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touch213 69 M
762  questions
odd parallels... - 2/7/2010

Odd parallels..

for ever beautiful woman that one can see who is a or or some nature of sex worker, one draw an abstract parallel to an equal number of, handsome men who are homosexual.

for every not so good looking man you see who loves women, one draw an abstract parallel to an equal number of homosexual women.

for every average looking man one can find, one ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Costa Rica Versus the Philippines and Thailand for Retirement and Living - 2/7/2010

(from internet) Costa Rica Versus the Philippines and Thailand for Retirement and Living

For the last 27 years I have lived in Cost Rica and have come to realize the benefits it has over other so-called expatriate havens. Over the years I have had the chance to observe a small number of North Americans who moved here and eventually relocated to the Philippines or Thailand. This led to ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
interesting reading - It "bustz' right throught the myths. - 2/5/2010

(interesting news article)

Verbal violence permeates China's Internet and beyond. It is fuelled by rampant frustrations and a lack of tradition for rational discourse.

Our skyline may be growing more spectacular by the day, but a dirty mouth characterizes China's face. Most Chinese people are polite and restrained in their personal interactions, but when the situation is ...

7 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Big Question ??? - 2/5/2010

we continue to hear how peace loving Islam is and it claims to be peaceful and god loving, in what many say it the true religion. over and over people say, it's peace loving yet.. "WHERE IS THE PEACE - and what happen to what loves teaches of humanity and the love, forgiveness and understanding. I'D LOVE TO SEE THE PEACE LOVING ASPECT OF IT - DOMINATE AND RULE OUT THE VIOLENT ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
another topic deleted.. - 2/3/2010

denial mentality does not mean things don't exist..

what does it take for censors to get that point.

4 response(s), 1 vote
touch213 69 M
762  questions
strange stuff and many changes - 2/3/2010

(from news) Ma Zhaoxu, a Chinese Foreign Ministry spokesman, said his government "resolutely opposes the leader of the United States having contact with the Dalai under any pretext or in any form."

with Beijing noting that President Hu Jintao himself urged Obama not to meet the exiled Tibetan leader.

__________________________

How can they want to be so controlling, ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what is missing - 1/30/2010

(from news) Experts on China warned Beijing could take further steps to punish the United States to show its newfound power and confidence in world affairs.

Jin Canrong, a professor of international studies at China's Renmin University, said the sale would give Beijing a "fair and proper reason" to accelerate weapons testing. China test-fired rockets in recent weeks for an ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Beyond stuff - 1/29/2010

no matter what things mankind can make, or what mankind can buy.. or anything.. that can be imagined..

its unlikely, that anything will ever be more desired than - man for woman, woman for man.. in the natural order of life... as to the heterosexual beauty.. of man and woman... because no other combination can achieve what they can...

"they naturally have the ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
silly ? - 1/25/2010

this site has censors who are pure nut cases, they want to censor what they themselves can't deal with.

1 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
a new start ........... - 1/24/2010

It's great to see the people who care to help "Haiti", over the coming year, let's hope the actual follow through continue to rebuild and build better this nations system, as well as a new interest to move and create industry there.

Let' hope the world of nations, help create a Stability in the governance.

To date, the interest and concern has been positive from many places ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
"Relations" within societies *and etc.." - 1/24/2010

"Relations" within societies *and etc..") Living within the span of Age in Humans RELATIONS within societies and etc

What do you think ?

Each person is "free to think what they choose...

Remember within the world of Relationships, it still contains all that it contains.....

0 response(s), 0 votes
guitar_hero86 30 M
1  question
Are you afraid of death? - 1/16/2010

It's natural to fear death. In fact, the fear of death is what drives us to wear our seat belts, make our wear bike helmets, and to get regular health check-ups. Some people fear the actual act of dying, the suffering and pain that might be involved; others fear what will become of their loved ones or what will happen in the after-life - if there is one at all. Wherever the fear originates, a ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
disaster hits, what will the world reveal - 1/15/2010

when the mass killing in Rwanda was taking place the world turned a blind eye. In Sudan, people turn a blind eye, ( it was about black people) -

Now, with the Tragedy in Haiti, we will see what the world will show ( it's about a nation of black people)



Let's see how much of the world steps up, to help with long term efforts??

Now. also, when it comes to ...

14 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
If... - 1/7/2010

what if, , women used their minds, to relate and made pro-active effort to communicate and share, instead of sitting back, "waiting on men to make all the moves"?

What if women stop trying to hold the world hostage with sex, relationships probably would have less conflict, and surely less bargains and manipulations, if women made less ' situation, of hinge sex, on whether or not they ...

17 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what do you think ? - 1/7/2010

With all the conflict in the Arab Regions, do you think if they change their mentality about sex, they probably will want to f^@k more than fight.

