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beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
" - 11/25/2010

what is the status of 'Water" in China

0 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
How much is wasted... - 11/25/2010

for humor

How much sex is wasted day in and day out around the globe... ?? women sitting on it letting it age in an un-used condition.

Should they be more "Thanks- giving"......

13 response(s), 6 votes
elf86 52 M
2  questions
Japanese women - 11/15/2010

I am a returning college student who for many years thought I knew something about asian women. I am studying Japanese and Chinese languages to help in my major...and to impress asian women. Well, I am back in college and spend time with a local fan club of japanese students. After spending time with a specific woman from Osaka, I have come to a startling and devastating fact:

I don't ...

8 response(s), 9 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
how have you changed ? - 11/7/2010

over the years, what stand out the most about how you have changed? this question is far less easier than it may appear..

* what changed about your views of money/ what changed about your views of material things?

* what changed about your views of love and relationships?

just a few lead in questions, to get the mind moving...


...

1 response(s), 2 votes
Trina241 30 F
1  question
isn't this site stupid? - 11/2/2010

i find that this site is very stupid, since we're free member and we couldn't do anything even just view other people profile. Come on give me a break!

4 response(s), 12 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
funny question...'s - 10/29/2010

no matter how pretty she is, or how sensual she dresses herself to come across as a toy mate of please, nor how she temps and tease with the allure as a ever ready sexual engage'r... It matter not if she comes across as the studious and thrift one or the earth lover with natural appeals... has any man yet, found one, that does not find a way, to bring challenge, drama and conditions that come ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
An Addition within "RELATIONSHIPS" ??? - 10/23/2010

YES, it may well come a time, that people will need to give each other a 'warranty", when they agree to enter into a personal committed relationship"

A warranty is an assurance by one party to the other party that certain facts or conditions are true or will happen; the other party is permitted to rely on that assurance and seek ...

1 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Spending your Money, Make it a Responsible Act. - 10/23/2010

Everyday junk... its sold all over the place it appears not to be junk when you think you need it, but some of it, if you buy it, and get home you find out just what a piece of junk it may be, or within a short time, we find out what a piece of junk it may become





marketing is a psychological ploy, to lure in the buyer, advertising shows what the options are ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Spending your Money is a - 10/23/2010

Everyday junk... its sold all over the place it appears not to be junk when you think you need it, but some of it, if you buy it, and get home you find out just what a piece of junk it may be, or within a short time, we find out what a piece of junk it may become





marketing is a psychological ploy, to lure in the buyer, advertising shows what the options are ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
is love your dream, or do you live it as your reality ? - 10/23/2010

Some build many fantasies about how they want to think about loving, some deny their ability to love, by waiting for a dream sequence of some perfect conditions, and some plan and craft and spend their time planning and crafting, and never engaging love.

Life is its own paradox unto many, who are unaware that "Love is ALWAYS a O.J.T. ( On Job Training),

Unless one can capture ...

3 response(s), 1 vote
GoodGuy2039 63 M
4  questions
Any Nice Women Out There? - 10/16/2010

I am 50 and divorced and I like women and treat them with respect. However in the past 23 years that I have been divorced all I have met are bitches, man haters, divorced poisoned ball breakers, masochists, Professional Victims, junkies, drunks and emotional cripples. I am tired of seeing Anglo Saxon women stagger out of nightclubs at 3.00 am groping some guy they just met who bought them 3 ...

5 response(s), 11 votes
shinshin72010 41 F
1  question
hello - 10/15/2010

hello

1 response(s), 6 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
what do you really seek ? - 10/10/2010

no one knows but you !!!

scenarios, for the sole sake to inspire thought

if you think there is a fairy tale sequence, then you create your own denial cycle, and in the end you can only blame yourself for the love you don't engage.

if you think that love has to be some over-whelming infatuation sequence at first sight, then you probably have walked past ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
maariv 54 M
6  questions
Unintentionally funny.. - 10/5/2010

I viewed an AFF member whose tag line was "I love Flushing." Flushing is a perfectly nice community in Queens, which is part of the metro NYC area. Please understand I am in no way poking fun at anybody or demeaning anyone. I just thought it was funny and I had to laugh. People in NYC are always making Flushing jokes anyway.. What's made you laugh or smile on this site. Anything?

