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elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
First date jitters   2/25/2006

I have always had a question: What do men REALLY think on a first date? Does he look at details like the woman subtly requiring him to open the door as a good sign? or a bad one? Is asking more than a nice dinner too much to handle so fast? Would it be bad to go to drink coffee at a nice cafe afterwards? I know that many first dates are a direct result of the personality of the men and ...


2 Comments, 322 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
yayaland 35 F
4  Articles
sex   2/23/2006

is that the first time meet each other must to make love, and then build the relatiosnhip? a man asked me to, but i rejected it. then he said i was play games with him....that's kinda funny... wat reasonable answer i need to tell him, to let him know i am not playing game???


14 Comments, 872 Views, 60 Votes ,5.45 Score
snowonroof2006 76 M
2  Articles
Sex early in a relatioonship   2/7/2006

Sex on the first date? <br> If you expect sex within a few dates, you aren't looking for a meaningful relationship; you're just looking for a "Quickie". Go down to the corner and pick up your local street slut, she'll get you off with no strings attached (usually after you pay her). Realize a "Quickie" with a is probably going to be cheaper and definitely faster than taking a ...


1 Comments, 296 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
How can you tell if bf or gf?   2/7/2006

For those of us who have close friends of the opposite sex.. What is your view on how to tell if the guy and girl are just friends or if they are going together as more than just friends? <br> The determination is for the person on the outside of the group-of-two people, so that one can figure out whether or not to approach the person s/he is attracted to.. because sometimes the guy ...


1 Comments, 171 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
The Group Approach..   2/7/2006

Finding ways to approach a single girl or guy on her/his own without a bunch of girl/guy friends hanging around them is probably the most sought after moment that we all look forward to.. But there are times when the guy or girl we are interested in doesn't hang around by themselves that much or at least the times that we see them they are always with the same group of friends. <br> ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Dating Nerves..   2/7/2006

When I went out with this really good looking girl.. We went out to eat at this Korean restaurant. She looked great and we had a great time together. She was really nervous though with me.. How she coped with it (I found out from her..) was that she ate and ate and ate to relax her on the date. <br> I'm wondering.. have you ever had the jitters of being soo nervous on the date that ...


1 Comments, 155 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
speedscenetv 54 M
10  Articles
Bad Blind Dates..   2/7/2006

I've been on a few blind dates. One in particular was kinda scary since my friend met some girl on an internet personals site without seeing her picture and she was bringing her friend along for moral support -so my buddy enlisted me to keep her friend entertained. Little did I know though, I would later become that girl-friends' "fresh meat, " at least that is what I felt like the whole ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
kron_krit 35 M
5  Articles
Frist Kiss   2/6/2006

I met the strange man in the pub then he holded my hand and look in my eyes . I decided kiss him . After that i never see him again


0 Comments, 100 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
CrdnAtd 52 M
8  Articles
first date   2/3/2006

first date? just go ahead date


0 Comments, 69 Views, 0 Votes
CAFLIFE 48 M
3  Articles
date   2/2/2006

date what you date, don't date up


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes
creamykitten 38 F
3  Articles
How sexy to dress on the first date!!!!   1/20/2006

I love to dress sexy!!!! Short skirts like a school girls uniform and sexy sheer blouses that can be somewhat revealing in cold weather. My question is how should I dress for that important first date. I really want the guy to be attracted to me if I like him but don't want it to seem that we are going to tumble into the bed the first night. Thanks for your answers.
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31 Comments, 1157 Views, 81 Votes ,3.82 Score
iqofone 42 M
3  Articles
Is playing the game a necessary part of dating?   1/9/2006

What do I mean by playing games? I mean playing with their minds, ignoring them for about the first half of the night, and full attention the rest. Calling 3 days later. Using the word love alot, but never saying it to them. Ending and leaving first after conversation a conversation finishes. <br> All of these are ment to make her think about you subconsiously. I know that this ...


5 Comments, 192 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
BagelMaker 44 M
10  Articles
FRIENDS DON'T LET FRIENDS DATE STRANGERS   1/2/2006

Friends don't let friends date guys like Spank Me Frank, who took a gander at Ashley Nichols' derrière during their first and only rendezvous and declared, "I want to spank it later." <br> ADVERTISEMENT <br> Nor do friends let friends meet men like the one who romanced Kristen Howey with a comped "blue-hair hour" buffet at a "cheesy" Las Vegas hotel. "He pulled out ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
MVPveli 35 M
11  Articles
Hi   12/13/2005

If you are scared please. Don't come out


0 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
MVPveli 35 M
11  Articles
hi   11/11/2005

make the girl that u love very specail


1 Comments, 131 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
drmyler 62 M
2  Articles
Those Photographs?   11/10/2005

I like AFF because the majority of females who are advertising themselves are honest nice people. However there are some who set out to mislead the potential suiter through a bit of false advertising mainly through their photographs. We know that in China it is a popular past-time to have professional photographs taken in a studio, with the right light and decent clothes to highlight the ...


4 Comments, 411 Views, 29 Votes ,3.94 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Marketing 101   9/13/2005

You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say, "I'm fantastic in bed." That's Direct Marketing. You're at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her, and pointing at you says, "He's fantastic in bed." That's Advertising. <br> You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The ...