If we note the relationship between the difference..

1. they have a anti sex - mentality that punish people for sex. - so they seem to be filled with any level of motivation to fight, and even less concern for ...

6 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
this is an "honest question" - 1/6/2010

It is not meant as a racist slant, but an honest question.

Why, is the news always filled with most ly "white females", who continue to say' "they had sex, and they were mis-led, or some claim that they did not know any better, or some nature of claim as if to state "lack of self responsibility" after the fact, is always someone else fault..

Now there is a woman claim this Yoga ...

8 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
do you really trust - 1/2/2010

How many truly trust that a woman is with you just because she simply like you?



if your were flat broke and no job, do you trust that the women you are with will stay ??



do you think it is possible to find one that will be with you purely because she likes you ?

3 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
This Year - 1/2/2010

This Year I'm making effort to steer clear of non-interactive people.

life functions better with people who are inter-active... energy meets energy... and life is invigorated.

people who have apathy about everything, and people who have no self drive to interact and engage, simply does not promote much of growth..

wasting time with such types, is simply "wasting ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Under no Circumstance - 12/31/2009

under absolutely no circumstance, should Tiger all Elin to break the Pre-nuptial agreement. she has not swung a golf club not one day, and unless she worked and earned something beyond what he gives her in the agreement. Then she get's nothing beyond what it says she gets.

It's time men stand up, and stop being pimped. Just because the relationship breaks up, does not mean the woman can ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
who knows, of what love is, "beyond" the "Social Love Delusion" ?? - 12/28/2009

so many talk about love, but so few have any idea of what it truly is.

to many it means not more than having someone fawning over them, with a subservient demeanor, while they sit with their hand out, or ther mental hand, wating on someone to offer or give them something. some even think it means, that another is suppose to act like there are no other people in the world, and only see ...

7 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
who's truth do you really believe ? - 12/28/2009

do you only believe your side of the story, or do you belive enough to consider the other persons side of the story ?

when you set out to convince your mate, are you willing and open to learn, or, are you more driven to push your point across ? do you want submission from the other to accept your point, or, are you open to include their perspective in what is derived to be mutually ...

6 response(s), 2 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
Hello, I must be going - 12/22/2009

I'm exiting this site. Just wanted to put this out there: It seems that AFF is way too structured and stiff, perhaps mirroring it's Asian clientele more so than it's western members. I guess I just got tired of putting my thoughts on a seven-second delay in order to meet their "standards."

2 response(s), 4 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
Is sex addiction a real condition or a matter of opurtunitiy? - 12/13/2009

I think it's a compulsive behavior that sort of goes along with depression, anxiety and do I dare say, loneliness. But keeping it real, with a lot of guys it's all about how many options you have. Tiger Woods had a lot. I'm glad he didn't go the "I am a sex addict" route.

5 response(s), 8 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
Where did my blog go? - 12/10/2009

Fellow students. Call it karma or call it a screw up, but just as I was considering the diminishing returns of this site, I woke up to find my blog, all 53 entries, had been erased. I've looked into it. Has anything like this ever happened to anyone else out there?

1 response(s), 5 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
have you ever wanted to change everything? - 12/10/2009

Do you ever get to the point where everything has become so mundane, predictable and boring that you swear you are going to make a huge change? And do you make that move....

4 response(s), 9 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
spiritual seduction - 12/6/2009

Has anyone ever tied to seduce you spiritually? Like by talking philosophy and Zen and yoga telling you about the holiness in the sacred self and your freedom getting closer and closer, but... and all you are thinking about is kissing her. Perhaps just to keep her quiet for a moment. But that might break the spiritual spell and she might go looking for another "student"...

4 response(s), 4 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
Are we meant to be monogamous - 12/3/2009

My thought is no. I mean it's an ideal and it's a goal. But I do not believe it's a reality, especially for men who get bored so easily. I'm not saying this is right or wrong in any moral sense. it's more like a biological imperative.

5 response(s), 9 votes
omri3 60 M
9  questions
What happened between Tiger Woods and his wife? - 11/30/2009

Did she hit him and then go to war on his car with a golf club? It seems he's too controlled and disciplined to embarrass himself this way unless his wife took issue with something that might or might not be true. What do you think?

12 response(s), 10 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what do you think???? - 11/28/2009

In some ways [SOMETIMES] ( NOT ALWAYS} .. {SOME TIME'S] its like trying to talk to an Asian person, in public about something.. Two phrases and the conversation falls flat.. and after 50 attempts at trying to restart a discussion, it continue to fall flat.

I think its the difference in programs of rote learning, vs exploratory and ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
bzbeeme 48 F
3  questions
Is it true .... - 11/26/2009

That man can love more than one woman at the same time?

5 response(s), 5 votes