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Seniorboy 47 M
5  Articles
Is It A Waste Of Time....?   10/4/2006

I really make up my mind to know if i can get a reliable and serious female from this site for long term relationship... but everyday seems the same, nothing is new. I've wrote to many enticed and polished profiles with glamor photos hoping to get an urgent reply, all to no avail. I want to know...
Why the female polished their profiles in this way... Long Term.. and ...



6 Comments, 107 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
don_gisberto 66 M
2  Articles
male psychology   10/4/2006

We always hear "the rules" from the female side. Now here are the rules from the male side. These are our rules! <br> - Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us bitching about you leaving it down <br> - Sometimes we are not thinking about you. Live with it. <br> - Saturday = sports. ...


3 Comments, 228 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
ndsaznsugardaddy 36 F
2  Articles
Interracial Dating!   10/2/2006

I am a SWF, 19 of Italian heritage and wanted to know how my AM/WF couple there are out there. I live in the South and there are not many here that I can see. Matter of fact I believe I have seen two. Why is it that Asian guys are adamant about dating non-Asian women. I mean I have tried talking to several and have gotten limited responses but mainly that they were not interested or that it ...


2 Comments, 578 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Seniorboy 47 M
5  Articles
Direct Me Please   9/12/2006

There're some websites i used to visit from my computer but after i reboot my computer i could not open those sites again... But when i use another computer some of those website will open...
Please what can i do so that i will recover or open those website again? Direct me please...
...


6 Comments, 54 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
sodamnbored 38 M
2  Articles
lies lies and more lies   9/12/2006

does anyone have a great way to spot lies,
i seems to get only liars, everything is fine until
1, they talk about marriage, (don't get me wrong i would like to know them first AT LEAST MEET IN PERSON ONCE)
2, they tell you their birthday is xx/xx/xx (which is about 3-4 weeks time, ) and asks for something
3, they then tell you about problems in life ...


3 Comments, 88 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
RandyTeacherToo 49 M
10  Articles
Sending the first e-mail: Getting Attention   9/6/2006

In the world of online dating, you have about 10 seconds to make a good first impression, so good writing skills can really make your correspondence sparkle.
You've found a profile and you'd like to contact him/her. It may not be your first connection at this website, but without the right opening line, it could be more difficult to get a response. So how do you make contact ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
mikenfla 61 M
1  Article
Watch that smile!! What REAL men look for in your ads...   8/28/2006

Every time I browse the ads, I am amazed that many of the pictures of others there is no SMILE. A smile is worth a thousand words and means more than showing off the beautiful figure or using suggestive wording. Men are very visual and love looking at your pictures that conjures an image in their minds of the "ideal" lady to write or send a wink. I don't want to see an ID picture- ...


2 Comments, 91 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
mqez2005 61 M
4  Articles
Beware Of Scammers / Don’t Send Money   8/27/2006

Beware Of Scammers / Don’t Send Money
Since joining AFF I have had a number of women contact me who are scammers. One of their stories goes like this. She is from a city in the USA, but is in Africa for a funeral or vacation or some other reason and she says she does like me. But she cannot return to the USA because she forgot to get a return ticket and that ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
mqez2005 61 M
4  Articles
Reply to All Emails Even to Send a Negative Reply   8/27/2006

You I was just thinking that it is nice to get a reply to an email I sent a lady even if it is negative. So my advice is for both You Ladies and Guys:- reply to all the emails you are sent even if it is a negative reply. If it is a negative reply and you do not want to write something down, then just use the send quick reply. It is very simple to use.
Remember we all ...


3 Comments, 93 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
kevv40 51 M
1  Article
Any alternatives?   8/27/2006

Hello everyone. Iam writing this article for some advice, if you would be kind enough to help me.I have unfortunatly found AFF to be not very useful in finding real love and real people.There seems to be mainly players here.Maybe iam incorrect.I have had replies, who either never write back or at best, email once and that is the last you hear of them.So i can only ...


