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what is different ? lots people have asked me ,why am i only love in women and what's different between women's love and mens. I have responded to about first question , i thought that's from natively. just like them and wanna love them more and more .Because they are lovely, pretty,clever and for sure that's they are deserved to be loved. what's different between women's love and mens ? i have to say that's about feeling. when men like someone, they would make themselves happy; but when women like someone ,they would make the partner happy ,and then they will naturally feel happy .it is different! 
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4/17/2008 10:31 am |
I understand, I also prefer women  Cuddles
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well it is about feeling...you feel you are loved more from women than men, but that doesnt mean women love more than men. You can simply just tell people that being a lesbian is simply your preference.... Why do i love men? its my preference i prefer the love of a man than that of a woman. simple
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1/21/2008 6:36 pm |
that's a matter of perspective... one choose to make what is chosen the order or the choice.. a woman will get with a woman and want to give.. women get with men and conditionally give.. so it's a matter of a woman letting herself be herself with a woman, where she manages herself with a man as if it's a business arrangment. waiting on him to give or do something that meets a condition before she express or share of herself.. but with a woman she goes and give cause she want to make the other woman feel good.. many women have never developed their minds to know how to be as giving with a man as they are with a woman.. so if one is in a situation and allow themselves to be naturally better in their expressions, they will surely consider what they do to be better.. never knowing it's really a matter they allowed themselves to be as best they can without conditions.. and "pleasure" is like a drug, it will consume the weak, give refuge to the fearful and lead the confused... and thus bonds are made and thru such. either of the same women.. will get with a man and claim every thing imaginable of why they are not motivated or how they don't do this or that, but with a woman they can't talk enough about what they want to do and they are then more self assertive, where as with a man they are laying back waiting on him to make a move first.. and then they become a responder and not an initiator... but if you understand that... it's realism.. beyond that.. like what you like and whom you like and thats how simple it really is. but, for sure the learning of the "whys.. is more in-depth than a surface skim.. people are complex but yet simple.. and when passion and pleasure is made to be of an ease they are then motivated to desire the bonding moreso.. as they become then more emotionally and conscientiously entwined. the easiest thing in life is the propensity for a woman to become in love with another woman.. but the challenge in life is brought full circle in what it takes for a man and woman to love... nature made it so... it may even be more natural than is really acknowledged for a relationship be comprised of two women and a man... because even if a woman is with a man.. she will retain a woman friend that she equally so has affectionate relations with.. History is replete with multiple women and man relationship through-out any and all cultures in the historical make of of the social process.
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