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in2play22 55 M
10  Articles
keep info confidential   7/16/2006

dont give out any private info even if the person keeps asking. the more they ask the more suspicious you should be.


0 Comments, 19 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
mgraeme 53 M
1  Article
Nigerian scams here   7/8/2006

Nigerian scammers are at it again !!
I recently started up a conversation with simplyjess44 (who has since been deleted after I reported the incident). She claimed to be Jessica Draper, an Australian artist and art collector.
I met her online and then within a day or two, she was supposedly travelling to South Africa to buy art. After that, she went to Nigeria . . . and ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
purticutegirl 44 F
2  Articles
PHONE STALKER   6/18/2006

Ladies,
Please be aware that once you give out your number, part of your privacy could be in jepordized. It took me a couple of week to get rid of a crazy member that couldn't take no for an answer. The first call went like this:
Would you please go out to dinner with me. Then afterwards come over to my place?
I of course said no. Why? Because...
#1) ...


3 Comments, 93 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
ammi23 34 F
1  Article
Let meet at the public place for the first time   5/3/2006

If you don't know about him well you have to meet him at the plublic place at the first time, and you will happy and feel good later for the second time


1 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
ABI513 69 M
5  Articles
Internet Dating Scams   4/28/2006

I continue to be amazed at the number of people, especially men, who seem to have a difficult time understanding Internet Marriage Scams. I could understand this at the advent of Internet dating years ago, but not now with the wealth of information available about scams and scammers on the Internet, TV, magazines, books, etc. Even the U.S. Embassy in Russia devotes a Q&A on the ...


2 Comments, 154 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Before you meet someone on a first date   4/12/2006

Have them fax you a copy of their State ID or their Drivers License & you can do the same, to insure that you are actually meeting the right person on the first date.
It may seem cautious, but it is better to be cautious then sorry.
Also meet in a public place on your first date.
-Wiseman...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
WisemanPhD 56 M
124  Articles
The Benefits of Having AFF Confirmed ID Tag   3/30/2006

I Just Received My AFF Confirmed ID Tag If you want to build a real relationship on the AFF website, you may have fallen in love with a fake photograph, along with a fake name, along with a fake country or city.
After all, you just have to give any credit card and a e-mail address to AFF, then you are a member! That's if you are a paying member.
...


5 Comments, 129 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
mishy5 38 F
17  Articles
Tips for getting Ready for the Big Date   3/13/2006

A Delicate Balance Tips for getting Ready for the Big Date

It’s Friday night. You’ve got a date worth getting excited about – and worth setting aside some preparation time. So why spend twenty minutes gazing listlessly into your closet? There’s no shortage of options: wow him with an eye-catching halter, or maybe shoot for demurely ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
36ford 75 M
3  Articles
Married women?   3/3/2006

I was at a dance place the other night which I go to often with some friends. There is this Philappino gal there who ask me to dance every so often. She is very attractive. A fellow I know came up to me and said, Do you know she is married. I said no, She isn't wearing no ring. He said I took her out a while back and when I went to drop her off back home she said no don't go to my ...


4 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
REJECTION creates INTERNET STALKERS   2/27/2006

It is really creepy, frustrating and violating when someone stalks you over the internet. Why do they do it mostly? REJECTION Rejection is something that is part of life, and we all have been rejected at some point in ourlives. Either the gal or the guy turned us down one to many times. Or we didn't get the job and the other girl or guy did instead of us. People are paying ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
elisa1 39 F
7  Articles
Do not give in for at least 3 months!   2/25/2006

Dating is not about technicalities. When you get technical about dating, the relationship is most likely to become technical. As a rule, I always wait three months before the relationship progresses into an intimate relationship. I know that sounds like I'm keeping a watch in the middle of the relationship but when you really think about it, my advice is correct. <br> If ...


9 Comments, 367 Views, 35 Votes ,3.06 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Beware of Drugs?   2/23/2006

These are drugs that are sometimes used to assist a sexual assault. Sexual assault is any type of sexual activity that a person does not agree to. It can include inappropriate touching, vaginal penetration, sexual intercourse, , and attempted . Because of the effects of these drugs, victims may be physically helpless, unable to refuse sex, and can't remember what happened. The drugs often ...


5 Comments, 97 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
simonchinese 43 M
4  Articles
think as a lady   2/22/2006

as a guy, the dating safty is not a big issue for me. <br> just using common sense , and make most of internet emails, chat whatever before meet.it mainly to avoid wasting time .who will date a lot of people? <br> a lady is different.I will agree with meeting in a public library, offee house etc. do not ask her realy name, address etc... <br> if you are a good ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
snowonroof2006 76 M
2  Articles
Dating/general safety   2/7/2006

Dating/general safety <br> Add to this General Safety list these common sense dating safety rules: <br> Don't be afraid to say NO! If you're not comfortable with the way things are headed, run like hell. <br> When you are comfortable enough to meet for the first time. Meet in a busy (read, where there's a LOT of people) public place. <br> Get a picture ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
CrdnAtd 52 M
8  Articles
safety   2/3/2006

Be sure bring no weapon when go for a date


3 Comments, 80 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
ThomasPhD 56 M
124  Articles
Emotional Safety! Share, Check, Share Method   2/1/2006

Share a litte about yourself and check for the following from your date to see if it is emotionally safe for you to continue to open up your feelings to this person. <br> 1) Share a little bit about yourself and see if they are JUDGEMENTAL? If they are, then stop sharing about yourself because it is not safe and you will get your feelings hurt by their own perceived harsh opinion ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
fireman544 56 M
3  Articles
File a flight plan   1/4/2006

