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toukki
(Ann )
43F
3985 posts
7/31/2007 7:23 pm

Last Read:
8/14/2007 7:15 am

Early signs of being insincere


How do u know the person is insincere?

You knew it when you see her smile did not reach her eyes.

The moment she speaks, she was trembling. Her words could not be heard properly.

She was avoiding eye contacts with you.

Her handshake merely touches the tip of your fingers.

Anymore to add? Please free feel to share.

Thank you.

belle902
(belle Q)
38F

8/1/2007 1:51 am

Ann, he/she ignores whatever you say...


toukki
(Ann )
43F

8/1/2007 4:57 pm

darting away is arrogant..... ignores are even worst. Speaking of darting away... i knew a friend who never lift up his head while speaking with others (except when hes taking photo). So i thought he was rude but my other friends said its a normal sign.


Ignimbrite
(Marco Brenna)
46M
602 posts
8/3/2007 5:12 am

when the words are not reflected in the facts...

the flying squirrel strikes back


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
8/3/2007 6:12 pm

When men lie they usually look down and to the left. The police use this to tell if crimminals are lying to them as well. Some men lie so much they can look you in the eye boldly, but not after doing that quick look to the left. I know, I saw it last night.


toukki
(Ann )
43F

8/3/2007 9:22 pm

Ing, that reflected lack of integrity and its insincere. These days, people lie just to keep themselves distance.

deb thank you for sharing this wonderful tip for me. I do find it interesting. I always find ppl who did that. Look down and to the left. LOL...... but i always look to the right to the sky . Any meaning in that?


oasispdc
(oasispdc )
46M

8/4/2007 6:21 am

When I talk to other people, I often assume they are sincere at first. But time will prove them sincere or insincere.

Please don't disturb a chicken before he hatches.


Elisazoz
(Elisa zoz)
50F
331 posts
8/11/2007 6:49 am

Feel it's hard to know clearly a person, especially some ppl can pretend how sincere they are. Sometimes, someone maybe little shy and conservative, so they can not express themselves well at beginning.

Time can say the truth and to see what they do instead of saying, to ask them questions also can show their different attitudes. You can feel their responses to know more things...

Hope it's helpful


toukki
(Ann )
43F

8/14/2007 7:15 am

oasispdc yeah, i used to think(and still thinks) people are sincere at the first sight. It does comes out ugly when u found out the truth, isnt it?

dealer thanks for sharing. You must have tonnes of experiences dealing with the biz people. Btw, i didnt know mimic is called insincere. I thought sometimes its funny (at times, i found its rather rude).

Elisazoz, you are right about the faking truth and the real truth. Sometimes, its just plain innocent, yet we do mistaken it as a lie. oh yeah, i do agreed with the method of asking various questions to testify the statements. I found it quite a good method hahaha. As we meet more people along the path, we tend to learn and avoid mistakes which we once fell.

cookie.. oh ewwwww... the new manager is so rude! limp handshake? i hate that. No spine. I presumed ur manager didnt even look at u when gave u the handshake huh? Must be a very pathetic person.


fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
11/15/2007 9:45 pm

Eyeballs rolling on each side and back...hands sweating...conversing in inconsistent details...Smirk with foolish grin...

I guess that's all I can remember so far...