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if u stumbled across ur bf used a condom,but u never used it... |
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11/17/2007 8:42 am |
it may just be a matter of appreciating that you are the one he returned to.. flings on business trips are just that.. first off why would anyone be silly enough to carry around a used condom.. and if you found it in your house then you might ask yourself first how did it get IN YOUR HOUSE, and if you found it at his house, then maybe you should put it in the trash and go about your business making and sharing your relationship.. BF implies that neither of you are married, or it could imply that both of you are married and have each other as side mates.. we don't know that.. by your question.. ask yourself.. are you treated nice, are you treated kind, are you being show and shared appreciation... if so.. why not work on that.. everyone claims sex is so unimportant .. but they sure will throw a relationship ( that is suppose to be about really caring about another in a zillion other ways) but they will toss that quickly behind sex.. so in principal.. sex seems to be more powerful than all the other stuff people claim to be more important.
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11/17/2007 10:36 am |
....of course sex is important...more important as we get older because we know not just how to do it better but know how to give it better and know how to enjoy taking it better and that is why most gals prefer senior men....... A good moment last for ever...till its time again to renew........anyway...which silly men carry a used condom?...i have not used one since 1997....NOT even once since then !
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11/17/2007 12:20 pm |
I'm not a big fan of condoms, I like clean women.. disease free. but I use it if/when in a situation where I don't know what's the over all is. YOU JUST CAN'T TRUST EVERYONE NOW DAYS 
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11/17/2007 12:22 pm |
vyvonne.. IF YOU LEAVE HIM IT MAY BE FOR BEING UNSANITARY AND NOT DISPOSING OF HIS WASTE MATERIAL.. OR STUPID ENOUGH TO CLING TO USED CONDOMS..
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i would ask him why there is a used condom though i really doubt he would carry a used condom around with him. If by chance he carries used condoms around with him i would leave him for that reason not the reason of him cheating. But if its in his apartment i would investigate the matter and ask him whats going on...it could be a friend of his decided to do it on his bed..(yuck)
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11/17/2007 9:04 pm |
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11/18/2007 8:41 am |
when people travel they may do many things.. and most don't come back and tell... so you might want to figure out if you want the guy rather than tripping becase of a casual sex experience.. the way life is today.. people may just have to come to terms that much sex goes on all over the place.. but it really may come down to the simple matter of where a person heart desire is to be, and they generally come home to that.. people have sex.. and both of them may understand it's just sex and both of them may go along their way when it's done.. it happens everyday in life.. his utter stupidity is keeping a used condom.. did you go looking for it or did you just happen upon it.. becase in this world if you go looking for something .. you will probably find it.. so don't look for anything you are not prepared to find..
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11/19/2007 3:57 pm |
we should always face the issue at the start instead of letting it lay hidden because it may then get worse and the outcome would be more sever.
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11/20/2007 8:18 pm |
How could you stop him from having sex with another woman if he's far from you? And why does he have to bring home that thing for you to see? I doubt, is he trying to impress you that he's macho? Or he's showing you that he cheated on you? Whatever it is, he should be more careful for evidence and proofs.  And if there is evidence, why ask? and why does he have to deny it? I can't understand why does it have to be seen.Simply J
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1 post 11/24/2007 10:41 pm |
HEY YVONNE, IF YOUR SEX LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP IS GOOD THERE IS NO NEED FOR HIM TO BRING A CONDOM WITH HIM . TRUST IS IMPORTANT AND GIVING HIM SOME SPACE. BY DOING THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL BLOSSOM. DONT BE THE NAG GF, THAT WILL DEFINITELY DESTROY WHATEVER U HAVE. I BELIEVE STRONGLY THAT SEX STRENGTHENS THE RELATIONSHIP. SO BE A WOMAN AND NOT A GIRL. IF U WANT HIM TO LEAVE THE CONDOMS AT HOME
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hahaha... I kind of get the feeling that a lot of people misunderstood you and thought that you actually found a used condom...   the flying squirrel strikes back     
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