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Love OR Be Love? This a very common question but then theres no common answers to this.....tell me if u have to choose...would u:- (1) Be with the one u love OR (2) Be with the one that love u Rem....u must only choose one and tell me the reason why u choose that  Hope to hear from u guys out there and share with us ur sentiments  Viva La Vida |
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4/27/2007 6:30 pm |
If I must only choose one then I choose (3). To be with the beloved one who loves me too. Please don't disturb a chicken before he hatches.
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1 post 4/27/2007 7:32 pm |
This is a very easy choice of course it have to be !!! NR 1 you ask why maybe??? if i am in situation NR 2 it must be a hell, for both of us,she give me love,but there is no love from my heart.nobody can treat a girl like this . and still think he is a man, its basic sense. remember now we look from the mans side. and since i love here of course she love me also . it was easy to read between the lines. p:s since you are girl i take fore granted this is a question that is pointed to the man.
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4/28/2007 8:15 am |
viva ah yi, i guess be with the one who loves me,simply b/c as time goes by though not realizing it...u may found urself already fallin for this particular person surprisingly  regards ah yi  Belle bao bei
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When you love smone u know what you are doing. Not the other way. You oftentimes don't even know exactly why smbody loves u.
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hmm, neither, as I Love no one who does not Love me back. And I would not torture anyone whom I don't love.
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4/28/2007 7:28 pm |
Viva masta, In my opinion, I would choose 1). Why? Sometimes love word can be tricky and can be misunderstood it in a wrong context. I can love a friend simply because i care for the person but i'm not putting all my feeling, my heart to say "wow..this is the person i want to spend my life with".
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Sifu  ,People who will choose #1 usually tend to have stronger personalities. They can stand the end result if the other side doesn't like them. For me, I will choose #2 Be with the one that love u hopping as time goes by, will grow fondness in someone. I don't think I can stand rejection. Best Regards, KawaiiBear (Tai tau dai) 
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4/29/2007 3:56 am |
I chose #2  I got so fed up of choosing someone to love LOL......
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peregrin...boej....aloha....and simple chose #1 belle.....bear and toukki chose #2 anac....goanna....pup didnt choose any but input some insight about love oasis...theres no option #3...so stay within the options given....nwo dont be shy and tell us  ****************************************************************** Heres my sentiment.....most ppl in the beginning would choose #1....coz its meaningful to love .....and if u notice....most gals tend to choose #2....i said most but not all as bear said...those that choose #1...they are much stronger in character and optimisticAfter some time when those who chose #1...they felt its too tired chasing and loving but in the end things doesnt work and worst of all not even appreciated...so the next relationship will be #2 anac....its hard to imagine myself as gold digger though  This brings me think.....during our grandparents day and era......its arrange marriage....no such thing as "i marry who i choose to love".....its funny that their marriage actually lasted longer ...some for life compared to marriages this era and generation....of course theres factors that different from then and now.....those era not much entertainment....technology and media not widely available.....so that kinda force them to be stuck and be family orientated Personally i would choose #1....i will persist on giving and loving....if he loves me back as much...thats a bonus....if that fails and doesnt work...at least i find comfort in it that i did and gave my best.....but then i might be tempted to choose #2 after many rounds failures.....on second thought would i be happy and able to reciprocate that kinda love?  Actually i overheard this topic on my local radio station hence i wanna share with u guys and hear ur guys sentiments....btw boej....this blog aint aimed and posted for guys (as in MALE) it unisex Basically..doesnt matter u guys choose #1 or #2....bottomline ur happy and those who think they cant find any love and will be single for the rest of their life....its not that bad or unlucky at all.....sometimes being alone is a BLISS....and alone doesnt mean ur lonely.....have a wonderful and funky week ahead of u all.....  Viva La Vida
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Am I being unreasonable when I say that you want to be with someone who will love you as much as you love them? R
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Russel...ltns hows life? anyway its not unreasonable NOR reasonable....yeah sure everyone wished that...but then how often theres such cases and whats the chances of u meeting that particular person that loves u just as much u love them esp in this era? I would dare say that in most cases its either u be with the one u love or love u situation.....its a very tricky and difficult choice Viva La Vida
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Sifu, Sometimes life just fills with surprises...and never say never. Also, just as you mentioned...you opened up your heart and tried your best. If things didn't work out...you already knew you tried and gave your best. Thus, nothing to regret! Although I know it is easy to say then done but as you advised me before..life is not easy whether we like it or not! Ash
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7/1/2007 7:14 am |
Hi Vivababe, if there are only these two possibilities I would choose 2) the one who loves me because I think love is a strong power sometimes so strong that you will learn by the love of the person who loves me to love her for his love and so I think the chance for a happy end is much higher than by choosing 1) best greetings Tangoturtle
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