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Law of Attraction 9/7/2007
Your outer world is a reflection of your inner world. You
are what you attract, and you attract what you are. It is
said the "Law of Attraction" like any other
universal laws is neutral. It either aids you with or hinders
you from your goals and dreams, depending on your thinking.
In a nutshell, if you think of positive thoughts, you get
positive results; if you think of negative thoughts, you ...
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How to restore trust 8/27/2007
Once trust has been violated is very difficult to repair.
There are many forms of betrayal and a common theme of betrayal
is infidelity these days. There is a common belief amongst
women that ONLY men cheat, both men and women are equally
capable of this very painful act of betrayal. Myth
dispelled!
If you have cheated on your mate, you have just caused your
partner ...
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Build to Last 8/25/2007
You have about a second to catch someone's eyes and
a minute to convince someone to write to you. How would you
go about maximizing your chances to either attract or find
that special someone? Here's some ideas which you
could use as a road map to build a happy everlasting relationship.
Before we go to the specifics of how to maximize your chances,
let's discuss what a person is looking ...
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Can American Men and Chinese Women connect? 8/19/2007
Can a American man (In America) meet a Chinese woman (In
China) through the internet and make friends? Then visit
each other when they travel to the other's country?
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I am looking for my love. 7/10/2007
I long so much for a special partner to spend my life with.
I long to come home to that person every night, and share
the evening, the warmth of the fireplace, the laughter
at the dinner table, a long walk in the evening. And to travel
sometimes to unknown parts of the world, and see them through
his wonderous eyes.
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To me love is having someone who you would die for, whose ...
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Turning Her Head 7/6/2007
How do you build a relationship. With
out that first meeting. In order to build you must have that
first moment. That first bar of music in the symphony that
will be the love of your life. Yet, all you have are simple
tools. Your eyes to flirt with her. So that she knows. That
you notice her. Let her know you notice her with a 2-3 second
stare. Look at her face move them to ...
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A relationship starts with honesty 7/3/2007
I was honest filling out my profile and I expect others to
be honest as well.
I'm not wasting my time here online. I'm here to
find a woman that I can fall in love with and have a family.
There is someone out there for everyone and if you start
the relationship out based on honestly then you will start
off on the right foot.
Good luck!
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the first letter from a lady 6/28/2007
The following is the first letter from a lady in Russia:
Hi! I have received your letter on www.asianfriendfinder.com
and I'm
writing to you. I think will be better to communicate by
e-mail. This
is my e-mail address and you can write me here anytime. if
you have
any questions feel free to ask me and I will answer you. This
is only
test e-mail and I don't give you ...
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From Heaven to Hell---3(Dedication to Chinese nation) 6/14/2007
My thought about Chinese nation is now totally upside down.Honesty
has been honoured by this nation.As soon as i publicly expose
my life story i start getting all real response from the
girls.Now i know what they want.So again i want to gratitude
to all girls who become my friends. Unfortunately, one thing is true in my life that is, i never
get her whom i love n i always get them whom i never ...
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Building Relationships on Trust---One Brick at a Time. 5/24/2007
Relationships must be built on trust one brick at a time.
If we don't build our relationships one brick at a time
our relationships will fall apart quickly. Some just think
that relationships build themselves without any effort,
I find that hard to do if I want anything that is going to last.
In my past relationships I have found that the more effort
I put into the relationship, the ...
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Integrity is who we are when our spouses aren't looking 5/22/2007
It is fairly easy to do the right thing when our significant
others are standing right next to us. I call this acting
on our best behavior and this does not tell us who we
really are as a person at that point and time.
What tells us if we have integrity or not, is if we are acting
the same way without our sigfnicant others being present.
Thus, ...
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When can a relationship be rich enough to withstand other relationships? 5/10/2007
When can a relationship be rich
enough to withstand other relationships, including sexual
relationships? How long and what will it take? Particularly
in long-distance or online relationships?
I must admit this is a challenge early in a relationship
while groundworks are laid down.
Ideally, rules have to be set from the start as to how much
effort both ...
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Be honest from the get go 5/9/2007
If you paint an exaggerated picture of yourself or present
yourself through rose colored glasses what are you accomplishig?
You should want the other person to want to be with you for
the real you not some illusion.
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Gratitude builds relationships 5/9/2007
It is easy to want to be someone’s friend or mate
when all is well. It is also easy to portray ourselves as
doing better than we actually are. If you really want to
know who loves you….. When the bottom falls out, look around
and see who is standing beside you holding you up when your
legs are too tired to stand on their own. That is who loves
you and never forget that ...
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Be pushy... 5/9/2007
Recently I've been advised to be more pushy with girls
whom I'd like to have a special relationship with.
My current view is that love can't be "compelled",
and if it is, it won't last for long. If while trying to build up a relationship, I get the feeling
that the girl has other priorities, other than meeting
me... well that's it! Why waste more efforts.
