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flower_princess 53F
141 posts
8/11/2008 6:18 pm

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8/22/2008 12:20 am

Help me forget!

Is there a way to help me erase in my mind a certain situations, people, memories, words, ambitions and dreams?


elle7806 45F
598 posts
8/15/2008 7:33 am

they say you have to accept things, forgive and forget...but between the two of us I am the one who always forgive but never forget and you are the one who is more kind and softhearted (that is what i know) so i am sure soon time wil come that you will forget with the help of the pleasant experience that is happening to you.

see yah

You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same


flower_princess 53F

8/18/2008 4:45 am

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What if the new and pleasant memories made me want to forget????


flower_princess 53F

8/18/2008 4:47 am

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Thanx Nan....i'm feelin' fine and will chat with you on the other side. I've already had checked it and will reply later.

Don't worry, i'll be fine. Maybe it's just the moment that I don't want to feel anger rather feel sad about a person I know.


flower_princess 53F

8/18/2008 4:49 am

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I really can't forget and I am the person who collects a lot of memories and treasure them even the painful ones. I feel like being selfish of a thought of not wanted and not needed. Maybe I will get through this as time goes by.


flower_princess 53F

8/19/2008 5:50 pm

    Quoting elle7806:
    they say you have to accept things, forgive and forget...but between the two of us I am the one who always forgive but never forget and you are the one who is more kind and softhearted (that is what i know) so i am sure soon time wil come that you will forget with the help of the pleasant experience that is happening to you.

    see yah
Sis, the same question that I wanted to ask you again and again whenever we have the chance to talk even on phone........WHY DO WE LIKE PEOPLE WHO WOULD ONLY GIVE US PAIN?

I thought that the pleasant things will make me happy and well motivated but it turned out to be my pain.


flower_princess 53F

8/19/2008 5:51 pm

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Because you are happy!


flower_princess 53F

8/19/2008 5:52 pm

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Thanks for your wonderful thoughts about the situation that i'm going through. You are right and you got the point of what I really feel inside.


elle7806 45F
598 posts
8/21/2008 3:44 am

    Quoting flower_princess:
    Sis, the same question that I wanted to ask you again and again whenever we have the chance to talk even on phone........WHY DO WE LIKE PEOPLE WHO WOULD ONLY GIVE US PAIN?

    I thought that the pleasant things will make me happy and well motivated but it turned out to be my pain.
Well, I have an answer for that... juts give me call he he he

in economics there is two types of buyers/consumers, the rational and irrational...the first one is buy pruducts with a lower price enjoying the same benefits of the higher price goods, while the 2nd is more on paying high price goods with the same benefits that the lower price goods can offer, what is the connection, well I don't know!!! HA HA HA HA

In short in human there is also rational and irational people...rational because we should accept the fact that we can't control the other people feelings towards us, we cannot tell them to love us back or treat us well...irrattional because eventhough we know that they didn't love us or like us, we still want them, Its like satisafying your needs and wants...

Remember needs and wants are two different things.
Well you know what i mean

If its really for us then its for us but if not, we can't do something about it but to let go and wish them to be happy.

Cheer up

You laugh at me bec i am different, i laugh at you because you're all the same


flower_princess 53F

8/22/2008 12:20 am

    Quoting elle7806:
    Well, I have an answer for that... juts give me call he he he

    in economics there is two types of buyers/consumers, the rational and irrational...the first one is buy pruducts with a lower price enjoying the same benefits of the higher price goods, while the 2nd is more on paying high price goods with the same benefits that the lower price goods can offer, what is the connection, well I don't know!!! HA HA HA HA

    In short in human there is also rational and irational people...rational because we should accept the fact that we can't control the other people feelings towards us, we cannot tell them to love us back or treat us well...irrattional because eventhough we know that they didn't love us or like us, we still want them, Its like satisafying your needs and wants...

    Remember needs and wants are two different things.
    Well you know what i mean

    If its really for us then its for us but if not, we can't do something about it but to let go and wish them to be happy.

    Cheer up
Know what Sis.....I think consumers nowadays are going to bargain where they can buy wash and tear and buy another one when it's torn ha ha ha ha

And you're right again.....i'm satisfied being just the one who give peace and the other one giving problem ha ha ha ha and they can live happily ever after. I was the one who make pasaya to him and when he's happy bati nanaman sila. He learns to forgive the other dahil sa kin, because pinasaya ko na naman sha. ha ha ha hah a

I need to chugi myself and I wanted to see what will happen sa kanila. I think he's happy being treated that way. and tange no!!!!!!


touch213 70M

9/14/2008 10:41 am

work through it don't forget it, you work thru it each step replacing it with new understanding about old things, and relearning what you know, with a different flavor of feeling... and it's step by step.. taking us to the next phase in our growth.... when you know that.. then the step become much easier to take.. and before you know it.. you've walked from the high mountain top that is covered with clouds,.. back down into the valley where the flower are in spring bloom..

"sing" when you feel like crying.. and you will find.. that the song shows you your sensitive beauty... "

that's how simple life unfold us what is us.. as individuals..