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beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Can people see beyond despair for romance ?? they might see what affects relationships integrity. - 9/29/2013

First and Foremost.....

Greed Gives rise to Anger, Obsessive Desire. Delusion. Ruin Greed is the root of all Evil.

贪婪使人产生愤怒,强迫欲望。妄想。毁 贪婪是一切罪恶的根源。

There is no Utopia….
Review the current status and climate of assessments as to what ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
What is the manner you function, when you claim you want Love ? (Are you a Loving Person ) - 5/25/2013

People can conjure many things, but nothing, will beat a person who has a true sense of compassion and the integrity to be a considerate and appreciative individual. These are the forces and elements of character that will always produce a sense and demeanor of kindness toward others.

If such is lacking, if such is weak within an individual.. Love may be very difficult for them to find ...

2 response(s), 8 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
I guess the usage of this section of the website has died. - 5/12/2013

quite amazing, how non interactive people are. This free tool of communication seems to have fallen in the dust.

Probably the greatest weakness of this website is the people. the cliche one liner crowd, who has not or does not engage the depth of exploration about any subject is probably the worst thing that could become of a social site that is based on people communicating.

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5 response(s), 10 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
How much do your trust 'young women in their 20's" vs 40 yrs old women - 1/29/2013

Do you think they have the ability to be sincere about relationships?

Do you think women who are 40+ have learned how to respect relationships and may be more trust worthy in respecting relationships ?

What age range do you think it takes for women to truly have a healthy respect for relationships ?

For a man it is the most costly life investment in every means ...

10 response(s), 10 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
how willing are you to work to make love work? - 1/10/2013

or do you just expect it to be a continual fantasy sequence?

4 response(s), 13 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
What makes for a good relationship ? - 11/24/2012

yes, it is many things to many people, but what it is to you as an individual in the understanding that can and will help lead you to finding a relationship.

What makes for a good relationship ?

be real, not just the fantasy illusions, but what it is in the everyday realism... which include the work, the home life, the social life and the ups and down and the methods of working ...

6 response(s), 11 votes
Gwoman1982 39 F
1  question
Is this investigation company good? - 9/8/2012

Before I go ona date with anyone on the site, I wanted to use a Private Investigation service. I saw this company who says they work with the Korean communty www.4privateinvestigators.com Does anyone know this company?

2 response(s), 7 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
How Envious are you? - 8/26/2012

Many will probably say not very... but upon closer inspection one may find they hold envy in too many ways against too many things. otherwise people would be of joy about the achievement of others. some even envy the expressions of others, down to even simple things of what costume another is wearing.

Why so many begrudge so much about others may be more connected to their individuals ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Let's Debate .... these items - 7/8/2012

how many older men, truly trust that younger women can be sincere and work to maintain a relationship ?

technically, it should not matter if there is a large gap in age, because people are people. But for a man, of 50, with a woman of 20, it is unlikely that the women will have an long term devotional connection in this arrangement.. If there is money involved, it may keep her for a ...

3 response(s), 6 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
What's your thought on this subject ? - 7/6/2012

Many countries where women still dress and concern themselves to be feminine seem to also care to retain a disposition of being feminine women. they seem in some ways less driven to usurp men in everyday life and many care to make families, they are not as adverse to having babies and many don't seem to be so driven to measure their lives by material things.

This pool may become smaller ...

1 response(s), 7 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
which ethnic group of women age the best - 6/2/2012

take a look at various women at the age of 60 and see which group 'generally has the best ability to maintain their skin and body as they age.

6 response(s), 7 votes
lavenderman13 72 M
1  question
Do you know the BI-CA index? - 5/29/2012

I was in China for 6 months. It was the fourth time I went there. At the place were I was, something amazed me; so I decided to invent the BI-CA index…

What is it? It is the number of bikes compared to the number of Cadillacs… Funny idea, isn’t it?

Not that funny if I tell you that I counted 9 bikes for 8 Cadillacs…

2 response(s), 9 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
May is API - Asian Heritage Month - 5/9/2012

Here in the U.S. and Canada, we celebrate Asian Pacific Islander Heritage Month. I took part of my local festival. What does your Town do to partake? ...

3 response(s), 9 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
do your require birth control - 5/6/2012

do you ask the woman if she is using any ? do you insist on condoms ?

do you think if there is a pregnancy it should be a mutual agreement ?