2 response(s), 7 votes
maariv 54 M
6  questions
Have we become an "idiocracy?" - 9/29/2010

I was at the gym yesterday and on the TV there was Levi Johnston being interviewed on a news program as if he mattered. The guy came off as an absolute idiot. He is famous for fathering an out-of-wedlock with the of a famous political airhead who is very dangerous to progressive thinking Americans. Guy admitted he did not have his GED, or high equivalence accreditation, could not differentiate ...

6 response(s), 3 votes
maariv 54 M
6  questions
What do you think of this AP news story-- Big Brother never sleeps - 9/27/2010

WASHINGTON – Broad new regulations being drafted by the Obama administration would make it easier for law enforcement and national security officials to eavesdrop on Internet and e-mail communications like social networking Web sites and BlackBerries, The New York Times reported Monday. The newspaper said the White House plans to submit a bill next year that would require all online services ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
maariv 54 M
6  questions
What code works? - 9/24/2010

Have any of you tried tom posting anything in Mandarin, either through an online translator or otherwise? I once tried but the translation "fell apart" maybe because the site did not recognize the coding. Any ideas?

1 response(s), 0 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
Todays society.. what is your take ? - 9/24/2010

There was a time when people communicated, and mated, build relationships, and there was even a time that in the average daily lives of the average citizen populations, that money was not the overt aim in relationships, people did not even play the pursue a title mentality as they do today.

Today, not only will many women not talk if they don't see money signs, some don't talk if they ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
maariv 54 M
6  questions
What would you do differently if you had the chance.... - 9/23/2010

You very rarely hear a younger person say "I am not going to waste my youth."

I think a source of a great deal of mid-life angst is that failure to honor that bridge that has taken you from the sensual and ego-driven youth to a sadder kind of awareness of the preciousness of what has passed in your life while you were living it. If you had your youth to relive what would you do ...

9 response(s), 4 votes
maariv 54 M
6  questions
Which is better? - 9/22/2010

Is it better to be lucky, or to be fortunate? Providing that there is a nuance of difference between the two, which is "bette"?

7 response(s), 6 votes
stanley6971 60 M
1  question
If you have the Luck . . . - 9/22/2010

The question is "if", the important word is "if"

It's not whether "luck" exist or not, or whether it is a "Bad Luck" or "Good Luck".

Of course we hope for Good Luck!

When do you know, if you got the Luck?

It's the time when you least expected, you get want you wanted!

You may have been struggling all your life, but suddenly your life changed because ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
dina99 34 F
1  question
what attracte you the most in other person? - 9/20/2010

really how people attracted to eachother?

7 response(s), 6 votes
Glassman472 60 M
3  questions
Does anyone read Profiles? - 9/19/2010

I'm baffled. Does anyone read a person's profile or do they just simply wink or email you based on looks alone (not to imply that I have any great looks). It says right up front in my profile - even where Standard members should be able to see it - that I don't have , don't want to have them and cannot have them. That I don't want to be a surrogate father. Yet, I still get winks and emails from ...

3 response(s), 7 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
how do you see it ? - 9/18/2010

Overheard a couple in the store talking in the check out line, about tabloid stories.. they said: every week the headlines is about a woman exposing her sexual activity, and publicizing her affairs, and they noted it was 'always pre-dominantly 'white women and girls", and rarely will you see stories of other ethnic women, complaining in the media blaming some man, because they chose to have sex ...

2 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
6 days of Summer Left... did you - 9/18/2010

did you do the thins you had desired to do for the summer ?

1 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
why does some people.. - 9/13/2010

why does some people show aging more quickly than others ??

( you don't need to be a doctor to have an opinion )

2 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
I guess EZ, is on vacation - 9/6/2010

Well, have not heard from EZ on the magazine for a while, maybe he's having vacation ?? or maybe he got married

4 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
how much have your learned about Loving ? - 9/4/2010

It's a work that continues to be a work in progress if one stick with the task, and engage the labors, and share the fruits of mutual efforts.

Star crossed Illusions how much have you learned about loving...

1 response(s), 4 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
What do you think of the 21st Century Relating situation(s) - 8/29/2010

the circle of its function has many fallacies as well as much of fantasy, but yearn to claim it seeks to "share"..

Building trust

First and foremost becomes something one must work on within self, to trust self. then to speak honest and be fair in the dealing within living.

Having compassion as well as the awareness of discernment about the acts and actions of others, ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
if you could - 8/25/2010

if you could achieve any goal that is within your desire for life, what would be your primary aim ?

5 response(s), 4 votes