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Japanese girls are hard to date 4/6/2004
Some people think that being a tall, blonde, blue-eyed
foriegner is enough to date a Japanese girl. Well, it depends.
Some small town girls are enamoured with foriegners, but
more urban girls are unfazed by them. Japanese girls can
be shallow though, so this can help. The trick is not to talk
about anything like politics and such. The girls who are
interested in such things, take really ...
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41 Votes
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Try being Honest and open minded 4/5/2004
Many people don't reply or even acknowledge email
or replies to email or messages. Instead of being rude because
you don't like the look, or other characteristics
of someone, how about telling that person? Or better yet,
say you are not intrested in a relationship, but maybe you
can help each other or learn from each other. Anyone can
learn something about life, love, language, countries ...
0 Comments, 63 Views,
22 Votes
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Musings on love 3/10/2004
A girl send me an email about wanting to know what love is,
how to find it and all of that (actually i don't know
who she is, she did not say). Her question came from my signature
i use in my email here, "to know me is to love me"
<br>
I'll share my response with the hopes that it will spark
something in others, maybe it's of intrest, maybe
not.
<br>
Sorry for all the ...
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18 Votes
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Asian? Want to go to dublin, Ireland to learn english? Read this! 3/10/2004
I wrote this before, and here it is full of grammer and spelling
mistakes.... (so dependant on these things anymore to
be solved by the computer and this internet cafe has no spell
check) but maybe it will help 1 person or so to be careful
and check things out before making mistakes.
If you do want to come and learn in Ireland, i can help you
find good places to learn or give you more ...
0 Comments, 121 Views,
18 Votes
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profile criteria screen people out 3/2/2004
When you create a profile filled with criteria of what your
ideal mate should be, the criteria become a way for people
to screen themselves out from replying to your ad. The longer
the list, the fewer the people that will reply. Are the criteria
an accurate way of screening potential mates, and is there
a better way? I think the answers are no and yes.
Criteria are based upon what we ...
0 Comments, 228 Views,
31 Votes
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does this guy really want to marry or no? 2/14/2004
i meet a westman here and we also meet personal in life, and
he even gives me engaged ring and promise to marry me, but
soon i find he also promise this to other girl, and when i
ask him why, he say he is not sure i will marry him or no? so
must keep more chance for himself , what shall i do now?
0 Comments, 338 Views,
16 Votes
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★ 好好珍惜 ★ 2/14/2004
看到一個深愛著你的人為你而改變
因為愛你 他收起他的頑固脾氣
因為愛你 他對別人都以感謝的心
因為愛你 他把你的興趣也變成是他的興趣
喜歡一個人是沒有原因的
他無悔的付出 都認為是值得的
只要能和相愛的人在一起....
其實我們的身邊都有一些這樣的人
...
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32 Votes
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Trust Starts Here 2/14/2004
I have spent 27 years fighting paranoia, fighting closed-minded
people, fighting stereotypes because I'm different
than others I happen to associate with. Many days I want
to hang my hat and crawl in a hole and die because I get so tired.
However, I know I have to keep fighting the good fight. So
I fight all the ideas people have of me -- gay, cold fish,
nerd, freak, psycho -- because I ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
13 Votes
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Now I understand why I see the same women on here time and time again. 1/27/2004
When a woman puts herself forward on a dating site such as
this one she is asked to provide a list of characteristics
and qualities (her criteria) that her man must possess.
For instance, he must not be too short, or he must have a good
job, or he must never have been married, or he must like eating
out…whatever. But does whether a man matches her list make
any difference to whether ...
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96 Votes
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Hurt by a two timer 1/5/2004
When it comes to finding my Mr.Right from online dating
system, I am forever skeptical!
Here's my story:
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I got tired from being single after a painful broke up with
my boyfriend 1 1/2 yrs ago... then I tried searching for
the right guy online and it was a bad idea..