This article is intended for women going on a first date with someone whom they are less than familiar with. I am going out on a limb here, but women will be the focus. Simply because they will be the victim if things go awry. <br> DO NOT meet your date at home or lead them there at a later time. <br> Choose the terrain. You should always plan the first date for a ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
BagelMaker 44 M
10  Articles
You've got mail, and maybe gonorrhea   1/4/2006

You've got mail -- and possibly gonorrhea, HIV or another sexually transmitted disease. <br> E-mail sent through Web sites launched in Los Angeles and San Francisco is providing people with a free, sometimes anonymous, way to tell their casual sex partners they might have picked up more than they bargained for. <br> Los Angeles County health officials launched ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
tony7491044 64 M
4  Articles
Can I trust a woman, who is seeking marriage   12/15/2005

I have been in contact with two russian woman that appear to be sincere. However, I am old enough to be their father. One of them, suggested on a three year marriage contract. During which time, she would service my personal sexual needs every night, for three years. Is this Heaven, or just "Drano" for my plumbling? Here is a young sexy woman, attractive and willing to do me a ...


6 Comments, 282 Views, 17 Votes ,1.29 Score
cuteblackchickny 58 F
4  Articles
use ur   10/30/2005

i have yet to meet anyone from the internet world in person. <br> when u meet someone from online one has to be cautious. no matter how goodlooking or beautiful the person appears in your eyes. most importantly NEVER EVER go to anyone's house or apartment after talking with them online. that is a definte NO NO... and let someone know who your are meeting, where you are ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
lartimer 58 M
10  Articles
We are good friend....   8/30/2005

It's a short one but a safe one. <br> Imagine that you meet a guy, it's the second time, you seat near to him, nothing on what you have show say you want to be with this one. It's a gentle guy but no more. Then now you are on the sofa, near to each other then the guy talk, it's quiet a longtime he talk and you still have say nothing, then he put his hand on your knees and say the ...


0 Comments, 252 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Chun_17 54 F
14  Articles
An elder brother give will soon become adult of younger sister of letter   8/7/2005

Dear younger sister, I want to tell your words, these all come from my heart. You must find out in addition to love, enable you use the strong station of a feet in the thing on the earth. You have to find out the way for make a living.Consider now not late.I think the educational background to have never what importance, all of the geniuses are not professional trainings, but, is not a ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
hui699 35 F
20  Articles
▽L∵不eHadn't you, how I obtained the world to be ableL∵不e▼   8/6/2005

How many roads does a person want to walk to be able to arrive the heaven? Often was the people in rushes toward the heaven on the road only then to see the light suddenly the heaven to miss early by oneself! ~ I like this section of speech very much, it tells the people not to want blindly to pursue the ideal, suitable the trace which stops down has a look oneself to pass ...


0 Comments, 156 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
Q&A: Avoid Looking Desperate   7/30/2005

The idea of being "congruent" when you communicate simply means to have all levels of your communication "in alignment" with each other and "saying the same thing." If you're asking a woman for her number, but you're looking around nervously and hesitating, it's not "congruent." On the other hand, if you're saying "Write down your e-mail and number for me" while taking ...


3 Comments, 576 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
slinky8888 45 M
3  Articles
Playing it safe online   7/29/2005

Don't rush into anything. Meeting someone online and then arranging a date in a relatively short time can be dangerous. Take time to find out who this person really is. If someone is pressuring you to get together before you are ready, this is another warning sign. If anything feels strange as you get to know this person, then it is time to back away and look for another match. ...


0 Comments, 271 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
slinky8888 45 M
3  Articles
Dating donots   7/29/2005

There are certain guidelines that you should follow in or to have a successful date. Should you not follow one of these guidelines, be prepared to continue the date in an awkward light and do not expect to go out on another date with this individual. If you fail to follow these simple rules, you only have yourself to blame for the dating disaster. <br> Do Not Talk About Your Ex! ...


0 Comments, 314 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
toukki 43 F
48  Articles
It Is Easy To Get Involved In Online Dating Relationships   7/13/2005

It is easy to get involved in online dating relationships; for some it can lead to an addiction. <br> Some find themselves enjoying the flirtatious advances of the opposite sex, both in chat rooms and with on-line dating services. <br> People get sucked into on-line relationships and become addicted to the world of on-line dating and chat rooms. <br> For ...


0 Comments, 198 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
bh2004 51 F
8  Articles
A Feeling of Affection   7/9/2005

A Feeling of Affection <br> <br> She came to know her Seppo, an economist from Northern <br> Europe, while having an interview at a place with the aroma of coffee.He was practising for economic reasearch by way of Beijing.Seppo had very thick and fluffy hair with a kind smile on his face.He looked like a fisherman with his dress which was ...


0 Comments, 346 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
dengshuangbi2 50 F
161  Articles
Hi,glad to meet you!   7/2/2005

Hi, glad to meet you!Thank you for your kindess !Hope we be good friend or more .DO you think so?My mobile phone is¡£Look forward to hearing from you soon! Best withes with you


0 Comments, 193 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
VeryHandsomeCdn 58 M
12  Articles
Hey be careful   6/6/2005

Great advise yes? Don't you feel like a fool for wasting the second or two it took to read this. <br> Just another chance to get points to contact someone. And I'm sick of seeing that honey chics pic and want mine on top.


1 Comments, 407 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score