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More thoughts about women.... It annoys me that I have trouble finding a wife. Either women are stupid or they are afraid of me. Since women never directly tell me their thoughts about myself (online), I am left to guess. You have to understand - I have to guess. This post is the result of frustration. Maybe I'm in the wrong crowd. But I can't find the 'right' crowd. If I use a site with American women only, then things are even worse. Women don't even look at my profile. I don't drink or smoke, so that should mean something to a woman, but they don't seem to care. I also don't believe in any religion, which means I think clearly. Anyone with even a slight amount of intelligence can see that religion is total nonsense. For example, Christians believe in Hell. They are clearly quite insane for believing in such a place. Maybe they like the idea of suffering eternally. In that case, they are still insane. Although you may disagree considerably, I think it's better to reveal negative thoughts rather than keep them locked up. I'm a little less frustrated now and these are some of my guesses as to why it's so difficult for me to find a wife: 1. Some women do not read the sheer amount of material that I do. This makes them unable to talk on my level, or too afraid to try. For example, some women have called me 'the smartest man they've ever met'. This makes me wonder what type of men they usually talk to. (Note: I have met some women that have no problems understanding me. But they always have boyfriends or are married.) 2. Some women are only interested in the acquisition of material objects. Since my interest is the acquisition of knowlegde, such a woman could never understand me, nor could I understand her. 3. Some women do not like or do not understand sarcasm. I can be very sarcastic and that may turn away some women. 4. I'm not religious. Some women only look for men that are religious, which leads them to falsely believe that the man has good morals. It is utter nonsense to think that a religious man is more moral than a non-religious man. Both types of men are human (whether they like it or not) and are thus quite capable of committing heinous crimes. |
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1/10/2008 11:07 am |
read the magazine question that Kott posted.
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1/10/2008 11:18 am |
if you want to meet a woman.. use a sense of humor with them.. not plain silliness but humor and the light nature flow of stuff.. they panic when hard line opinions are expressed and they don't convey humor and laughter within it.. they take the hard line commentary as if the guy takes things too serious and will be uptight.. don't think that means they don't want to see the responsible side of you.. but with humor and flow... look around.. women like to laugh no matter where you go .. they like to laugh.. and if you think about the many mane that they see.. they see every demeanor you can imagine.. and they know as much about eh loose side of things as they do about the straight laced side.. and they are not some angels.. they are just people.. nice and some not as nice as others but nice in their own ways... if you come off like you can be taken for a song and a dance they will sing and dance.. but if you convey that you are not paying for a tap dance.. they can adjust.. a woman is a natural sales person by nature.. and they can change up the demeanor for the mood... you go to look thru and see the person beyond the antics.. there is not a pretty woman walking that does not know the game .. and does not have game.. it's just a matter of when they engage it... but if you want deal with them.. know how and wen to look in their eyes.. that does not mean just stand there and gaze in their eyes.. cause if you do they will run you thru a trick back of every sort if they choose.. you got to know when to look them in the eyes and how.. and it cuts right thru the BS. some women meet guys and they want to bang him as much as he wants to bang her... but she has to worry about if she can get rid of him if she wants too afterwards without it becomming a bad situation.. and if they can do so and have no damage to the integrity of each other... if they find that... they will bang his stuff in the ground and laugh with in him like best buddies.. and become a good friend. it's all in the flow and the manner of it.. so Relax.. and go out to enjoy them.. but be yourself and let them gravitate to you.. they know very well how to do it.. they will put themselves in your path, and get in the proximity that you can see them and they can see you, and if they have to they will find some impromptu way to bump into you or create a sitution where you interact... I've never seen one that I like that I did not get to or she put herself in a manner where we can interact... it's just nature.. people are attracted by so many variable.. it's never any one set thing.
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1/10/2008 11:28 am |
think about it.. if a girl throws herself all over you.. you become reluctantly apprehensive in expressiveness.. and the same thing is with a woman, if a guy throws himself all over her she is going to be reluctantly apprehensive in her expressiveness. ever notice that people become connected more quickly when they meet in a situation.. say you are standing in a crow and some incident happen and you start talking about it.. then you have a lead in that become more natural.. it's kind of hard to start a conversation based on her being pretty to look at .. it can be sprinkled in .. but it surely can't become the main focus of the conversation... regardless how much the urge is to be infatuated with her look... because it's only a look... you got to see some of her that is behind the look...
