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mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1171 posts
3/4/2009 8:27 pm

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8/23/2009 7:48 pm

Crazed Cleaning Lady


Tomorrow I will drive in to get rid of all my dad's medical supplies from my mom's apartment. The cleaning lady is asking for his several boxes of Clariton D, his syringes, etc... Can't those be used for meth? Well, I will donate the stuff to my doctor to get it out of there tomorrow and I'll make sure to let the cleaning lady know it's all gone.
Then she said, "Well, I'll take the new microwave and water filter. You could give them to me for helping you pack up and move."
Um, my mother is still alive. She needs those things.
I just told her that I wanted those things for my mother.
Then she told me that all those medical supplies should be thrown out and that she wanted to know what day I was going to throw them out to make sure they were taken. Ha, probably by her.
She also said that she wanted to go through all the boxes with me. Um, what for?
As I said, I'll donate all my dad's stuff to my doctor.
Then she asked for the alchohol swabs and one of my dad's walkers. Those I did tell her that I would give her just to get rid of her. I think she will be selling the walker.
Then she told me that the vaccume doesn't work. But the floor looked vacummed the last time I was in.
Then she said she would stop over when I was there tomorrow.
I told her that I didn't want anyone in there right now. And that when my mother moves my friend who lives five minutes away from my mother will stop in with her husband to help as well as another friend who lives close by. She said, "Oh, you do have someone to help you move."
Yikes! I have to get my mother out of there soon as this lady's sister runs the apartment and has a key. Well, as I said, tomorrow I'll get rid of the medical stuff. I found a place for my mother to move in March 17th. I'll just have to keep the crazed one at bay until then.
This kind of reminds me of Scrooge when he died. Remember the old woman who sold his bedclothes?
What if this woman tells some of her friends about my mother having medical supplies in her apartment. Well, as I said, tomorrow I'll clean them all out and make sure the woman knows that they are gone when I pay my mother's rent tomrrow.
I'd never heard of someone so blatantly greedy before. Oh, yeah, my ex husband is a miser. But even he woudln't ask for stuff from a dead person's home that he wasn't related to while the wife was still alive. Oh, and get this, she said,"Your dad said that I was like family, so I should get some stuff. I even helped him put up his tree."
Um, she's no sister to me. And my father told me that he said that to his nurse. The cleaning lady was probably there and over heard it. Tomorrow can't come too soon. If she knocks while I'm there, I won't answer it. I'll just take her swabs and walker up to the front office before I leave when I pay the rent before I go.
Oh, I almost forgot. She also told me that she knows that my mother has three savings books, when my mom gets my dad's VA money direct deposited and she wanted to know how much money he gave her before he died oh, and how much his insurance was for.
I guess she knows about the money because she had to drive my mom to the bank sometimes, but she even knew how much my mother had in her savings. I'll check to see if the books are there tomorrow. She could just be extremely nebby on the money part. I'll have to check the savings books tomorrow to be sure.
Well, I think you can tell what kind of night I'm going to have, lol...
Ah, the problem will still be there tomorrow. I'll deal with it then.

mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
3/5/2009 9:41 pm

Go, yeah, she was just the cleaning lady, lol...Anyway, I took a jeep load of medical supplies to my doctor. It filled up her long counter, lol! Now I don't have to worry about anyone breaking in for them. As to the lock, I can't change it as the cleaning lady is the sister of the woman who works in the office.
I think the cleaning lady was a druggie. She had even admitted to me that she had been addicted to prescription pain killers at one time.
Oh, and the cleaning lady had already taken my dad's walkers before I got there. She had asked me if she could have them, but I told her not to go to my mother's apartment and that I would leave one at the office, but somehow they were both gone when I got there. My mother said she took them a long time ago. Oh, well. That is of little matter.
I also reported her to the police. The officer said that I did the right thing by doing that so they could have it on record for the detective if she does decided to come back and take my mom's money or anything else. I don't think she did so far. She might just be rude and nebby.
She did seem to back off when I told her that I had two friends and their families in the area to help me move my mom. I think she prays on those alone.
Anyway, I'll be getting my mom out soon and close to me. We ate out together today and made out thank you cards for things others did regarding the funeral. The woman did not show up, thank goodness.


TechMan_1000
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3/8/2009 4:11 pm

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ACuteGirl4U 49F

3/15/2009 1:04 am

you might want to check to make sure that stuff has not already disappeared. change the locks!!! and don't give her a key.

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ACuteGirl4U 49F

6/16/2009 3:13 am

have not seen your latest blog so i hope all is well with you.

take care and hope all is well with you.

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mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
8/23/2009 7:48 pm

Hey, all, wow haven't been on in so long. Well, a couple of friends and I went and cleaned out my parent's apartment.
So I made sure all was well.