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No money no honey Yep..... dat is how the ladies here will eventually come to.....so might as well scare them early with the truth  So...I revised my profile that ..... ladies wont want me unless they are beyond rich and want me for what I am........ and that is the absolute truth  So.... this site is just for blogging and friendship. To get a lover-wife,,,,,, got to go elsewhere. 
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9/21/2007 5:18 am |
I remember a parable that I will rephrase here. A Christian prayed asking God to sent him a woman of his dream. Soon a plain looking lady passed by and he befriended her but discovered that she only pass certain criteria of his dream Then he asked God to sent someone closer to his dream Another plain looking lady passed by and again he dropped her after some time. Again he prayed ....Hey God, I only asked you for a simple request. Is that so difficult? OK..God fulfilled and sent him exactly what he wanted. One look the guy sang to God, "GREAT IS MY GOD!", and had a real wild time testing out his God sent gift. In the mist of his excitement and happiness, he died of exhaustion. On entering heaven, he asked God why God took his life. God said, My child, I sent you the best that I know is best for you so that both you can be in tandem in everything but you simply depleted the good life that i gave you and now she is a sad widow. Morale of the story is know what is best for the life we have now and ahead and walk into any relationship with your eyes, heart and mind wide open. What we see outright may not be right for us. What is right for us may take time to know and many things have to be discovered over time and that makes things more exciting to cheerish.
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9/20/2007 8:11 pm |
Yes, you are right about the sad truth. However, one thing I was wondering is how you would present yourself on this site,if you had money. Would you choose to advertise here showing everyone how wealthy you were in order to be able to be more attractive to ladies here, or would you just show people the true self with the fortune left unsaid? In the former situation, then how could you distinguish the ladies, who like you for who you are, from those who are attracted to you just for money? Just a question, hope it doesn't get you offended. You seem to be very frank and nice, please don't be too disappointed, not 100% women in this world are gold-diggers. I believe there will be a Goldwoman out there in this world for you, it's just a matter of time. Good luck! I am NOT at all offended. As very few discovered for themselves, I am frank. As for nice, it depends on if we click and few say I am nice and the whole majority would have no comment till we have ample exchanges. Indeed I presented the true me on this site which is poor. When (notice I dont say 'if') I am rich, perhaps (NOT otherwise) I may not come to this site as it needs time and pleasure to write. Well my richer friends had no time for this casual site. They said it offers much lower returns for their expensive time. Perhaps the same can also be said of ladies, hence finding a Goldwoman here is a JOKE. Sorry, I dont put ANY effort to distinguish the ladies which ladies like or dont like me. That kind of effort create undesired stress. I just go with the flow in the natural process of friendship. Here I made friends both MEN and LADIES. NO... I NEVER believe nor would I want to dwell time in believing there is a Goldwoman here waiting for me to seek her. I am here for friendships mainly as pen pals, and if I enjoy their company, then I may decide to host them if they are passing by my way. Indeed there are GoldwomEn in China..... just that they are not on this site. I have no problem knowing a FEW, not just ONE....and they all know I am on this site to make friends and for casual writings to relax my mind. I do lots of serious writings, and I mean A LOT, A LOT. and have interesting people who responded so that I could write more casual stuff....and sometimes offer my two-cents-worth. Thanks for your wish and may your desires come true as well. The GOLDMAN
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9/20/2007 11:09 am |
Yes, you are right about the sad truth. However, one thing I was wondering is how you would present yourself on this site,if you had money. Would you choose to advertise here showing everyone how wealthy you were in order to be able to be more attractive to ladies here, or would you just show people the true self with the fortune left unsaid? In the former situation, then how could you distinguish the ladies, who like you for who you are, from those who are attracted to you just for money? Just a question, hope it doesn't get you offended. You seem to be very frank and nice, please don't be too disappointed, not 100% women in this world are gold-diggers. I believe there will be a Goldwoman out there in this world for you, it's just a matter of time. Good luck!
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Huh ?#%?
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Huh!!?? Ash 
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9/20/2007 7:35 am |
go....thanks  and you too.
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