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mydogateit
(Deb )
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1171 posts
6/10/2007 2:17 pm

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7/22/2007 9:49 pm

The Dating Game


Well, after more than a year of pining over this guy, I'm back out there. It's like the tv show from the 60's or 70's, and even more like the board game I had as a little girl. There are guys who like to do different things. Let's see one was the picnic guy, I liked him. Then the ski guy. The guy in the tux, yum. And then the nerd that anytime the door in the game opened to him we all screamed, lol!
Anyway, in real life, let's see. I met a guy for ice tea. He was nice, but I just wasn't attracted to him. I shook his hand as I left, lol! I let him know after the meeting that there just wasn't that spark in an email. I hated doing that, so I decided to be more careful with the next guy. I picked a guy I was sure I had a spark with. I met him once. He told me he was attracted to me, so we went out. Then in three days, he wrote me an email telling me that he began to think of a future with me (I thought only women did that after first dates, lol) and that there was too much disparity in our ages. Well, ten years is alot, but, oh, well, never mind. All he got was a kiss anyway.
So, I've been talking to this guy on here from Korea. He seems nice, so I'll meet him in July when I get back from Florida. I'll let ya know if we click. Oh, and I made certain I sent him a full body recent shot, so he knows exactly what I look like. That's best with men being visual creatures. He wrote me back saying that he liked what he saw, so one less worry.
OH, and I got an email from the second guy I went out with just wanting to know how I'm doing and if I'm dating. Blah, what does he care if I'm too old for him?
Is this like Seks In The City? LOL, mine's more for a G rated audience, sigh......

touch213 70M

6/10/2007 3:19 pm

the good thing is, there is activity


mydogateit replies on 6/11/2007 10:00 pm:
Touch,
Activity at the middle school level, maybe, lol.....
Hey, did I spell pining right? Pin/pine. Oh, well too zzzzzz to care right now anyway.

fedders
(ANDREWS M.S.)
66M
1196 posts
6/10/2007 8:44 pm

That's a lot of adventure to consider...just be good this time ...


mydogateit replies on 6/11/2007 10:01 pm:
Fedders,
"This time" lol!

mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
6/11/2007 10:03 pm

Fedders,
Oh, he's getting his own hotel room, so don't worry. Too much, anyway, lol!


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
6/13/2007 6:26 pm

Hmmm, when I tried to add the Korean it said that he couldn't be "unblocked" at this time. I then tried it again and it added, him, but then I wish I had checked to see if he was really on my blocked list. Then I got an email from him yesterday saying that he applied for a job that will do the connections between the NIH (National Institute of Health) and disease research in Africa. Anytime I hear the word, "Africa" a red flag goes up in my mind. There's so many African scams out there. Maybe I'm just being overly vigilant, but it's so hard to trust men. Well, I wrote him back asking if it involves anything financial. I'll see what he says.


mydogateit replies on 6/14/2007 6:12 pm:
Addendum, LOL:
Well, today he said that they don't want him to do anything financial, so I guess that's a good sign. I also wrote him today and I'll let ya know what he says.

toukki
(Ann )
43F

6/14/2007 5:44 am

Deb, im truly happy for you.

You looked wonderful! Did anyone tell u this? From the picture, you sure looked happier and prettier Im sure all of our friends will agree with me.

My best wishes to you May you have the happiest days with the person u like.

Ann


mydogateit replies on 6/14/2007 6:10 pm:
Toukki,
LOL, I can't take a good pic with the web cam. And other pics are taken by my kids, lol!
And, I'll try to find that guy that I like.
Well, I hope all is well with you,
Pup

mydogateit replies on 6/14/2007 6:15 pm:
Toukki,
What for? LOL!
Well, thank you about the pic. I don't like it, but it helps with membership. And it's just a cam one. The others I have the wee ones have taken of me, lol! I'm lucky if my head is in those shots.
And I guess I've just gotta have faith that there really is someone out there for me.

mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
6/14/2007 6:07 pm

Well, maybe he is legit. He wrote back that the company he applied for didn't want him to do anything financial. I wonder what he'll have to say about that. It's a shame that you just can't trust men, lol.....


midorizen 58M

7/2/2007 9:09 pm

well at least it wasn't 5 years.Good luck for your future,Mydog !!


mydogateit
(Deb )
58F
1846 posts
7/22/2007 9:49 pm

Mi, thank you (huggggggggssss)