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Meeting Women it's always an interesting thing, some are met by attraction, some are met by working in the same environment, some are met while dealing with situations, and every way imaginable. What the meeting becomes, depend on both parties.  sometime desire does not match attraction, and sometime, at first desires may not match attraction, but through interacting they may find they are attracted. timing, situation and circumstance, of where individual focus is; can have a big impact on what it becomes. choosing what is liked is many times, many things, and one aspect can over rule another, and what may be not highly focused on in one aspect, may find something totally unique about the individual which fires up desires, where other aspects become not so much of rejection points. smiles seem to work both for men and women, laughter works well for both, and the openness to learn from and learn with each other, can open up a whole new appreciation point within whom is met. respect for ability, and capability- can give more insight into the person, and arouse a desires that transcends the physical things one may have in their fantasy concepts, and they come to like the reality of the individual. eyes that smile, do more than eyes that look with the scorn of critique- and material matter can become less important, when the character matter becomes more important. sex is what it is, and it becomes what ever two people share it to be. its as good as you want and think it to be, and its not as good if you choose to think it so. Fair play wins, games make two losers, not one. if games destroy what could be, both people loose, because life is such, that there is no way of knowing how good anything can become. but people choose to make things become as bad as they may be made to be. kiss like you want to kiss, and appreciate it like you want to be kissed... the prescription of how its done, depends on the moment its done, so judge it not too harshly, for as with all things, with the development of timing. talk about the world of life, because your living is within the whole of the world, and you may find out how invigorating communicating can be. for men, he role is not to fit your script, nor is your role to fit her script.. but the matter is for the natural communicating to develop its own script... and both then are free to be themselves. don't expect before you learn to respect- and disappointments may be far fewer and surely less frequent. Men meeting Women and Women meeting Men- can be the wonderful blessing it is naturally designed to be... |