3 Comments, 88 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sweetieguard0 59 F
11  Articles
EchooOOOoooo   8/21/2006

A and his father were walking on the mountains. Suddenly, the fell, hurt himself and cried, "Ahhhhh!" He heard the voice repeating, "Ahhhhh!" He yelled, "Who are you?" He got the answer, "Who are you?" He cried, "Coward!" He got the answer, "Coward!" He looked to his father to find answer. The father cried, "I admire you!" The voice answered, "I admire you!" ...


9 Comments, 908 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
sodamnbored 38 M
2  Articles
shallow people,   8/9/2006

is it me but i hardly have much/many actually any asian friends, i normally get along with caucasian people they are more down to earth, however though i seem to have ALOT of trouble meeting asian people who aren't shallow from, looks department all the way to the career status.


4 Comments, 104 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
Go get Banana Republic Classic Cologne   8/2/2006

You will be absolutely amazed how many compliments you will get from wearing it. Even women who dont like it say how they love when i wear it. Go for it guys.


1 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
Do your running guys.   8/2/2006

You will be amazed at your stamina during sex if you run. If you are a couch potato and smoke dont expect any real fun in bed. You wont last that long. Quit smoking and start running. Everyone will benefit.


2 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
The importance of positive attitude in relationships   8/1/2006

In a relationship, both partners need a reasonably positive attitude towards life and their union to make a relationship thrive. Similarly to forster good communication, a couple need to feel confident that they can amicable discuss and resolve whatever problems that come their way. Their communication and statements to each other must be more positive then negative in order to remain ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
zwog 62 M
1  Article
Is there a girl for you here?   7/20/2006

Hello my name is Dave. I have been a member of AFF for over 2 years. I have met many girls here and even dated a few from this country. I spent over a year and a half talking to what I thought would become my girl. But she decided that she would be better off with an asian man. I was a little dissapointed. Before I gave up hope I met Lijia. a city girl from Hangzhou. We have been talking ...


2 Comments, 156 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Asiadream123 44 F
1  Article
cyber space   7/17/2006

Information showed that 68% people from the internet are dishonest, there are too many future seekers, gold diggers, free webcam sex seekers and game players…
One fabulous thing I have found about "cyber space" is that you can meet people that never would have crossed your path otherwise. People who will excite and inspire you. It isn't in the lives ...



0 Comments, 141 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
martin153 67 M
4  Articles
How to attract ladies...(ladies please don't read).   6/27/2006

Decent men frequently ask this question, <br> "I am considerate, kind, gentle. (If I had one), I would buy my girlfriend presents, would never cheat on her or lie to her. I am a thoroughly decent, reliable, sincere chap, so why am I so unsuccessful with ladies, whereas men who are abusive, who are unfaithful, who lie, who treat their partners badly, who even abandon their partners ...


2 Comments, 260 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
Jiethomas007 49 M
34  Articles
What I've Learned   6/27/2006

As I've Matured... <br> I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in... <br> I've learned that one good turn gets most of the blankets. <br> I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just jackasses. <br> I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it ...


1 Comments, 253 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
beauty_1143 49 F
12  Articles
Be a "Woman Unlike Any Other"   6/24/2006

Being a woman unlike any other is a state of mind. You don't have to be rich, beautiful, or exceptionally smart to feel this way about yourself. And you dont have to be born with this feeling either. It can be learned, practiced, and mastered.
Being a woman unlike any other is really an attitude, a sense of confidence and radiance that permeates your being from head to toe. It's ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
yayaland 35 F
4  Articles
"love" &"like"   6/23/2006

what are the definition between LOVE and LIKE??? people always say : " oh, i like u.i want to be with you." that means the people have feeling with that person or something else???? do people like a person will become love the person??? LOVE & LIKE are really confusing me...HELP ME OUT!!!


