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SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
What Makes You Happy? - 2/11/2012

What Makes You Happy?

Today I went to see three motivational speakers. Omar mentioned the driving success on sales. James spoke of finding extra income by renting out rooms in your house.

One woman, spoke of the importance of making yourself happy first, before you can perform, and soar.

You have to work on yourself first, in order to be happy and be successful in ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
bettygolfer 57 F
1  question
Anyone have been cheated by scammer? - 2/9/2012

Have any members cheated by scammer on dating site? I just wanted to tell my story to let memebers aware and careful. I just met a guy on this dating site, he sounds very kind and manner. He stated he is 51 years old and a widow, his wife died 6 years ago in cancer. He said he wants to start a new relationship and try to find a Miss. Right. He said he works as self employed and travel ...

7 response(s), 4 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
What's Your Favorite Dating Horror Story? - 2/6/2012

Hi Everyone!

What's your recall of a bad date that has gone wrong? Was he or she not want you expected since the posted a younger photo of themselves online?

What he rude or have bad manners? Did your date ask you to pay half the bill, without consulting with you beforehand?

Please let us know!

...

4 response(s), 1 vote
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
Valentine's Day 2012 - 1/30/2012

Do you have a sweetheart for Valentine's Day? If not don't feel too bad. I'm alone too.

So buy yourself some chocolates!

8 response(s), 4 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
What one quality do you find most attractive in a man and in a woman - 1/28/2012

I think the qualities can be the same for both, such as honesty and kindness. The quality I find attractive in other men is a sense of humor. THe quality is find most attractive in women is kindness. And honesty, for both genders. What are your thoughts

2 response(s), 5 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
What are Your Goals for This Year? - 1/11/2012

What are some of your goals this year? I also wrote a blog about it too.

I like to make more income, off course in my new career! How about you?

5 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
your individual view - 1/8/2012

As a Man: what makes a good woman in YOUR VIEW for you as a mate selection?



As a Woman: what makes a good man in YOUR VIEW for you as a mate selection?

Character Type; Physical Type: Emotional Type Sensual Type Compassion Type Economic Type Political Type: Social Type Charitable Type: Work Ethic Type Family ...

5 response(s), 7 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
Do You Believe in Ghosts and Spirits? - 1/4/2012

I just wrote in the Blog Section, discussing some ghosts tours I've gone on.

Do you believe in ghosts and spirits. Are you superstitious as well. I know a lot of the Asian Cultures really believe in superstition, surrounding death and dying.

My family practices in having many Memorial services after one of our close relatives dies, according to the Buddhist schedule. Yes, ...

3 response(s), 6 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
Is Grad School Really Worth Going Nowadays? - 1/3/2012

We are still recovering from the recession. So is going to Grad School going to get you hired for your next job? Is it worth spending at least $40, 000 to $60, 000 in tuition, plus interest for financial aid?

Or can you advance in your career from your own smarts, job experience, motivation and leadership skills?

For sales, or what I'm doing, you don't need a Masters degree. ...

7 response(s), 4 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
What Are Some of Your Goals for 2012? - 1/2/2012

Happy New Year Again! 2012 is Here! Year of the Dragon. I hope it will be better for everyone than last year!

So What are your goals for 2012? Do you have any? If not why not create some for your work, charity, church, family, education, neighborhood or community?

...

8 response(s), 5 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
Do You Believe in Magic? - 12/31/2011

Do you believe in destiny, fate or magic in meeting the right person? The right match to be your mate?

...

7 response(s), 6 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
what do you believe in - 12/28/2011

If you don't have the belief in God.. then what do you believe in?



For me, I don't buy into the evolution program, nor do I think all the things of the universe just came into being and maintains itself with some orbital order without a masterful power being at work.

I've yet to see a human being or any living thing, will itself back to life, nor have I ever seen a ...

7 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
What is your New Years Wish? - 12/26/2011

Well, hope this one is considered less cynical then some others I posted. What is your New Year's wish? Is it grand in scope, something like world peace or is just maybe peace in your own life for a day. Is it to fall in love? Or maybe to escape a bad relationship? Maybe, you, like me, just want to be dazzled by radiance. Like your third grade teacher said there is no wrong answer.

3 response(s), 8 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
New Year's resolution-- what a sorry cliche - 12/19/2011

Do you actually make resolutions? How did that lame tradition get started. It's almost like a stringent reaction to the holiday season excess, a form of atonement. I think it's just a cliche that needs to go away. So, what resolutions will you or will you not make?