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1/10/2008 11:34 am |
you said: COLOR red]I also don't believe in any religion, which means I think clearly. you may need to manage that thought.. because it conveys that you are condemning someones religion or choice to be religious.. who can you even define your clear thinking to not being religious... if you live in a religious enviornment based on variables of religious values then that is aspiring to religion.. the religion of life being about people.. religion in point and application ,, simply means "a devotional indulgence". so you have a devotional indulgence not to aspire to a particular religion.. and you >'religiously hold that view.. so that's "religion". now if you want to talk about denominational religious philosophies.. that's a whole different matter. of religious applications and philosophical aspirations.
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1. stop looking so down on women its a turn off 2. dont be so aggressive 3. stop being so self obsorbed 4. respect other peoples opinions even if you dont agree with them 5. if you dont like materialist women who dont appreciate sarcasm then dont go after that type of woman. there are plenty of women out there who are not religious enjoy sarcasm and are willing to give up materialist stuff for the greater good. 6. Find someone on your educational level Maybe you should go visit places that hold your interest and try to pick up women in those areas. good luck!
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1/10/2008 3:38 pm |
1. stop looking so down on women its a turn off 2. dont be so aggressive 3. stop being so self obsorbed 4. respect other peoples opinions even if you dont agree with them 5. if you dont like materialist women who dont appreciate sarcasm then dont go after that type of woman. there are plenty of women out there who are not religious enjoy sarcasm and are willing to give up materialist stuff for the greater good. 6. Find someone on your educational level Maybe you should go visit places that hold your interest and try to pick up women in those areas. good luck! most of the stuff I write about what women do.. I find that too in talking with them, you first have to understand their logic behind why they do things.. and then you can understand them better.. reality is .. they are working hard at life just as us men are.. and they face challenges that sometimes are far different than we as men face and they get pissed at men just as men get pissed at them.. one thing is constantly true in any situation.. people want to be "respected" they at many times don't even care if you don't agree with them.. they care that you respect their right to think their own thoughts.. and if you have something that can enlighten them to try something different or approach things in a different way.. they listen.. they may not change in the flash of a moment but it does not mean they did not listen.. One thing we as men have to never forget.. women are always under a lot of pressure of social scruitny... and they struggle very hard to overcome that and something they do may seem brash but it's just at many times their way of asserting themselves to try and pave a way for themselves to be respected.. it takes a lot of compassionate understanding in self and of others to relate with people.. and with women.. when they know they are trusted and respected.. they will then let their beauty be all over the pace in a glow of their spirit.. and as I said.. try humor.. and have a light hearted disposition in situation and you may find .. there are some wonderful women... I write stuff.. that many feel is negative.. and if you read it thru, it always is trying to say and show that it's not necessary always to play games an make use of or encroach on other and this applies equally so for men.. I write about women becasue I like women.. not men, so I write stuff that women can reflect on and many inspire a reflection of thought to see that as not being a way that she wants to be perceived.. and some women who read my stuff get that from it.. some just take it get razzed at the part that rub them ... but as with all life facing truths is always and will always be a challenge in life. but we have to do it.. if we want a better quality of living experiences. you will be fine .. just relax.. and about the intellegence things.. don't put too much stock in your view of your intellegence.. .. becase in life there's always more to learn . Remember Socrates.. any time you think you are too smart.. " Socrates was a wise man. He had wisdom because he knew only one thing: that he knew nothing . " then you can relax and even laugh at yourself at times.. when you can do that.. then you can laugh with other's easier..
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1/10/2008 3:52 pm |
Try: R.E.S.P.E.C.T. !!! Of course, you'll also have to change 99% of your attitude. Al
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Quote "I have met some women that have no problems understanding me. But they always have boyfriends or are married".... but at least they are out there ! Where did you meet them ? Hang out in those places. Eventually you will meet one who is single, doesn't smoke and is tee-total ! May your God go with you.
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