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Guy Well, how do I word this. Let's see, I was working as a teacher at a horrible place. That's not an exageration. Anyway, this guy there seemed to take an interest in me. He'd stop his class a little early and just stand in his door looking into mine. Sometimes I'd close the door. LOL! So horrid, I know, but I liked another guy. Anyway,now I regret it. I've begun to see how charming and sweet he is. But now the problem is, he still thinks that I like the other guy. So today he just handed me some stuff that I'd left at work and walked off. Barely said two words. I'd overheard him say that he didn't want me if I was still seeing that other guy. But I was never seeing the other guy. I think he doesn't even want me talking to him. I don't want to talk to that guy though and I don't know how to let the guy I like know. And if I say the word "guy" one more time I'll explode...haaaaaaaaaaaaaa |
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5/27/2008 8:28 pm |
create the chance.... life provides it's gifts with all it's bonouses unto the engaging.. you are only going to live once, why do so building situation of potential regret.. communicating .. clarifies many things, before we make snap judgments about them... if only we as people give life and self that chance..
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5/28/2008 7:40 am |
Look back at Greek and Roman History, before the time of Constantine.. women were as free to engage men, as men are to engage women...
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Pup, why don`t you be extra friendly with him? that will send the message, then as conversation flows, invite for a coffee, let him know that you`re interested on him and not seeing this first guy. That how simple
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All good advice folks, but here's the latest. Last night my best friend, her husband and I went to a bar. He was there alone eating. I said "hi" and introduced my friends. He barely said two words again, so we moved on to another table. Today, I saw him from afar going to his car. There was a woman in front of him, probably from the bar. I don't understand how men say women are fickle when they are more so. Well, we're not married, so he can see whom ever he wants. I can too. Anyway, I'll not go out of my way anymore to see him. I guess I'm back to closing the door on him. I knew I had a good reason to do that, I just didn't know it at the time, lol!
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5/29/2008 12:36 pm |
well women want to be chased, but when they have to put a bit of extra effort, they sudden don't.. that may be a point to ponder... if its something you want, and it does not fall all over itself on first approach, then you give up>> WHY".. should he have been all "ga-ga" , because you spoke ?? if people want relations, then put in the work to build it and cultivate it... being female, is not something that, just because she likes someone, and says hi, that the guy is suppose to just go bonkers, with glee and fall all over the place.. NOPE... that's not realism.. and if he came on to you, acting all infatuated, you'd be ready to run him around the block trying to see how quick he get's tired. no you got to at least walk down the bock, and you are ready to quit.
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5/29/2008 12:46 pm |
I had a woman come to my house, and she did her posing and strutting, and such, and the more I tried to talk to her friendly, the more she kept posturing, with that " are you going to hit on me attitude".. all she can seem to think is, I'm a woman,and I got big breast and big butt, and other guys are asking me for it, why are you not".. and she never heard a word about anything I was talking about, and then came that , cycle of .. I guess I better go, 5 min. later , I guess I better go... such annoying stuff.. as if she's saying, well if you don't jump this, I'm leaving... but she could not talk about friendship and the nature that there was not going to be some "in love situation".. but if she wanted to be friends and do something, then be so.. why would I jump on anything, that conveys more that, Oh, if you touch this , you are my boyfriend.. !! so in such a situation.. I'm not touching anything... but if she was interested in being anything, then relax and stop trying to use butt and breast to catch and hold and then without a doubt comes the control tactics... because ... nothing was discussed or heard about anything... the I am woman, you will fall for this, without any discussion about anything... !!!! well.. I'm not that foolish.. because I did not jump for it, have not heard a word from her. but if she just wanted to get that booty rocked, then she could have been woman enough to engage the conversation to get that communicated. that's just how people end up in sideways situations..
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I agree with Ann, it should be two way street. So, if he shows no interest, hmm, go your way, look for another bus...you deserved a better one
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Graceful, Oh, I had to delete that last comment from my comment and my comment because I got the site wrong. LOL! Deb Shhhhhh, EZ, what if it's you and then everyone will know...not. Haaaaaaa, go ahead and bite me.
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EZ, Not my type? My profile must say, "And NO men like EZ", haaaaaa....
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