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Trust or Doubt or Neither? Hi all....guess i been out for a long time from writing blogs here  time to crack and fry up some braincells with my nonsense....kinda getting rusty here myself...~~wonder aloud wheres the sandpaper~~Today i wanna blab about trusting and doubting ppl in our lives....i have 3 choices here for u guys to choose and after choosing which one that suit u guys....pray tell why u choose that ok?  look forward to hear ur comments and opinions (A) do u trust and believe a person totally till they prove u wrong OR (B ) do u doubt and be skeptical of whatever the person do or say till they prove themselves OR (C) do u not believe or trust anybody at all...no matter what they say or do P/s: i fall under category (B ) Viva La Vida |
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8/5/2007 1:08 am |
I prefer A. Please don't disturb a chicken before he hatches.
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8/5/2007 4:10 am |
ah yi, i go for B too coz u cant just buy trust at any 24 hours convenience store..  
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Sifu, I am an "A" too but I am paying the price dearly as mentioned by xecroles. I am working on the combination and mostly it depends on the individual and situations too. I guess I will hope for the best meanwhile be prepared for the worst! Ash 
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xerocles & ash....yep thats normally the case for ppl who adapt (A) in their lives....though they kept reminding themselves after a few bumps in the head...that they will change...but nope....bad habit dies hard as they say nothing u can do to change much...its just ur character goanna.....i know what u mean....but what im saying most of the time how would u react....u couldnt be that partial all the time right.....ur just human unless..... belle....yep trust has to be earn not bestow or bought  oasis...thx for dropping by but u didnt tell us why urs is A In my own opinion for ppl (not just u guys but friends in my real world) that chose (A) ur always the one of the losing and hurting end...but yet they rather be that way coz they are born and taught like that with that kinda mentality they rather not hurt others but cant escape from being hurt themselves...but then they would still go on trusting ppl As for ppl who chose (  ...and this i speak from my own experiences...i rather protect myself and be skeptical of whatever ppl say or do...why? nobody wanna get hurt right?  but then sometimes we do lose faith and ppl that really meant well will see us as paranoia  in other words...being skeptical does make us lose sight and some things that good for us End of the day we just cant win.....gain some lose some....so long we are happy and dont hurt others....our conscience stay clear and above the line Have a wonderful and funky weekend guys!!!! Viva La Vida
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Sifu , Honestly, before I was a "A" person. But like what you said, after a few bumps in my head, I rather be a "B" person. At least that's a better way to protect ourself, right? Kawaiibear  
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Bear....yep....after getting hurt a few times.....we call it a day and enough is enough hence its time to evolve to (B )...but then it boils down to our characteristic just cant shake it off Viva La Vida
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