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mydogateit
(Deb )
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1171 posts
2/14/2009 11:24 am

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2/23/2009 10:21 pm

Happy Valentine's Day!


Well, per "The Rules" book, if a man doesn't give you anything for Valentine's Day, he's just not that into you. Well, I didn't get anything for V.D. (lol) day, so I guess no one is "that into" me. Well, of course I got stuff from my family, but I mean from a guy.
I can remember being married and getting a bag of M&Ms for V.D. I can remember feeling a little bad about it, but then one of my friends called me up to tell me she got a sapphire ring, and then I felt a lot worse about it. She then became mad at my husband because he makes more than hers did and he didn't get me something that cost more. I guess that's one of the many reasons I'm divorced. It's not about money, but about a little forethought to show love. Those M and Ms were picked up on the way home from work. He just never thought very much of me after we married.
This year my told me that he told them that Valentine's Day was not a holiday, so that he would not have to get or do anything with them. Talk about cheap! They are for Pete's sake. It is a holiday to . So, I had a party here for them that was great.
I see in those chick flicks how into the women those guys are and I want that in real life. They sing outside their bedroom windows, they bravely ask them out, they risk their lives, they do all kinda stuff I've never seen a guy do in real life.
I don't think a guy has ever put me first. Three guys this year that I thought liked me showed up with girlfriends at the places I always see them. Talk about not making any kind of effort, lol...One even had the balls to try to flirt with me while his girlfriend was in the weight room at the gym. I walked away.
Some women would still pursue them, but why? What would you get out of it? A guy who's just not that into you. There's a chick flick about this, "He's Just Not That Into You," I guess from "The Rules" book. I'll have to go and see that. It sounds more realistic anyway.
Well, on that bitter note, lol, I hope you are having a better Valentine's Day than me.
Platonic Love all around

blondeboy8 65M

2/21/2009 2:57 pm

Hey dog

Thats so sad. I am sorry I did not send you anything. But I always call my ex girlfriend on Valentine Day I bought her flowers card and jewellery when we were together. I sent many e mail V day cards But Sorry I missed you. Well I was home alone on V day too. So you were not alone.

Hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
bb


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
2/23/2009 10:21 pm

BB, LOL,
I'll forgive you....
I don't open email cards anyway. Goannaoil told me that they can download spyware, I think he said.
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