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valentinebabe 61 F
18  questions
Is distence really just a pretense? - 7/6/2008

Many individuals trying to flirt others from very far distance and say that "distance is only a pretense." How do you think about his statement? What do they really want when they try to develop relationship so far away?

7 response(s), 14 votes
sexy_girl007 35 F
1  question
Who is the most comfortable to u.....? - 7/5/2008

Who is most comfortable & frank to you? 1) Your Close Friend 2) Your Lover 3) Your Life Partner...

3 response(s), 10 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
Maybe it is better to be in the middle class... - 7/5/2008

Leisure class gives way to workaholic elite scrambling to maintain their place in life

Being rich used to get you into the leisure class. Money meant freedom -- from work, Money worries, household chores and screaming (via boarding school).

Now, however, the wealthy seem to be as besieged as ever. The leisure class has given way to what I call the workaholic wealthy -- an elite ...

4 response(s), 13 votes
Joey_B 69 M
26  questions
"A Second Look At Costly Dating, Will It Work" - 7/4/2008

When you initially meet someone on these dating sites, is it feasible to start a relationship continents apart? Lets take a second look at this scenario and decide if the cost, both physically and mentally, is worth the time and money it will take to realize the end to the means. If you are, for example, in the United States and you meet someone in China, is this chance meeting with very little ...

20 response(s), 67 votes
Comptessa 100 F
29  questions
~*** Sports <<<<~ - 7/3/2008

Staying healthy is becoming a necesity for many of the people of our society. The best things to do to stay health are to have a healthy diet and stay active in sports or some other kind of athletic activity.



What sports do you practice (not just watch )



How do you stay healthy?
...

22 response(s), 49 votes
consigliore 72 M
5  questions
Interracial marriage vs Gay and/or Lesbian Marriage - 7/2/2008

Despite the public opposition to interracial marriage, in 1948, the California Supreme Court became the first state high court to declare a ban on interracial marriage unconstitutional. In Perez v. Sharp [1948] 32 Cal. 2d 711, the Court stated that:

A member of any of these races may find himself barred from marrying the person of his choice and that person to him may ...

13 response(s), 39 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
honestly, what do you think?? - 7/2/2008

seems every place I look, of people with relationship.. the women seem to be the catalysis to the break up.. from, things about they did not get their way, or the person did not change to suit them.. but never do I see any of them even remotely considering what they may could or need to change in themselves.. and some go and have another relationship, and the same excuses or reasons crop up.. ...

11 response(s), 12 votes
consigliore 72 M
5  questions
Thought for the Day - Are You Blind at Times? - 6/30/2008

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her, 'Now that you ...

5 response(s), 24 votes
Comptessa 100 F
29  questions
How Rich Are You ? - 6/30/2008

Consuming has turned into a major issue in the Western society starting at the beginning of the 20th century. Large corporations started encouraging people to consume in an endless way in order to boost sales and profits. Eternal Craving to what we DO NOT HAVE was born - a false idea that with every new possession a major improvement of life will entail.



...


17 response(s), 46 votes
BBW_Thai 55 F
8  questions
Why men HATE FAT women???? - 6/29/2008

Pardon me for asking but I've seen you guys were mentioning and making JOKE about FAT WOMEN and UGLY women quite a few times now.

Do you REALLY THINK that FAT women are really a OFF PUTTING and not deserve to be love and care for at all?

14 response(s), 9 votes
sentimental_me 104 F
8  questions
Trouble signing in on AFF - 6/29/2008

Hi every one

It's been quite a long time since I can get back here. It's been most a week already that I couldn't sign into AFF due to AFF server problem (it kept showing blank page saying server problem. I never have problem with any other site tho)

The last month I also had problem making my profile invisible. Of course now I can do that but another problem occur--this ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
Jennypher 39 F
12  questions
Do you believe in faith ore destiny - 6/28/2008

Yesterday when i parked my car i saw an Asian lady walking on the street, we had some slight eye contact but i was to busy to rush to my office. On lunchtime i saw the same lady in the foodcorner so we smiled polite to each other as we both remembered each other from the morning. After work time and during happy hour in a club we bumped each other again and we couldn't resist to talk with each ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
why do they give us the option to "hide post" - 6/27/2008

they give us the option to Hide post in the blogs, but I don't see any method to retrieve it, ... it's kinda odd.. to give the ability to do that, and not give a link to a log which contains it.. ??



does anyone see the logic in that.. would it be easier to simply say, "delete".. or "permanently delete"

any info or help with understanding this would be appreciated.. ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
Comptessa 100 F
29  questions
Blocking & Deleting - 6/27/2008

Why do some members here feel so threatened by a cheerful photo I will never understand.

Would they rather see a tree or a fish talk to them.

I know who the member is that reported me and also blocked me from leaving comments, which I find very infantile for a 61 year old Fart to play such silly games. Just because I told him that his mail to me was blocked by AFF because he ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
I don't get it do you know the answer?? - 6/27/2008

I keep getting a lot of winks, from picture-less people.. ?