2 Comments, 494 Views, 50 Votes ,7.11 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
4 Helpful Ways To Beat Shyness   8/24/2005

1. Realizing that shyness is a problem for you is the first step in overcoming it. List your good qualities and enjoy the fact that you have many good points that can help you overcome your shyness problem. <br> Pick one thing you'd like to change about yourself and focus on that one thing until you succeed in making positive changes. <br> Systematically dealing with one ...


0 Comments, 325 Views, 24 Votes ,3.93 Score
a1aztours 56 M
1  Article
The "easy" first date..   8/22/2005

I have found that a comfortable first date is at a Borders bookstore for coffee. It allows a person to express interests, and yet is a casual environment. It also doesn't put a typical "time" constraint on the relationship (at least any longer than a cup of coffee). Finally it allows the man to pick up the check without endue expense..and it allows for the option of continued plans ...


0 Comments, 220 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
hisa_rai_ai_17 31 F
1  Article
never been on a date/lookin for love in all the wrong places   8/12/2005

yes i have never been on a date ever. i have only had 1 boyfriend and i'm a virgin. so it is very hard for me to start looking for someone around my age 18 or 19 to date. most guys only want sex and i'm not ready for that. i'm so shy so it is very hard for me to tell someone that i like them or am interested in them.. i don't really want to just be satisfied with someone who asks for sex ...


2 Comments, 472 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
saltydog2 70 M
1  Article
No better than Western women?   8/3/2005

You see a photo on-line and immediately take a liking to her features. Soft smile, kind eyes, slim, fit body.
Then you look for the date of the photo. Was it taken yesterday or two years ago yesterday? Can you trust the person on the other end? What does it really matter?
Why do so many women make their first (and sometimes only) impressions on whether or not you have a ...


0 Comments, 192 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
xXinfernoXx 40 F
1  Article
Getting a second date...   7/3/2005

First date for me is a HUGE impression. If i dont have fun the first time....im likely to not have fun the second time. <br> I'd like to see a guy who doesnt show up in sweats and dirty tshirt. Opening doors and such are bonus points. haha. <br> i HAVE to laugh. if i dont bust out laughing at least once...thats a bad sign. laughing is a sign of enjoyment <br> ...


4 Comments, 482 Views, 38 Votes ,2.82 Score
matt467 59 M
1  Article
What to wear   7/1/2005

I think a frist date should be a casual meet so you can wear what you go out and about in, i think a fancy resterant, trying to wear the right thing just puts to much stress on a stressful meeting already.poeple are more relaxed if thay feel comfitable what their wearing.


1 Comments, 220 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
guitarman1964 60 M
8  Articles
first dates and all dates   6/24/2005

u should always treat each other with respect it will bring you closer together and it will benifit the relationship.


0 Comments, 527 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Pompey2005 47 M
5  Articles
Why go for a homerun on the first date?   6/11/2005

I find it fascinating how some guys manage to achieve a homerun (sex) on the first date. You can say that YES I am envious. But at the same time, I get upset because the girl is used like a piece of meat (I didn't put that very well, but you do understand what I mean right?). <br> I personally prefer the chase as in making progress with a girl. The first date can be dinner and ...


5 Comments, 486 Views, 31 Votes ,5.35 Score
paris42 61 F
1  Article
Is it really the first impression is so important? Because men are visual?   6/9/2005

I've heard so many times men are visual. So what do you mean by that? Do women should understand the men's characters and they should behave accordingly? <br> Whenever men emphasize that men are visual, women feel like that women should impress men by the best look with sensible dress/outfit, hair with color, thin body shape. <br> Then I read some books about how to ...


5 Comments, 331 Views, 20 Votes ,2.61 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
The most stupid thing I did on a first date was.......   6/6/2005

Tell her I participated in both reading and writing articles in a forum for TFL's, Hi Honey Chic only 10 left to tie you. If you want you can THINK it stands for Terribly Frustrated Lovers But......never mind.


0 Comments, 118 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
muffles 48 M
3  Articles
What to do on a first date ?   4/30/2005

What is the thing we should do on a first date? I hear many people in different cultures that they kiss right away or even more. I am not like that and I am wondering if I am alone in the department. I still believe in the old-fashioned (so it seems) values of opening the door, go to a restaurant and paying for the food. Afterwards maybe going to a cinema or club and generally talk, just ...


0 Comments, 276 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
power52d 47 M
1  Article
Why people shouldn't go on first dates:)   3/30/2005

If you meet a person you should generally find a common meeting place not necessarily a date persay just have a great time doing whatever it is the two people decided to do and then several guards or lines of questioning don't seem as pressing for conversation it may just seem like you are talking to a friend this way A line of communication is then resolved and you lose track of the ...


0 Comments, 279 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
sgtextreme 48 M
5  Articles
Does it have to be so hard?   3/23/2005

After being in a long term relationship I have found that dating is harder then I remember. Maybe it is just me, but I feel people are too sensative today. <br> Who is to know what works? <br> Have been back in the dating world for 1 year, I have been on 54 first dates, is it just me or do people not like to go that far these days?


2 Comments, 3964 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score