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Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
President Obama - 11/4/2008

Let God guide and watch over him while he takes the most powerful office in the world. Congratulations to my Black countryman for this historic time in our history. I am happy you lived to see this day.

Richard

11 response(s), 7 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
how can so many be so unaware - 11/3/2008

it baffles me, at this stage of the election process, with the powerful primaries and the drama played out campaigns, the state of the economy and a nation in a crazy war, and employment crisis, health care crisis and give aways to wall street of Billions and hundreds of Billions.. and people are still unaware of whom to vote for .. that only goes to show that the people are not as astute as ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Maybe... Maybe not ?? - 10/31/2008

I bet now.. one or a few things will happen.. people will either learn to work together and stop the money chase of each other, and get off the bargain wagon... or the world will become a cycle of johns and pro... girls...

or it will become men and woman.. who actually look at each other as people.. and individuals, and not about how much money the man has, or how much of a ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
BlueToWonder 61 M
7  questions
Joke with a point to be made - 10/27/2008

THIS IS A NONPARTISAN JOKE THAT CAN BE ENJOYED BY BOTH PARTIES! NOT ONLY THAT, it is POLITICALLY CORRECT!!.......and so timely!

While walking down the street one day a US senator is tragically hit by a truck and dies. His soul arrives in heaven and is met by St. Peter at the entrance. 'Welcome to heaven, ' says St. Peter. 'Before you settle in, it seems there is a problem. We seldom see ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
Dexter78204 32 M
2  questions
What is needed to move to China? - 10/24/2008

Okay so What comes to mind is that if I do like China a lot. And after my visit to China in 2009. How hard is it to move there and How do I become prepared? I dont want to move there and then have to move back to the United Stated cause i couldnt maker on my own.

1 response(s), 2 votes
mishmash 46 F
23  questions
Mourners say well to a young man who made a difference to so many black peoples lives - 10/24/2008

Daniel de Gale, 21, was just six years old when he was diagnosed and a shortage of black donors meant his odds of finding matching bone marrow were just one in 250, 000, compared to one in five if he was white.

Stunned at the lack of donors from ethnic minority communities, Daniel's mother Beverley, and her partner, Orin Lewis, founded the African Caribbean Leukaemia Trust to raise ...

9 response(s), 5 votes
MARGRET4REAL 32 F
1  question
What did u know about love - 10/22/2008

Tell me what u know about love?

8 response(s), 1 vote
501_LEVIS 69 M
4  questions
WEDDED BLITZ - 10/20/2008

A WELL KNOWN COMIC WAS QUOTED AS SAYING, " I WOULD NEVER BE UNFAITHFUL TO MY WIFE FOR THE SIMPLE REASON THAT I LOVE MY HOUSE TOO MUCH."

10 response(s), 4 votes
501_LEVIS 69 M
4  questions
THE WALL STREET JOURNAL - 10/20/2008

"THE WALL STREET JOURNAL REPORTS THAT 2 MILLION PEOPLE GOT MARRIED BECAUSE OF SOMEONE THEY MET ONLINE. THE BAD NEWS: FOUR MILLION PEOPLE GOT DIVORCED BECAUSE OF SOME ONE THEY MET ONLINE."

8 response(s), 3 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
How do you say Warren Buffet in Chinese? - 10/18/2008

Ka Ching





Political:

You know why they bury the dead above ground in Louisiana? It makes it easier to get them to the polls...

3 response(s), 5 votes
Dexter78204 32 M
2  questions
Where in China? - 10/18/2008

So I have a big debate. I am currently in the army and i get out in june of 2009. I have decided to take a trip to China cause i hear its a nice place. But i don't know where to go exactly. Where are some good places to visit in China?

4 response(s), 2 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
What is going on... - 10/17/2008

I often read the most respected responders responses. Since the site changed, if you look at the scores and try and read their material, there is none. Just scores. What happened?

0 response(s), 1 vote
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
Maybe we are getting smarter... - 10/17/2008

The impact of technology on our circuitry should not come as a surprise. The brain's plasticity–it's ability to change in response to different stimuli–is well known. Professional musicians have more gray matter in brain regions responsible for planning finger movements. And athletes' brains are bulkier in areas that control hand-eye coordination. That's because the more time you ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
Wow, this came from a woman... - 10/15/2008

Higher Knowledge = Peace

Unfortunately, many women believe that they have security in a so-called monogamous relationship…if that is true then why is it that nearly 80% of all marriages in the U.S. end in divorce and mostly due to the “other woman” whom in fact are already in a polygamous relationship without knowing it? If you've ever wondered about this to ...

10 response(s), 10 votes
501_LEVIS 69 M
4  questions
LANGUAGE PROFESSIONALS? - 10/14/2008

I wonder if people in China use language professionals or if their messages are original. The wording is very poetic and romantic. sometimes I wish I could put together such nice words. Has anyone that you know received such beautiful and romantic words in the message center here on AFF?

6 response(s), 4 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
"Maybe" - 10/10/2008

Maybe if the world goes broke.. it will force the women.. to come off of the "fairytale pursuits"... "the money mate pursuits", and " stop them from acting and thinking like, they are due some prize for simple relating" .



maybe they may actually learn to "want a mate" enough to actually see to appreciate, more than their " see to rate and equate"..

