pathway that our souls will find inner peace.  I have had two soul mates that definitely fell into the 'bad and challenging' and also the simply 'challenging' relationships groups. Oh dear.
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4/29/2007 6:55 am |
absolutely right
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4/29/2007 7:49 am |
absolutely right  Simply J
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4/29/2007 7:51 am |
True enough Hot Mama I have had two soul mates that definitely fell into the 'bad and challenging' and also the simply 'challenging' relationships groups. Oh dear.  Simply J
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4/29/2007 2:10 pm |
Hard to agree or disagree with such a generalized statement. What do you mean by success? The focus in your comment appears to be on the spending habits of the woman and not on the income level of the man. So are you attaching an income level to success, i.e. the guy earns $100,000 a year or the guy earns $11,000 a year? So really, according to you, a successful woman is any woman who spends less than her husband earns and that probably accounts for most women.
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Finding one's soulmate must have been pre-destine or I might say by fate! Keeping the love alive is what counts most... Ingat ka d'yan palagi!
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4/29/2007 6:19 pm |
There are many succesful men and women who are not really happy in love as a whole. I don't know how they make the money and I don't know how many hours they spend to make money forgetting the ones waiting for him to go home. More money means more baggage that you keep your mind and heart to your money not to be taken away from you even feel the power to use money. Again, I consider this not success but they do not own their souls. They sold their souls to the devil! We know money can do anything with its powers. Good if you're going to use it to do good. Usually, they will find it very hard to find their soulmate because they prefer their riches. Everyone needs money, beauty and status in order to live. But excessiveness is not good. Simply J
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VERY TRUE... If one looks for something that can be touched or seen, or felt with any of our 5 senses... then one is doomed... since we can't feel the soul in such a way... ...damn... I should stop looking for a pretty girl then...  the flying squirrel strikes back    
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5/1/2007 7:40 am |
Finding one's soulmate must have been pre-destine or I might say by fate! Keeping the love alive is what counts most... Ingat ka d'yan palagi! Keeping the love alive! Only few can do that. If a person can love selfless then maybe they will grow together in love. But if they are going to let the negative and the bad energy enter their relationship, that's the end of love. Thanks huh. You're always sweet! Ikaw rin ingat! Simply J
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5/13/2007 6:20 am |
VERY TRUE... If one looks for something that can be touched or seen, or felt with any of our 5 senses... then one is doomed... since we can't feel the soul in such a way... ...damn... I should stop looking for a pretty girl then... It(s ok to to look for these things but be ready to learn from it's bitter fruit or you'll not find the right one for you! You're referrring to a Romantic Soulmate. Where the part of the couples making love is producing powerful energy of love specially itf it leads to pregnancy. Don't stiop looking, just keep learning from every relationship. Simply J
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5/14/2007 2:29 pm |
Hi Jalo, Quite ironic that in reading and talking about soulmates here that I met mine here in Toronto a couple of weeks ago. We met on another dating site, agreed to meet for coffee, looked at each other and... It wasn't a wild and crazy thing, it was a realization that we had known each other forever. Coffee turned into meeting for dinner later that same evening and the more we talked the more we realizied how connected we were and are. Quite amazing!! She is 59, same age as me, Irish and writes children's books among other things. Very down to earth and very spiritual at the same time. Interestingly enough, talking of soulmates, I was in a workshop this past weekend and another woman that I had dated from the same website who was participating in the workshop told me that a few days after our last dinner that she too had met her soulmate. Quite a dating website and it is free!
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5/16/2007 7:54 am |
I won't consider marriage that never lasts for long couples as soulmates. And I will agree to you as how rich couples have lasting relationship because they enjoy their money searching for their soulmates outside their relaionship. And again, they are not soulmates. There are couples, both are male, you know what I mean.....they lived together until their old age. We know that they cannot be married or binded together in the church. That didn't stop them to continue their relationship. They enjoy and love each other. Which means that soulmates are not only for man and woman couples. Soulmates when together feel whole and content and happy. Richness may separate them, but for others they believe that it makes them together secured. If the richness is used for good then these soulmates will last long. Usually, others meet their soulmates in their later lives after experiencing lot's of pain from past relationship. Some met their soulmates earlier and stays together til the end of their lives. Simply J
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