3 response(s), 6 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Ever been censored? - 12/11/2011

I got word that my most recent blog had to be updated because I used profanity. The thing is, I didn't. I used the "h" word which is slang for being desirous. Have you ever been censored over something trivial? Meantime, (female) members are allowed to post photos which might generously be described as "suggestive." So what gives. Is there a double standard?

3 response(s), 5 votes
prakash3020 27 M
3  questions
Check this site. - 12/10/2011

http://asiafriendfinder.com

0 response(s), 4 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
What Are Your Holiday Plans? - 12/7/2011

What Are Your Holiday Plans?

Is it going skiing in the Alps or Whistler or Telleride?

Is it shopping til you drop? Is it getting together with your relatives.

I met one recent White guy friend, who isn't talking to his parents and refused to see them for Thanksgiving. I did invite him to my relatives' dinner but he rather not go.

Some people don't understand ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Holiday blues or depression.. how to cope? - 12/7/2011

Even if you don't celebrate Christmas, which I don't, the season, with all its forced "joyfulness" and consumerism can get you down. I wonder if its just a seasonal thing that makes people feel alienated or wistful, or whether it really is a launch pad for depression, for those of us prone to it. Anyway, what are some ways of coping this time of year?

3 response(s), 4 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
How Are You Culturally Involved in Your Community? - 12/6/2011

How are you culturally involved in your community?

Masada pointed out a recent rant on his blog about racism. So I try to pull a more positive action step you can do.

I think to understand racism and understand other people's cultures, you have to dive in and just experience it. Whether it's eating at Ethnic restaurants or going to ethnic festivals.

You can also do ...

10 response(s), 8 votes
bsulistio 49 M
1  question
human habits - 12/6/2011

Do you believe that you are rich many people claim to friends / relatives, if poor lot of friends or relatives away from it?

1 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Do you actually believe in astrology and its role in relationships? - 12/5/2011

I don't. It seems as much hocus pocus to me as New Age stuff like crystals and other fake magic. When people ask me what sign I was born under, I tell them, The dollar sign, " or, "the no exit sign." Really, who cares if your moon is Uranus.

4 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
like a truth serum... - 12/3/2011

truth spectrum?

There's not much you can hide, when having sx, and expect to be satisfying and to result to feel equally satisfied !!!!

It's quite amazing the truth that sx forces to the surface, or, without engaging with the nakedness both external and internal, one will wallow in the self frustration of dis-satisfaction and try and blame it on someone else.

sex, ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Are there just too many bloggers? - 12/2/2011

Asia Friend Finder claims there are more than 72, 000 bloggers amongst its membership. Can 72, 000 people really have something unique to say? Granted, many blogs are in Mandarin, but has blogging become perhaps a bit too "Democratic." By the way, check out my blog.

3 response(s), 2 votes
SugiDancer 62 F
18  questions
How Many of you are still Unemployed? - 12/2/2011

Hi All! Thank you so much for viewing my articles and Blogs. I like a supportive community of people worldwide. The question of the Day:

How Many of You are Still Unemployed?

I recently landed a Commission Only Sales job that's really important to the community. It fell on my lap since not too many people I know would ever do this job in Funeral Sales.

What do you ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Do extra-marital affairs ever end happily? - 12/1/2011

Even if two people are or were in terrible marriages, do affiars ever really work out for the best?

7 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M
23  questions
Could you ever fall for someone who didn't make you laugh? - 11/28/2011

I think being with someone who has a sense of humor is really important. There is a real charm to a person who is funny. I'd take that attribute over great beauty every time.

4 response(s), 4 votes
prakash3020 27 M
3  questions
2012 - 11/23/2011

In 2012 earth will get destroyed am i right ??????

4 response(s), 0 votes
prakash3020 27 M
3  questions
waht is love ? - 11/22/2011

Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.[1] In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. Love is central to many religions, as in the Christian phrase, "God is love" or Agape in the Canonical gospels.[2] Love may also be described as actions towards others (or oneself) based on compassion, or as actions towards ...

8 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Are people like spiders - 11/15/2011

Male nursery web spiders sometimes "pay" for mating using worthless gifts, with a new study finding the gals are not impressed with the empty offerings.

These gifts serve as decoys: Worthless bits of flower, cotton or ant husks wrapped in silk that serve only to distract the female while the males have their way. Another trick? If not satiated, males play dead until the female thinks she ...

2 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
is it worth it - 11/13/2011

When one is of claim to make a relation, and want it to be with a flow of loves delights mingled in with the broad spectrum of loves reality... is it worth destroying over a whimsical want, or a situation irregularity. is it worth the acts that deteriorate the ability to communication with emotional tantrums? is it worth destroying by expecting more than one is themselves willing to give ? ...

6 response(s), 4 votes