I stumbled upon a profile with a picture of this humble-looking
stranger which caught my eyes. From the ...
0 Comments, 139 Views,
32 Votes
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Beware of yourself 12/5/2003
Here is my "rant and rave": Many people choose
their love based on prejudices. A lot of people's prejudices
did not come from personal experience, but from gossips
and media propaganda. Some ugly prejudices: whites thinking
asians are tricky cowards, asians thinking blacks are
criminals, blacks thinking whites are racists, chinese
thinking malays and philipinos are uneducated servants, ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
46 Votes
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Help me understand 11/29/2003
To start, I must state I'm an white American male in
my late 30's. I have read, and responded to articles
and people questioning why American males are attracted
to asian females. After reading "Why is my wife so
cold" (here at AFF), I must ask the same question in
reverse. Why are so many asian women interested in men from
the United States, Australia and Canada? Where are the
asian ...
0 Comments, 275 Views,
19 Votes
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i need some advice 11/16/2003
I'm in love with a guy. he asked me to marry him but we
only engaged at that time. after a couple months i found
out that he's still going out with his ex girlfriend.
so i decided to call off the wedding and start everything
over again. he told me everything about him and his ex-gf.
what hurt me the most is i know everything but i can't
say. i know that he still sees his ex-gf. but ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
22 Votes
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Far East Asian Ladies are so Beautiful! 9/27/2003
How on Earth can any white man resist these absolutely gorgeous
Chinese, Japanese, and Korean, ladies. They are stunning
to look at, their every action is full of grace, and when
you begin to talk with them then you soon learn that they
are just as intelligent and thoughtful as they are beautiful
and feminine.
I pity Chinese, Japanese, and Korean men in Western countries.
They face stiff ...
0 Comments, 139 Views,
93 Votes
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To "Do I wait" 9/23/2003
Yes, she is interested. That is a Chinese "line"
if you like (being a female Chinese myself). Chinese girls
want to start as "friends". That will give them
time to observe through the friendly process whether your
are suitable. My advice: give her the time she needs to find
out more about you. If you want to date a Chinese lady seriously,
a time to get to know one another in a friendly ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
34 Votes
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Do I wait? 9/9/2003
I have met a Chinese woman here in the US whom I like. She says
she wants to be friends for a while and that is part of Chinese
culture. Here in the US, it's the kiss of death. Do I
wait and see what happens, or should I just move on?
0 Comments, 753 Views,
14 Votes
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The Fact Of Life 8/11/2003
Some say beauty is an illusion, they get old in the process
of time. But get to the point, when you first bump onto a gurl
... and the gurl turns to be fat/ugly.. Your eye;s wont be
on HER. But if you do onto "your type of gurl"
obviously neat, sweet, cute ...etc... you'll seem
to get attracted and slowly find out more thingss bout her
rite? Then Characteristic comes in there ...So, beauty ...
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25 Votes
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"what is love?", "what is marriage?" 6/27/2003
One day, Plato asked his teacher, "What is love? How
can I find it?"
His teacher answered, "There is a vast wheat field
in front. Walk forward without turning back, and pick only
one stalk. If you find the most magnificent stalk, then
you have found love."
<br>
Plato walked forward, and before long, he returned with
empty hands, Having picked nothing. His teacher asked,
"Why ...
0 Comments, 544 Views,
107 Votes
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Watch out for friends and what you tell them.... 5/10/2003
From personal experience, I suggest that you watch what
you tell your friends, especially if you are in a big friendship
group. Usually, (even if you tell your best friend) it can
get to the person you like, with possibly negative results,
but sometimes positive ones. This one time, it got around
and then the woman didnt talk to me for about six months.
If in doubt, keep your feelings to ...
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28 Votes
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be oateint , you wil get what you hope for ! 4/24/2003
Well , I have read some articles today , I found them are so
intersted to read , even though I havent log in this nicely
wensite for years due to I already found that I hoped in all
my life .
