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The Thoughts on the Dilemma of Choice... 10/2/2005
Life is what happens to us while we are deciding what we want
to do with our life.
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We may be wise to design a plan that will free us up to "happen
to life" instead of the other way around. When we know
we need to be doing something different we most certainly
will be confronted by all the reasons why we think we can't.
They are reasons why disguised as excuses. They are, in ...
0 Comments, 108 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Make your brain works before your tongue screws up 10/1/2005
Many time in life our adrenaline go up, block our brain and
our tongue starts to work magically saying things that
no matter we want to erase later, cannot be done. The arrow
that is thrown and the word that is said, is something that
will never come back. No matter the other person understand
that you were not in the mood, that you could not control
yourself even that if that person know ...
2 Comments, 416 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Things to think about (I) 9/12/2005
The following is a wonderful message by George Carlin,
whose wife died recently:
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The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller
buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower
viewpoints.
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We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.
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We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences,
but less
...
1 Comments, 311 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Lonlies. 8/12/2005
I'm lonlies. What do I do?
Haha.
^^;
1 Comments, 429 Views,
7 Votes
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Enjoy being single 7/22/2005
Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you
want to be.
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Single gives you space to grow.
Sometimes, it is harder to grow when you are too close to
someone.
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Trees are planted far apart so they can spread their branches
and become strong as they mature.
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Single means learning to live by yourself. However, that
is no more ...
1 Comments, 146 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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On Perfection and Happiness 6/23/2005
Happiness is not found at the end of the road. It is truly
experience along the way. So take not for granted each moment
of your life and you will find a reason to be happy each day.
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If we’re unhappy, it’s because life is not as we want it.
Life is not matching our expectations of how it "ought"
to be and so we’re unhappy.
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So we say, " ...
0 Comments, 402 Views,
20 Votes
,5.42 Score
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How to Relate to Difficult Feelings 6/21/2005
We all know how difficult it is to communicate lovingly
when we are upset, frustrated or angry. When negative emotions
come up, we momentarily lose affection, understanding,
acceptance, and respect. We can never start a conversation
because we're sure that it will only lead to an argument.
Even if we want to express our honest intentions, we cannot
do so if we are overcome by anger and ...
2 Comments, 99 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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10 years difference? 6/14/2005
I'm sure this type of question has been often asked.
But I'll put it in my context.
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Recently I met someone who is 10 years younger than me. I
see lots of potentials, but at the same time I do feel a bit
uneasy about the age difference. She's at the age (before
mid-20s) where she will blossom and want to do new things.
There might be a possibility that her feelings can and will ...
2 Comments, 601 Views,
7 Votes
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Get off the computer! Don't waste your time reading this. 6/11/2005
Write a post say nothing, get the points, contact someone.
Get off. move on
I kick myself for every second I waste on these useless sites.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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How to handle Stress... 6/8/2005
A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience,
raised a
glass of water and asked, "how heavy is this glass
of water?"
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Answers called out ranged from 20g to 500g. The lecturer
replied, "The
absolute weight doesn't matter. It depends on how
long you try to hold
it."
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"If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem.
If I hold it for an
...
0 Comments, 330 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score
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Understanding Love 6/4/2005
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.
But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher.
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In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won
or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on
and when to let go!
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You know you really love someone when you want him or her
to be happy, even if their happiness means ...
1 Comments, 485 Views,
17 Votes
,7.23 Score
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Content 4/21/2005
Giving someone all of you love is never an assurance that
they will love you in return. You can not expect to be loved
back. All you can do is wait for it to grow in their heart.
If it does not, be content that it grew in yours.
0 Comments, 983 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Compatibility at a Glance 4/4/2005
Blind dates are stressful as people often come with preconceived
notions and expectations. They are often not spontaneous
and are nerve wrecking for both parties. But despite these
factors, this first date serves as an opportunity for both
parties to assess compatibility.
At first glance, the physical aspects should either appeal
or repel you. If both parties are pleased, you will ...
1 Comments, 769 Views,
28 Votes
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Greatest Adivce.. 4/4/2005
1. Don't date because you are desperate.
2. Don't marry because you are miserable.
3. Don't have because you think your genes are
superior.
4. Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.
5. Don't associate with people you can't trust.
6. Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend.
7. Don't dictate because you are smarter.
8. Don't demand because you are stronger. ...
2 Comments, 983 Views,
29 Votes
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The Loneliness of Life 4/1/2005
Why do people become lonely? I believe that people should
move on. The the past be the past, and go beyond the evitable
reality of life. Life is to short to waste our valuable time,
and we should all be haapy in our journey in life. Let go hard
feelings; negative energy, and bring in the positive feelings
and energy. We would all be happier in life, and healthy
with Gods giving prosperity.
