masada125 62 M 23  questions	Hey, what happened to my home page? - 11/9/2011 I logged in and my home page was different, redesigned with the emphasis on the search for a mate aspect on the far right. What do you think of the changes? I'm a little disoriented, no pun intended. 2 response(s), 1 vote
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	Do You Use Body Language on Dates? - 11/8/2011 Do you know how to flirt or use body language with the opposite sex or partner? There's a lot of cross cultural relationship here at AsiaFriendFinder and the sister sites. For women they would smile, give eye contact, play with their hair, or touch their earrings, let their shoe hang on their foot, while crossing their legs on a bar stool. Can you read these signals? Men would ... 3 response(s), 5 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	Conflicts Between Men and Women - 11/8/2011 Why do couples have conflict? There's obvious differences in the opinion between men and women. But hopefully we can build a better understanding by communicating and talking things over. A clear message needs to be sent. Look for body language and expressions on your partner's face. Don't sweep problems under the carpet when they need to be addressed. You can always give ... 15 response(s), 3 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	What Do Asian Women Find Attractive About White, Non-Asian Men? - 11/8/2011 Masada asked why do White or non-Asian men like Asian Women. So I'm going to ask the Ladies why do Asian Women like White, Latino, Black, or Native American men? I've widen the scope since I'm dating some White and Latino men now, since there's a shortage of unattached attractive, Middle aged Asian American men here in Seattle that I know personally. So I don't want to hear from the men since ... 1 response(s), 1 vote
masada125 62 M 23  questions	What do women really want? - 11/6/2011 Is it about being emotionally or financially comfortable. Is it about finding a guy with feelings or cash. I suppose the ideal is both. But what is most important and lasting? A guy without any sense of humor or empathy who can spoil a woman with luxury and treat her like an object, or a guy who is physically and emotionally present but cannot afford a new Lexus or bling any time she purrs. 6 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Is political correctness making us all idiots? - 11/5/2011 I'm sick of the whole PC thing. We need to be racially and ethnically aware, but some of the terminology we use now, and the way we are censored for expressing dissenting ideas that are not "green, " "progressive" or particularly "appropriate." is robbing us of our honesty and individuality. 4 response(s), 5 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Is there such a thing as a soul mate? - 11/4/2011 Many women on this site make it clear they are searching for their "soul mate." Does such an ideal actually exist? Is it more of a dream for woman than for men? 16 response(s), 6 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Wouldn't you like to know... - 11/3/2011 Do you ever get notice that you have received an AFF e-mail only to check it and find out the sender and her message have been "removed" for some reason. Wouldn't you like to know what was in that "forbidden" e-mail. After all, It might have been the "alternative" you were seeking. 4 response(s), 2 votes
SugiDancer 62 F 18  questions	Home for the Holidays? - 11/2/2011 Here in the U.S. people usually run home to go to Thanksgiving Dinner. I wrote a blog on holidays, so check it out in the Blog Section. So I wonder how many Asian immigrants go back to visit their relatives in Asia? Or do they just stay in the U.S, Canada, or UK and celebrate Thanksgiving or Christmas and New Years in the country they have settled in. My dad was born in ... 2 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Will Facebook take over the virtual world - 11/2/2011 Will Facebook eventually make sites like this obsolete? I think it has already cut into AFF's market share. 2 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Separate worlds - 10/31/2011 Do you feel like this site is several different worlds. People kept apart by language and culture rather than united. I think AFF should supply a translation service to help communicate with mandarin, cantonese, korean and other languages, including English for non-speakers. I think there's a lot of potential friendships going unrealized. 4 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Have you ever said this? - 10/30/2011 I think most guys are a mixed bag. Part dog, part hero, part . Most of us do our best to be good men. But when it comes to the things we say to women in the heat of passion, all bets are off. The one line I find inconceivably wrong-headed is this: "You make me want to be a better man." Have you ever said it? Does any guy really mean it? 9 response(s), 4 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Why do we find Asian women so attractive? - 10/28/2011 I was at the science museum in NYC and learned that there was no specific gene in our DNA that determines race. Racial identity, preference etc. is a social and evolutionary process. Studies show that many people, men and women, prefer faces that are more varied than their own. What do you find desirable about Asian woman, and do you think ASian women-- discounting their motives, find ... 2 response(s), 2 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	What really matters? - 10/25/2011 Is it sex? Is it companionship? Is it the realization that you must find someone lest you might die alone? Or is being alone OK? Or maybe nothing matters... so then, why do we chase elusive women who float across our screens like sirens driving us into the rocks of hope and despair? What, in this world of male and female confusion and ecstasy really matters to you? 5 response(s), 4 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Is it the same for guys? A name for a male cougar... - 10/24/2011 SugiDancer wrote an interesting blog about her Cougarhood and dating younger men. What would you call a guy who dates, or seeks to date, younger women? Do we have a double standard? A woman 45-60 or so, is empowered to explore her sexuality and feminine wisdom and seek younger pastures. What about a guy? Isn't he usually considered a bit sleazy or desperate or lecherous or is that just a ... 3 response(s), 3 votes