2 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
when was the last time a woman invited your to dinner and actually cooked it ? - 5/6/2012

only you know the answer

0 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Do you trust your mate more than they trust you ? - 5/6/2012

you decide

4 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
How much do you think money played in your relationship ? - 5/6/2012

do you think the woman would have gone out with you if you had less money ?

do you think it should matter how much you spend on a date?

do you think the date should cost the woman some money as well ?

Why do you feel the woman should not pay anything on a date ?

do you like women who never pay for anything on a date?

2 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
How far and how much do you trust the 'today's" women ? - 5/6/2012

Today with the swift changes of women's mind, and the way money seems to dominate their concerns for mate selection, and with the wild expectations of women trying to get money from the man AFTER the relationship is over...

How much do you trust women ?

Do you trust women when it comes to "your money" ?

Do you trust women to be honest about her money ?

Do you ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
do your trust in love today? - 5/6/2012

do people trust in love today, or is the degree of selfishness far greater than the concern for "shared loving"?

3 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Money - 5/6/2012

how important is money in your choice of mate selection ?

2 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Amazingly Terrible Stastics - 5/6/2012

This site has become terrible as to being interactively engaging, people simply don't indulge to explore and expand on dialog about anything.

some post have posted over a thousand view, but maybe only 4 or 5 comments. How is it possible that number of people can read something and have absolutely nothing to say ??? Are peoples brains asleep ? Do they not connect to reflect on ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
what would you think of this ? - 4/28/2012

Any man who makes "p_ _ _ _" his God, will find the devil in the woman and the pathway of hell between her legs..

( now if that does not tell man to stop worship the shape of woman, the look of her face and the lures she engages to capture him, then what else will make him wake up, and realize that he needs to un-blind himself and see the whole person. )

It's fine ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
three things... (more if you want) - 4/28/2012

what are the three things women in general could change to make building relationships more functional and have more stability ?

5 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
More on Racism in America. - 4/8/2012

Police in Tulsa, Oklahoma have arrested two men in connection with Friday's shooting spree that left three dead and two wounded--and sparked fears of a hate crime in the community.

According to Tulsa police, two white men--19-year-old Jake England and 32-year-old Alvin Watts, were arrested early Sunday.

"We're not exactly sure what their relationship is to another--whether they ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
copy cat - "the downfall programs" - 4/1/2012

Japan for years tried to mold itself after the westernized model of business and financial manipulations. Just as the years before when it came in multitudes photographing everything and becoming on of the world greatest "replicators" of products and services.

The previous generations before the late 1970's were people who saved and lived with some level of modesty and secured their ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Dick Cheney gets a heart.. - 3/25/2012

Former Vice President and Darth Vader wannabe received a heart Saturday from an anonymous donor. A cynic might argue that this is likely Cheney's first real, human heart. I know moral judgments don't enter into these things but shouldn't it have gone to someone who was not a profiteer, master manipulator and war criminal?

1 response(s), 2 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
Whitney Houston Death was Due to Drowning - 3/23/2012

Update on Whitney Houston's death. It was due to drowning as I suspected. There was a lot of cocaine in her system and she had heart disease too.

So , stay away from cocaine and other illicit drugs. Many jobs require a drug test too for employment like my company.

Whitney Rest in Peace!

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3 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
the design - 3/17/2012

sometimes it seems the design of what they allow and what they don't allow, is like they are trying to make it as generically politically correct as possible.

Rather than get out of the way and let adults talk as adults, and in-depth as one may desire to engage to go.

3 response(s), 1 vote
masada125 62 M
23  questions
More than 20 percent of Americans have a tattoo-- do you? - 2/28/2012

I heard that according a Harris poll more than 20 percent of Americans have at least one tattoo. What is your opinion of tattoos? Would you hire a man or woman who has a neck of face tattoo to work for you in a public capacity?

7 response(s), 4 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
Whitney Houston Passed Away Today. - 2/12/2012

If you haven't heard yet, Whitney Houston the Greatest Female Pop Singer in the 80's passes away at the Beverly Hill Hilton Hotel. She was supposed to go to the Grammy's Party tonight.

So what's you favorite Whitney Houston Song?

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2 response(s), 0 votes