Maybe nothing can ...

7 response(s), 6 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
What if.... - 10/10/2008

Marijuana was legal. Some of the best stuff grown comes from the Appalachia Mountains where some of the poorest people live. It is no more a social problem than drinking and it already has social effects even though it is illegal. We could stop all the legal cost that state and federal agencies use to fight it. Prison populations would go down and tax revenues would go up. Have strict lows for ...

6 response(s), 4 votes
mishmash 46 F
23  questions
A wondersul young man, an important cause - 10/9/2008

Bone marrow campaign pioneer dies

Daniel's story was an inspiration for many A man whose childhood battle against leukaemia inspired a surge in bone marrow donors from ethnic minority communities has died.

Daniel de Gale, 21, from Croydon, died from an illness unrelated to cancer.

When diagnosed with leukaemia, a shortage of black donors meant his odds of finding ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
mishmash 46 F
23  questions
What the hell is going on? - 10/9/2008

So AFF what are you playing at?

I logged in and found a great big banner for Church and then senior citizens and in all of this I could not actually find the magazine and once I went through the various round the houses routes part of this post is obscured by another bloody add!!!!

So is all this changing a well used site, one which most of us are comfortable with really ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
chatursome 77 M
1  question
Responses - 10/6/2008

Dear Members, I have been a member of this site for almost now six months or a little more. I have had a peculiar experience thus far. I am getting responses from women from China (Maximum), Africa, Germany, and USA but from women of my own country i.e. INDIA. Can any body or a fellow member explain to me this bias against me of the women of my own country. Could it be age or any thing in my ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
valentinebabe 61 F
18  questions
Wife vs Girlfriend - 10/6/2008



Wife is like TV, girlfriend is like Cellphone



At home watch TV, go out bring Cellphone.



Sometimes enjoy TV, but most of the time play with Cellphone.





TV free for life but Cellphone, if you don't pay the services will be terminated



TV is big, bulky and most of the time old, but Cellphone is ...

14 response(s), 7 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Relationships and Money.. what's your thoughts ? - 10/6/2008

what are your thoughts about it... yes, money is a tool in life that covers the basic necessities... but beyond that... how do you see money impacting relationships?

what do you truly understand of how money impacts relationships ??

are you prepared to grow beyond your basic concepts about "money and Relationships" ??



Relationships and Money
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9 response(s), 5 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
get a free car - 10/5/2008

you may have to drastically change your living condition and what type of enviornment of political things you choose, but if you drive your old car there, maybe you can cash in.. and get a new car with a years gas,





(from news) Give up your gas-guzzler and get a free car. That's President Hugo Chavez's offer to Venezuelans. ...

14 response(s), 1 vote
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
Get Along With People - 10/3/2008

-Keep skid chains on your tongue; always say less than you think. Cultivate a low, persuasive voice. How you say it counts more than what you say.

-Make promises sparingly, and keep them faithfully, no matter what it costs.

-Never let an opportunity pass to say a kind and encouraging word to or about somebody. Praise good work, regardless of who did it. If criticism is needed, ...

8 response(s), 5 votes
poly48 49 F
3  questions
you agree in COSTUMe,nationality so that innocent are victims? - 10/2/2008

yes.? but no one to be blame just to say it is finish...my daugther was deeply in sorrow asking what she has DONE to his beloved baby died, why forEign have left newlyborn infant alone..BECAUSE THAT THE REALITY OF ALMOST FOREIGN COUNTRY.its a syndrome.. look.even mary take care baby jesus.and that the truth..so, why ? how many again will be a victims. 2month baby need a touch of love, love of a ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what do you think - 10/1/2008

do you think women in debates should get any special privileged. ??



I think if she jumps in the arena, then she should stand her ground as anyone else is expected to do.. !!!!

it seems that some of the men in the media, and some of the women, are trying to lay out some "make a concession because she's a woman mindset about the up coming debates"...

s...


30 response(s), 10 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
jog your memory - 10/1/2008

This is FUNNY....."add yours, share it with your friends"
[image] How many TV Shows or Movies or Game Shows can we come up with that we USED to watch that are no longer on TV? ADD ONE and KEEP IT GOING.... This should be FUN and jog our memories.

No repeats on the shows please.


Jo-Anne..................... The Gong ...

8 response(s), 3 votes
whiterosebud 45 F
2  questions
The Wooden Bowl - 9/29/2008

I just want to share to all of you the story of a wooden bowl.

A frail old man went to live with his , -in-law and four-year-old grandson. The old man's hand trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.

The family ate together at the table. But the elderly Grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult, peas rooled of his spoon and onto the ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
cecille2005 60 F
24  questions
DO YOU HAVE TO BE SUPERWOMAN TO YOUR LOVER? - 9/27/2008

Everybody here wants to please their LOVERS, and you're willing to devote your time to your loved ones......how do maximize your weekend with your loved ones?

13 response(s), 3 votes
cecille2005 60 F
24  questions
IS IT POSSIBLE TO MAKE LOVE ON YOUR FIRST DATE? - 9/27/2008

For late bloomers like me, upto now Im still single mom but hoping to meet my special someone...after our dinner date, should I move on -----LOVE MAKING already?

19 response(s), 8 votes