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mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1171 posts
6/16/2008 1:53 pm

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6/26/2008 9:57 pm

Soul Mate


What if we go through life and never find that someone who is best suited for us? I worry about this a lot. I mean, if I'm too shy to talk with others or if I don't make eye contact one day I could mess up a relationship of a lifetime.
For example, Jane Austin never married. She wrote some of the best loved classic love stories ever but never found love herself.
With men being visual as well, I worry that that's all that they judge me by. Many men do. They will write off a woman if she has this or that physical trait before even talking to her. Yes, I listen to what men say to each other, haaaa.
And I worry about the inverse. The men who do think I'm attractive only want me for one thing and wish no relationship attached to that. Sometimes I think the plain women have all the luck as men take them seriously.
Just think how wonderful it would be to have someone to wake up beside, to share good and bad things with that happened during the day, to say to, "Hey do you want to go to the (movies, mall, restaurant)" any time.
Big Sigh

mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
6/16/2008 6:38 pm

Go,
I think men do this more than you think. I also think that women are more similar than they are willing to admit. I think women will put aside some of it if the man has money, a good cause or whatever else they are looking for. But obviously the two of us don't truely know or we'd have someone by now, lol...


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
6/17/2008 3:30 pm

Listen, that's good advice. I find it hard to talk with men in person though, so it's hard for me to get to know them.

Go, I suggested nothing. I just stated the facts. If men come out to be what you say out of it then so be it. But I just need one good man.