masada125 62 M 23  questions	Now and Zen--women in your life - 10/23/2011 How have your relationships with women changed as you've matured? Have you become more relaxed and accepting or more resentful? Do you look for different qualities now in a potential mate/partner/ lover or are you still driven by the same criteria you had when you were younger? 2 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	"Really, what is up with our society? - 10/17/2011 Surveillance video of passersby ignoring the plight of a Chinese hit-and-run victim has sparked international expressions of shock and horror--together with a bout of soul-searching in Chinese society. The video is obviously disturbing. It shows a 2-year-old girl who was run over by a van that then drove off, leaving her bleeding on the street in the city of Foshan, in China's ... 6 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	what do you think ? - 10/14/2011 Best Opinion: Daily Mail, Modern Mom, The Frisky (quote) Sx increases blood circulation, and that's just one of the health benefits. Hormones released during sex can soothe aches and pains, and a 2002 study found that women exposed to sperm through unprotected sx reported less depression than those who used condoms or abstained from sex. If you're still not sold—"sx helps you ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	what are some things about "arrangement for fee" you notice ? - 10/9/2011 well, life is interesting. what are some things about time with a pay date ? You don't have to hear a bunch of stuff about "I don't do this or I don't do that", or "I'm such a good girl and I'm not like this or that. There is no game about getting undressed and getting busy. There is no routine program, of where to start. There is no need to have to deal with a woman ... 2 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	Money... how much do you understand about it in relationships? - 10/9/2011 The funny thing about money is: when in general communities that have a functional level of money, they take better care of their community, their home and their individual lives. There was a time when communities that had much less money, kept their communities as best as they could, but today, in some communities, the lack of money is a curious thing. Priorities changed. ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	what do you think of... - 9/24/2011 what do you think of women who want, "instant commitment" from the man when she is pursuing him, but they are not of the same motivation if it is the man who is pursuing them ? do you think that women feel just because they want "instant commitment" that a man should just submit and commit ? Do you think women's impatience has anything to do with why relationships make premat... 2 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	guys... - 9/19/2011 don't stop talking on here because these stuck up women won't participate... 10 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	what advice would you give ? - 9/17/2011 (1). If someone tells you something is "FREE" - step back and examine it carefully, and examine them carefully too... (2). If anyone tell you that something is "FREE" .. IF they do not say another word, and step back and let you get it, Take it ..... 2 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	how does it work?? - 9/4/2011 when the chat thing, list (1) person in the chat room... how does that function it's got to be the most silly thing in the world, to list that more than a million people are part of this site, but it shows, only (1) person listed as being in a chat. I think that is simply hilarious... 1 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	Money madness - is Loves Loss - 9/3/2011 do you see a relation in the concept ? 6 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	have you noticed - 9/2/2011 some of the Asian women, if they can't deal with different view points, they either shut down, or write their post in their native language, and any other method, when they don't get patronized, or their blogs get the answer they expect.. I think it is hilarious.. but it sure does show that these would not be suitable choices for mates, because they seem to more driven to make states as ... 2 response(s), 4 votes
Cy83rDra90n 36 M 1  question	What Are Asian Women Thoughts On Polyamory? ( Not Polygamy ) - 8/24/2011 How Do U Feel About Falling In Love With 2 Or More Men? How Do U Feel About 2 Or More Men Falling In Love With U? How Do U Feel About Raising A Family, Knowing U Gave Birth To Who Belong To 2 Or More Different Fathers And They All Live With U And Help Take Care Of U And The ? Do U Think Love Is Bigger Than 2 People? Would U B Okay Being Friends With A Girl(s) Who Is In Love With Your ... 6 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	the distortion of design - 8/14/2011 as long as the current day society, give so much power to the female to choose if a relationship exist, has been the greatest down fall to the nature of relationships. ( this does not mean a woman should stay in an abusive relationship, nor forced into an unwanted relationship)... It means, men need to awaken and not fall over-himself trying to entice nor convince a woman to be ... 2 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	What is your thought about people mis-treating others. - 8/12/2011 Cambodia on Friday to stop supplying housemaids to Malaysia, claiming many are abused and made to work like slaves because of inadequate protection. Malaysia has recruited thousands of Cambodian women since neighboring Indonesia barred domestic workers from coming to Malaysia in 2009 another was rescued by Malaysian police after she was allegedly abused and had her ... 3 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M 103  questions	do you find it odd.... or not ? - 8/7/2011 this site is a trip... look at these figures: 5, 187, 648 Members** 3, 185 Members Online!** Now do you think it to be logical, that out of over 5 million people, only 3k are on line at any given time. that is about: 0.06% How is that for performance.. now imagine, out of that; not even .01% comment or respond to anything. ... 1 response(s), 3 votes