Before I met my another half I have suffered lot from my Ex-bf
, I cant say that we do not love each other but sometimes it
seems we were suffering more then loving . I do not know why
thing was go ...
0 Comments, 95 Views,
26 Votes
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Try to be SEXY 4/22/2003
If I try to be sexy with Asian women it is not easy. Asian women
are very conservative and the idea of talking in detail
about initmate actions fails. While western women might
be more open the eastern women are more subtle and mysterious.
I have learned 3 main things:
1) Asian women have a "wet and wild" side but
it is usually reserved for marriage
2) Caucasian men perfer Asian women ...
0 Comments, 208 Views,
78 Votes
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Agree or disagree - How to tell if a guys is interested in you 4/22/2003
A dating book advices women that if a man is truly interested
in a woman, he will find some ways to let her know. Okay there
are some shy guys out there who might hesitate in making
moves. But for mature men (30 years old or so) who are doing
fine career-wise, there is just no reason for him NOT to
make the move if he is interested. (Given he is single, normal
and all that). If he doesn't ...
0 Comments, 195 Views,
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Boyz n Girlz.... 2/9/2003
Sooooo, - you can read the slang English....now maybe
you can check this out...Lotsa u girls are waiting to meet
the "right guy" but maybe you should chill and check out
the "next guy" instead!
<br>
What do I mean???? Well, its kinda like this...u see a lotta
guyz out there and you play your games...(hey, do'nt even
bother!!!!) but you;re coming up empty....Soooooo, -
whazzup ...
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Wanna know what men really think? 2/6/2003
So, a man has asked you out and you're on your first date.
Want to know what he's really thinking?
<br>
It does'nt matter if he is Asian, American, or any other
nationality. To be male is to share, to some extent, universal
traits, desires, etc. that transcend national boundaries.
Men and women both have biological needs: food, clothing,
shelter, sleep, and yes, - sex! While ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
84 Votes
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I think it's a decent thing to do 1/16/2003
Not every relationships work out the way we wanted. I think
it's a decent thing to do when you decided not to continue
having a relationship with people whether on line or in
person. I'm sure you dont want anyone do that to you. We're
all adult here. It's not the end of the world when you have
to break the bad news to someone. However, if you didn't,
that shows your character as an imatured ...
0 Comments, 138 Views,
27 Votes
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TRUST 12/1/2002
The foundation of any relationship is trust. Without trust
a couple cannot survive. I cannot believe the numerous
anounts of negativity by women here who think if a man says
"I love you", dont believe him, be careful, don't trust.
I believe in exercising caution when dealing with romantic
affairs, but to say don't believe and don't trust are absurd.
Are there that many women out there ...
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25 Votes
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A Rant? 8/15/2002
Like the subject says. This is could be a rant, a question
or an answer for some AFF members. Whichever the case, please
don't take this post too seriously. I'm new to this online
dating thiga-ma-jig. Like most of you, I thought I would
try something new. Hey, I like trying new things.  Unlike
myself, I have friends who started online dating long before
I have. You can say that ...
0 Comments, 4268 Views,
32 Votes
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爱与恨是夫妻 8/12/2002
亲爱的朋友，你的那一半是否既让你爱也饿昂你恨？我想99%是的。我的妻子象大多数婚后的女人一样让人烦，你不在她身边她想你，你在时她说不想见你；我说爱她她说我骗她，我发脾气她却说我是爱她的；没办法，谁让我是男人呢？
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hotgayman69我先认识你！ 6/18/2002
hotgayman69我先认识你！
你能否把你的电子邮箱的地址写到这里！因为不是黄金会员的我无法看到你的邮箱地址！
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need help!!! 5/27/2002
I had taken this picture for awhile ago, i like it very much
on the background of the photo. However i do not like the
way i look in the picture. Is there any program that i can
buy or to use? I want to cut the face out of this picture paste
another of my picture with a better smile. Please help me...thank
you
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