0 Comments, 332 Views,
7 Votes
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Errors and memory 3/27/2005
I have a problem with women sometimes... like most people,
i have had a few partners ( girlfriends) through the years,
wich naturally havent worked out so far....
But one thing that always gets me, is how minor errors and
flaws in mens behaviour, persona or doings, never seem
to let go from the memories of women.
That saddens me, because i have the theory that once a mistake
has ...
1 Comments, 712 Views,
3 Votes
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UN Patroling & Controlling Immigration Laws 3/11/2005
For those who say it is impossible to have a free world traveling
system, I say it is possible. Today's education around
the world have increased or matched up to USA. Therefore
we all have the capability to perform various jobs, we only
need to better ourself and or perfect communication. If
the UN takes control over all airports in a system that we
can understand within time we will be ...
1 Comments, 327 Views,
3 Votes
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how it can be possible... 3/9/2005
I'm a black male living in Italy and working around
IT.
I speak french, english and Italian fluently, but haven't
any knowledge in asian languages.
How can be possible to me, found here an asian female as a
life partner with whom I can share mutual love & respect
to complete my life. [note that : I am a tender, lovely, virtuous,
and responsible guy].
Thanks to read me.
1 Comments, 167 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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appreciate unpopular girls 2/16/2005
hi, popular girls, if you are already married, the way of
enjoying increase number of handsome men can prove how
charming you are, otherwise, it diminish your virgin trust
by increased numbers, only disable men are open-minded
with dirty girl. cherish your virgin as cherish you life.
2 Comments, 224 Views,
16 Votes
,1.95 Score
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Happy New Years Everyone!! 1/10/2005
New Years, A majority of people view new years as a great
day to celebrate. I view new years as an end to a chapter of
my life and a new beginning to have a chance to write into
history what I may accomplish and to right the mistakes
I may have experienced.
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New years gives us an opportunity to explore the unknown,
to charter unexplored territories of life. Just think
of ...
0 Comments, 239 Views,
1 Votes
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"eager beavers"? 1/10/2005
does this modus operandi sound familiar to anyone? have
any of you been similarly contacted by these girls? any
information that you are able to provide will be appreciated.
with your assistance, i wish to steer clear of suspect characters.
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read: a certain "ghee" got wind of the fact that
i am going to be traveling to the philippines. i was right
away invited to meet her ...
1 Comments, 566 Views,
5 Votes
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Being able to Laugh at Yourself 12/11/2004
Coming to Asia from the sarcastic town of Berkeley, I’m
so not used to the humor here. And they are not used to mine!
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With most “traditional” Chinese people that I have encountered,
they always think it is sooo funny to ask for “5 quai” as a
clever response to your request for a favor:
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“Hey, ” I would ask, ...
0 Comments, 369 Views,
37 Votes
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Internet dating 12/11/2004
What is real about internet dating? Seems to me most people
on the net don't take love seriously. Internet gives
us an opportunity to meet so many people at once. People
tend to give up so easily if they assume that it's not
worth it to try. I still prefer face to face meeting and learn
about each other rather than a long distance relationship.
How real can it be if you don't see the ...
0 Comments, 539 Views,
25 Votes
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hihi 12/11/2004
is it possible to have a meaning full relationship with
another person who is not the same race as you . or do culural
diffrances get in the way too much?
0 Comments, 95 Views,
9 Votes
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IQ Test or Sucker Test 12/11/2004
Just tried the online IQ test and got exceptionally high
score. I was wondering if the system intentionally bumps
up the score to sucker people into paying for the certificate.
Maybe I am smart afterall... 
0 Comments, 6 Views,
26 Votes
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Why never marry a software engineer 11/18/2004
Husband (returning late from work) : "Hai dear. I'm
now logged in" Wife: Have you brought the grocery
? Husband:Bad command or file name wife : But I told you in
the morning ? Husband : Erroneous syntax. Abort, retry,
cancel? Wife : What about my new TV ? Husband : Variable not
found Wife : Atleast, give me your credit card. I need to
do some shopping Husband : Sharing violation.
...
0 Comments, 374 Views,
17 Votes
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15 things to never say to a woman! 11/17/2004
1. Have you put on weight? 2. I can always tell when it's
that time of the month. 3.
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My last girlfriend didn't mind. . . 4. That's a
woman's job.
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5. I don't buy Valentine's Day gifts; it's
just another gimmick to get your money. 6. Don't be
so jealous/possessive/insecure. 7.
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It's technical so you wouldn't understand. 8.
Let's split the ...
1 Comments, 169 Views,
24 Votes
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