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Old Victorian Well, I had to put my house up for sale today. I don't want to, but I'm court ordered to because I'm unable to assume the mortgage in my name alone even though I have the deed to the house I was awarded in the divorce. The Bank says that I don't make enough money, but they say I can try to refinance. Well, until I get a higher paying job that can't happen either. I did appeal to Superior Court, but they agreed that I have to sell. So my ex got $30,000 in CDs half the checking, all the savings account, all the 401k with 3000 a month in it and I got a house that I'm force to sale and that he'll probably sue me for the money from. Hmmm... And weirder still, I think he wants to buy it. He forced me in court to go through his realtor. That can't be good for the to live in the home with their father after he forces their mother out of it. The dogs will probably have to go to the shelter. That's even sadder than keeping the house I've lived in for ten years. Well, I always try to look for the silver lining. At least I know I'll have an immediate buyer. Not having to pay taxes, insurance and utilities will free up some money to do things now. Maybe I will learn to speak French and visit France. |
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Go, Yeah that's true too. Pup
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I also gave up my house for practical reason. I tend to agree with Goan, you`ll get better dear, I`m sure about it.
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Grace, Yikes, I didn't know. I bet there's more of my friends on here in similar situations that I know. Well, I'm glad you moved on. I will too, it just hurts at this time. Thank you, (((HUUUUUGGGG)) Pup
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Pup, If you know what I`ve been thru, you`ll be happy that I can still laugh a lot even to the point of making myself silly  What I`m trying to say is: you`re not alone  , we can be happy that inspite of everything, we still blessed in a way, there are many less fortunate women out there why don`t we sit down and have some cup of coffee (errr tea for me)one time  Hugs to U too, Grace 
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