4 Comments, 237 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
chawke 63 M
16  Articles
AGE QUESTION   6/22/2006

JUST GOT AN EMAIL FROM SOMEONE 20 YEARS YOUNGER THAN I AM. HER PROFILE SUGGESTS SHE IS SERIOUSLY INTERESTED IN MARRIAGE. I WILL NOT EVEN CONSIDER DATING OR MARRYING ANYONE YOUNGER THAN MY LITTLE SISTER.(32) I PREFER SOMEONE CLOSER TO MY OWN AGE. SHOULD I IGNORE THE EMAIL? (have not responded to it.) I FEEL THE OPPOSITE OF W.C. FIELDS THESE DAYS. I WOULD RATHER HAVE ONE 42 YEAR-OLD THAN TWO ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
WhAtSoUnD 48 F
9  Articles
10 Most Important Characteristics Of A Mature Relatioinship   6/2/2006

1) Intimacy 2) A sense of humor 3) Honest communication 4) A common sense of mission and purpose. 5) Equality 6) A sense of adventure 7) Shared experience Respect for the other person's feelings and wishes 9) Passion 10) Sharing in domestic duties


3 Comments, 138 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
filipinababes40 53 F
25  Articles
The Rose   4/25/2006

The Rose is the flower whose meaning we most understand, but here are some details of the meaning of the Rose that may be of further interest. Rose, Black ‒ You are my obsession Rose, Champagne ‒ You are tender and loving Rose, Leonidas ‒ Sweet love Rose, Nicole ‒ You are graceful and elegant, aristocratic Rose, Orange ‒ You are my secret love ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
kim_shen14344 43 F
14  Articles
pain....   4/25/2006

in life, ,dont think about the pain we went thru, but the lessons it taught, not how much we hurt and cried, ,but how much we're blessed and loved by each other..


1 Comments, 140 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
kiethley 43 F
39  Articles
Hardest Things   4/15/2006

a. Being questioned when you yourself don't understand b. Pretending to be innocent of what you know about c. Trying to show you care d. Trying to forget something you know you NEVER will e. Admitting you were wrong after you have been so insistent that you were right f. Accepting the fact that you made a MISTAKE g. Debating with yourself h. Knowing what's wrong and what's ...


1 Comments, 423 Views, 52 Votes ,6.86 Score
_Mystik_ 43 M
3  Articles
For Love…or is it Love of Money?   4/10/2006

Lately I’ve come across a string of profiles that include things such as income and property. Yes, these profiles mainly come from males, typically middle-aged white guys. I have yet to see a profile from an Asian female stating such things as the example below. <br> “Hi there! I am a successful business person making $68, 000 yearly. I live in a 2 story, 3 ...


2 Comments, 263 Views, 46 Votes ,8.54 Score
_Mystik_ 43 M
3  Articles
A Letter to the Future - A Few Truths to Life   4/8/2006

Friends and Future , <br> These are the things that you don't know now that you will learn someday, though possibly not without going about it the hard way. These things I'm going to tell you are the things we learn after we grow up and get out on our own and trip over our own egos a few times. They aren't magical, mystical, hidden secrets. They are things that are actually ...


1 Comments, 177 Views, 96 Votes ,7.30 Score
chawke 63 M
16  Articles
Advice from my father   4/7/2006

When my marriage was falling apart, my father tried to give me advice on reconciling. I said “dad you are on your fourth wife. You are not the guy! If I need a divorce lawyer I will call you.” He agreed with me, but he has told me some things over the years, that have rang true for me. These are in no particular order. ANYONE WHO SAYS THEY LOVE YOU, SHOULD BE WILLING TO PROVE ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
don_gisberto 66 M
2  Articles
The russian 'dating mafia' is very active lately, be warned!   3/26/2006

It happened to me several times during the last 3 or 4 weeks, that I received mails from ever so pretty looking russian 'ladies' in their early twenties, trying to initiate contact and showing interest in me. To my experience, this happens mostly to guys who seem well-settled, in their 40s, 50s or even older. Apart from the fact that it is not very likely that gorgeous-looking, very young ...


3 Comments, 152 Views, 11 Votes ,5.97 Score