But as I said, a person I ...
5 Comments, 178 Views,
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Building a lationships on Solid Principles 5/9/2007
What core principles guide your relationships at home,
work and in the community?
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Let me apologize, 5/9/2007
Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting
far to quickly in anger with far too little information..
I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks
about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent
man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me.
He could write some very powerful articles in French but
not in English. ...
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How to turn down guys gently? 5/9/2007
How to turn down guys gently? How to get your points across
that when you say, "No, thanks!" you really
mean it?
I think this is a worthy topic to explore. On one hand, you
want to get your point across effectively. On the other
hand, you don't want to appear bitchy or "you're
not good enough".
Suggestions?
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Why it's so hard to trust others/There is no getting around being vulnerable 5/9/2007
People who can't trust others and I do not imply
a person should trust everyone for that would be naive.
They simply try to avoid being vulnerable because of previous
relationships where they were betrayed by an intimate
partner. To start a new relationship can be quite frightening
because people often fear being betrayed yet once again.
Many of us want to find our soul ...
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how far can love go? 5/9/2007
how many of us have made the solemn vow only to have it broken?
How many of us could remain in love for poorer, for worse?
Love can be both strong and fragile: strong enough to conquer
the world, fragile enough to be broken even by words.
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I need advice-Dating 5/9/2007
I 'm new to Shanghai. Been here for like 4 months. I have
money. I'm pretty good looking. My heart is wonderful.
I seem like the perfect man right? The problem is that I'm
BLACK American. I can't seem to get a date. Well I can't
say it like that. I CAN get a date with any race inside Shanghai
EXCEPT chinese or Korean.
Age, Name, what country you from blah balh blah
...
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The ethic of reciprocity is what builds a relationship 5/9/2007
The ethic of reciprocity
or "The Golden Rule" is a fundamental moral
principle found in virtually all major religions and cultures,
which simply means "treat others as you would
like to be treated." -Wikpedia
When one lover feels they are being unfairly taken advantage
of financially in a relationship (of course we have to ...
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Building a Relationship 5/9/2007
What do you hope to get out of a relationship? To feel attractive,
secure, happy, desirable? I know these things sound great, but it could be that you're
looking for something in your relationship that you can't
ever get. The popular notion that two people together make
a whole, that you're just one half looking for your
other half is a lie. The truth is that many of us struggle
with fears that ...
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Is Sleeping together in the same bed good for your relationship? 4/27/2007
On the front page of the New York Times (March 11, 2007) was
the story “To Have, Hold and Cherish, Until Bedtime, ”
about couples who sleep in separate beds and who sleep
in the family bed.
Imagine all the problems: snoring, tucked or untucked
sheets, one coming in late or getting up early, one tosser-and-turner!
Are these problems worth working hard to solve while ...
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BASIC HUMAN NEEDS 4/8/2007
Apart from food, shelter, warmth and money,
we all need and want to be "in love". My dad used
to say that "to be in love is to be in a state of grace".
Having not been in this "state of grace" for
some time now, it is easy to lose sight of the fact that one
is special and should continue to have high standards otherwise
what would be the point? Life is somewhat like a ...
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Human geography of dating chances 4/2/2007
I just found this in the February 2007 issue of the National
Georaphic Magazine, and I thought this would be the right
place to share it...
According to the US Census single women are more numerous
(in the 10s of thousands) than single men in the eastern
states, while the opposite is true for the western states.
The difference is attributed to women beign more numerous
in academic ...
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Behind many a great man is also a great lady 4/2/2007
Through my various past relations with different
intimate partners, I have found one very important element
that can often be over looked.
The role of a woman with great character, loyalty, appreciation
for her man's abilities as well as her understanding
of his weaknesses that she tries her best to mend with her
support, rather than using his weaknesses against him
is ...
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culture difference in relationships 3/29/2007
I have heard that building relationships
are different, based on cultures.
I have read that it is hard
for someone, from a western culture,
to understand the relationship aspect of the Chinese Culture.
I have read that you have to do it in the correct order, and
it has something to do with borrowing things.
I guess it is like building a credit rating,
when you take out a loan.
...
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From On-line Chat to the Wedding 3/24/2007
It began no less than 5 years ago, and is still going strong,
and then some…. But I'm saving the best news last, now
let me begin in the beginning, with our meeting.
In those days I worked at the JATE University in Szeged in
the Department of English and had access to the internet.
I've used the IRC before but at that time someone had
unexpectedly greeted me and his first ...
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Liars and Cheaters on the Internet 3/24/2007
Have you, or someone you know, been deceived by someone
on the Internet? As it continues to grow in popularity,
the Internet has provided those who wish to be dishonest
an easy and efficient means of doing so. Other writers have already addressed the issue of purchasing
items over the Internet. Advice like only dealing with
established companies and using a secure link for a credit ...
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