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lexxventura 48 M
2  Articles
what do people usually expect on first dates?   12/31/2006

I am curious as to what women usually expect on a first date. I usually just want to go for coffe just to meet the person and see what they are like. It doesn't take too much time or money if you wind up not being interested in the person. That goes either way. so what do women want from a first date, probably every guy out should know this information.


2 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
PeterInSurrey 76 M
1  Article
He who dares - wins   12/26/2006

For years I was nervous, and procrastinated about contacting a lady who 'took my fancy'. That was STUPID. "We pass this way but once" is now my own attitude, and since I adopted this approach, I have had the great pleasure of meeting and dating some lovely ladies (including my late Wife).
Be honest, be kind, and be thoughtful. That is what a lady wants to see most in a ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 15 Votes ,4.82 Score
jfender 107 M
2  Articles
I'm going to Thailand   12/12/2006

Therefore I wonder what Thai women like! I mean is it dinner, or......drink .. What is the best thing to d0 ? Thank you


2 Comments, 147 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Texas76 41 M
1  Article
Keep it simple   11/20/2006

For a first date do something that is free or does not cost a lot of money. Taking a girl to dinner has been done 1, 000 times. If you don't like each other then you are stuck for 45 minutes with each other.
Guys don't buy expensive things for girls. It makes it look like you are trying to buy her approval. She will either think you are pathetic and leave, or stay around ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
Let me apologize,   10/28/2006

Let me apologize,
I am a hot headed egocentric fool much of the time acting far to quickly in anger with far too little information.. I want to apologize to SP33DY2 for my insulting remarks about his postings in this magazine. He is a very intelligent man with a kind and forgiving heart, fortunately for me. He could write some very powerful articles in French but not in English. ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
RichardTTripp 72 M
95  Articles
This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it   10/28/2006

This is crazy to me… And I am angry about it
There is a man on this site who posted 10 articles saying nothing but “Hello I’m Here”. He has a new article out now that says, “Maybe” and that is it. Now he holds the rank of 3 most contributing writer in this online magazine. I am outraged by this because there are many serious writers here ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
SP33DY2 45 M
11  Articles
hello   10/27/2006

i'm here


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
FAITHFULL1162 55 M
5  Articles
A story to remember   10/18/2006

A man met his old friend one day, after many years. He asked him where he had been all this time. The friend answered : "I went to look for the perfect woman." The man asked : "So, did you find her?" His friend said : "Yes" Then, the man asked :"Well, where is she?" His friend answered : "She was looking for the perfect man..."


2 Comments, 109 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
tjgurl 39 F
2  Articles
is it important to dress up!?!??! or just dress casually for 1st date   9/28/2006

guys n gals!
how do u dress up when u meet a person for the very first time??

do you dress like a hollywood star? or someone who's just going out for a movies??
ppl said 1st impression is important. how important should we go to the extent of looking drop dead georgeous or just plain jane or tom??


13 Comments, 329 Views, 35 Votes ,3.94 Score
djbear7272 43 M
2  Articles
first time in person   9/22/2006

have you ever chatted for awhile with someone online and really started to like that person. then once you meet in person the attraction is not there anymore or the person seems different somehow.


1 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
TechMan_1000 61 M
17  Articles
Morning Noise- Thinking of a First Date ;)   9/20/2006

Morning Noise
Waking in the morning, I hear a distant train. Washing, Thinking, Dressing. The sounds of water running. The sounds of coffee brewing. I put my shoes on. They make a tapping noise on the shinny wood floors. As the tie touchs the shirt it makes a wisking.. sound... I tie it the same way. I have for years. The sound of a female voice from the other ...


2 Comments, 50 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
We Are Perfect Match! I think NOT!   9/2/2006

Guys and Gals we all know that understanding each others feeling is important but how we suppose to be judge of that? The feelings comes naturally folks for each other to bind togather possibly a natural cause or some sort but anyway lets say you guys known for 1-2yrs on AFF been chatting god knows how long now it is time to meet person to person. The woman point of view is like ' Lets ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
natureswild 53 M
7  Articles
First knocker or last loser   9/2/2006

This topic is most important out of all relationship. Ok lets say you got your sweety already to meet you and both are excited that means you. What comes in my mind what she might look like or what he might look like Wow...stop here people are we talking about appearance judging our looks now what happen to the conversation we had on phone and MSN chat whatever you use for messenger. Hmm ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
babeinpink 51 F
13  Articles
Can someone help me answer this question? Thanks   8/28/2006

What is the good answer for if you're meeting someone at the 1st time, and he/she asks "Have you ever dated anyone or met someone offline after meeting online?"...


12 Comments, 372 Views, 25 Votes ,3.46 Score
just2slim 59 M
12  Articles
(Big Mistake)   8/13/2006

To often two friend's will have this conversation. One say'es a new girl/guy is moving in, the other say'es what does she/he look like? then the first say'es, She/he, must have a great personality, because she's/he's not much to look at.
Very wrong, very sad. our gene's, childhood, lifestye's, stress, and health issue's. Can leave a mark on all of us.but it can also create a ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
10 Tips to successfully pace a new relationship   7/18/2006

Here are 10 tips to successfully pace a new relationship:
1. Don't jump into bed on the first date, 2) Don't spend the entire weekend together, 3) Don't say "I love you" too soon, 4) Do keep your sense of self, 5) Do keep your own life, 6) Do keep dating other people casually, 7) Do keep your thoughts, feelings, and behaviour in sync with reality, Be careful when you are ...