4 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
what do you think about blogs? - 6/27/2008

I actually like them, and I guess after a couple thousand of them, I guess it would be only logical to say such..

but what I think about blogs, is that it's sad, people say nothing generally to things, of the many thousands that many thousands of people have posted.. it's pretty sad, that a site that boast of up to and over 7 million members, that there would be so few who have anything ...

2 response(s), 6 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
Finally... - 6/27/2008

A Washington woman was sentenced on Wednesday to two years in prison and five years of supervised release for her role in an Internet counterfeit check scheme.



Edna Fiedler pleaded guilty in March to attempting to defraud U.S. citizens in a scheme known as a Nigerian check scam.



Fiedler helped her accomplices in Nigeria send fake checks to people who had agreed ...

3 response(s), 10 votes
Comptessa 100 F
29  questions
Dealing with Insomnia - 6/26/2008

About 50 million people suffer from insomnia at one time or another.



It has recently been discovered that sleeplessness is linked to two things:

* your level of emotional stress, and * the way you respond to diet and lifestyle changes.



That means your thoughts, attitudes, and behaviors -- NOT physical problems -- are at the root of ...


11 response(s), 12 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
what's with Kudo's - 6/26/2008

I don't know what they are good for, nor if it's useful to even have it on my page.. but what I have noticed, is even not using it, it continues to "diminish" in volume.. "what is that all about"..

either you have it or you don't, and what is the point, when it vanishes without even engaging it ??

6 response(s), 4 votes
mishmash 46 F
23  questions
Race for Life - 6/26/2008

This is a calling to all Londoners.



On the 19th July I will be running in the race for life in Regents Park.

This event raises vital funds for Breast Cancer research.

However it's not just about Breast Cancer. Having lost my father and uncle to different forms of cancer this issue is close to my heart.

If you are around on that day and fancy coming ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
doodahday 41 M
34  questions
Mr Obama goes to Washington - 6/26/2008

Uh oh, here it comes... can't keep quiet. I am a little dissapointed, and would like for optimistic supporters of Barack to enlighten me. A week ago, he announced that he would not be taking public funding, which means that he can spend as much money as he wants on his campaign, filling the TV airways with short commercials that amount to soundbites, nothing substancial. Why is this a big ...

10 response(s), 15 votes
Alpha_Male_ 55 M
57  questions
Are you taking .... - 6/25/2008

... a vaction? Where will you go?

6 response(s), 8 votes
Comptessa 100 F
29  questions
For Better or Worse - 6/24/2008

Where did we get our marriage vows from? I mean you know this saying of the marriage vows when people get married, where did this come from? What the ministers use. You know “for better and for worse; in sickness and health.”

.

That’s sort of a traditional thing. I think you can trace most of that back to the ...

13 response(s), 19 votes
Comptessa 100 F
29  questions
Your Multitasking Ability - 6/23/2008

I know many people who are very good at multitasking, which includes me as well.

I catch myself constantly multitasking, from chatting, to typing, and at the same time watching TV

How good are you at multitasking?
...

7 response(s), 17 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
the trip with "making love".. do you understand it ?? - 6/23/2008

the trip with people.. and making love..

is; maybe they should stop trying..

"just get together and actually flat out F___ ! , and in and within the process and thru the flow, they may find out, they've made love""... dynamically .. can you handle it in such simplicity, without the pomp and pageantry of pre-staged ...

9 response(s), 5 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
what do you think goes into making a good nights sleep - 6/23/2008

It may be something to the article that spoke about , men sleep better when there's a woman in his bed.. and women are more at peace within themselves when there is a man in the house ??

what do you think ??



My thoughts about it..

("A good nights sleep..") use A good nights sleep...

5 response(s), 3 votes
cutejuanita82 36 F
1  question
boriness - 6/23/2008

how can i get over boriness and being broke most times

9 response(s), 5 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
what do you think of the - 6/22/2008

many tragedies around the globe, the Mid western US got a devastating cycle of destructive things, China with it's bad winter and then the Earth quake, Now the Philippines with the destruction that has ravaged the place..

this is global catastrophic things, and they are just written off like a passing fad.. not just of the people destruction but of the world cycle of events that are ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
who's who's and what's what ? - 6/22/2008

do you think your are better than the average person on the net?

do you think you would not trust someone on the net ?

do you take this more as entertainment ?

do you take this as less than being reality ?

if you think it's not reality, why do you spend time doing something that you feel is not reality ?

are you any less of whom you are because you use ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
touch213 70 M
762  questions
why do you "PERSONALLY" think you have not met somone on the internet? - 6/22/2008

what do you think?? are some reasons?

( you only have to be true with yourself in your reasons).. but, truth may reveal something within you that helps your chances..

can your truth withstand open discussion ?

if not, how do you think it will withstand, being open with whom you desire to meet ?

4 response(s), 8 votes