3 Comments, 172 Views, 21 Votes ,4.24 Score
champion9999 53 M
18  Articles
What makes someone compatible?   7/18/2006

The must haves:
1. Honesty 2. Trust 3. Loyalty 4. Monogamy 5. Maturity 6. Psychological health 7. Shared relationship goal 8. Timing
The good to haves: 1. Good communication 2. overall fun and chemistry 3. Compatible intelligence 4. physical attraction 5. sexual attraction and orientation 6. similar interests 7. similar investment/ power in ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
jaemin37 44 M
4  Articles
hello   7/5/2006

What should i write about that, because nobody write me a mail


1 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes
chris525 45 M
2  Articles
ASIAN WOMAN WITH BLACK MAN...I WAS HER FIRST   6/28/2006

THE SAYING IS WHEN YOU GO BLACK YOU DONT TURN BACK..SHE CALLED ME , SAID SHE LIKE MY PROFILE & WOULD LIKE TO SEE ME...BUT FROM THE TIME I WALK INTO THE DOOR IT WAS MY BODY SHE WANTED....I WAS SINGLE AN GAVE HER ALL OF ME , AN MORE....SHE SAID SHE HAD NEVER BEEN WITH A MAN WHO WAS AS BIG AS ME IN HER LIFE...HER DREAMS CAME TRUE..., AN WE ARE STILL SINGLE, AN DATING....THAR IS NO RULES TO ...


2 Comments, 318 Views, 23 Votes ,0.21 Score
TheRookie1985 33 M
2  Articles
Special Moments   6/23/2006

This is more of an forum starter than an article, I'd like to know from both men and women: what was the best thing about your favorite first date experience. To be a little clearer, what about the date made that encounter more enjoyable than other, past first dates you had been on?


0 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Rod1357 54 M
1  Article
Lets be fair...   5/20/2006

i am often amused by certain profiles that reads:
no game... no play.. no love affairs.. no man flirting with ladies... mr right.. rich.. white male...
it look we got in a kind of dept store, looking for products, the husband or wife in these cases.. what to say ? Thinking it over and feel pity.. get a smile..
Image you find the Mr. ...


3 Comments, 136 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
ashtangiyogi 49 F
2  Articles
To Be or not To Be   5/19/2006

Love at First Sight? Anyone? Give me a double! We need no clairvoyant to find out if we think someone is special or not. No amount of make-up or perfume can cover up whatever first impression we have towards another party.
Blind Date? Want a double? Sounds like double trouble to me. I personally think its better to talk to someone or maybe a couple of messages before meeting them. ...


2 Comments, 218 Views, 42 Votes ,4.54 Score
illbeyourpoet 71 M
2  Articles
First dates are like fantasies....   5/17/2006

And... me being a hopeless romantic... my life has become a fantasy... the woman of my dreams... a whisp of warm air passing by... removing the chill in my heart but for a moment....
I have dreamed of having a wonderful relationship with a woman who wnated nothing from me other than my love and was willing to share the same.
Someone who is content with her life, needing no ...


0 Comments, 125 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Who should make the first move, the lady or the man?   4/25/2006

Should the lady make the first move or the man? What would the ladies prefer? Sexually that is..


1 Comments, 221 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Research Test: How hot should I dress on the first date!!!!   4/12/2006

I love to dress really hot!!!! Shorts only like the stud college boys uniform and hot boxers that can be somewhat revealing, with no top on in cold weather. My question is how should I dress for that important first date. I really want chicks to be attracted to me if I like them but don't want it to seem that we are going to tumble into the bed the first night.
Even though I am ...


5 Comments, 176 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Before you meet comeone on a first date   4/12/2006

Have them fax you a copy of their State ID or their Drivers License & you can do the same, to insure that you are actually meeting the right person on the first date.
It may seem cautious, but it is better to be cautious then sorry.
Also meet in a public place on your first date.
-Wiseman...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
down_by_the_sea 61 M
7  Articles
be careful   3/19/2006

i was contacted by this tidy chinese girl .petite and really nice. we had dinner then actually slept together on the first date which i have never done before, the next day came her cv and two weeks after she was playing another guy and said if i get some software, a trip to new zealand etc she would marry me and bear . all in four weeks. where do some people get off!!!!


6 Comments, 507 Views, 28 Votes ,3.45 Score
izabela81 36 F
1  Article
where we have to go for a first date???   3/11/2006

Restaurant, cinema, disco, theater, bed-hehe or maby sauna-hehe. If we go to the restaurant-who's gonna pay?i dont have idee wich place is the best for the first date, who's gonna pay for it and if I don't like that person schoud i run-how! HELP


4 Comments, 101 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
mjs77 40 M
1  Article
What do you think   3/9/2006

So you are on your first date. You are out at dinner or just walking on the beach. Most of the time there is that walking on water type of feeling...hopefully. The both of you are feeling each others energy and catching glimpses of what could be. You both send little messages to each other that you are interested. When the night comes to and end do you make that move for the first kiss, or ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
JIMMYJIM33 45 M
2  Articles
SEX ON THE FIRST DATE   2/26/2006

DO ONE NIGHT STANDS EVER BECOME MORE THAN THAT. IF I HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE WILL WE HAVE ANYTHING MORE?


4 Comments, 364 Views, 17 Votes ,2.56 Score