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Kelesias 32 M
1  Article
Relationships and cultural issues (China)   9/2/2019

To be frank, I am not someone who believes that cultural differences are huge obstacles and blablabla. I mean, if you find that different habits and traditions, 9 times ou of 10 it simply means that you do not love that much the person you are in a relationship with.

Still, some issues can still emerge. In the case of China, some girls can be very marriage-minded and in the worst cases ...


1 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
aliceyumi 51 F
6  Articles
I've just met someone older than me and he treats me very good   8/2/2018

I'm enchanted by his manners, he's so kind and nice to me. And he has so much to share from his life experiences, I'm pretty fond of talking to him.

He has such a nice and genuine smile, I'm really impressed. Never thought I would become a friend with someone as old as he, but I'm enjoying the conversations so much.

By what things are going, I think that I would reconsider ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
aliceyumi 51 F
6  Articles
Is an open relationship popular or trendy?   8/2/2018

I'm not really committed now, but I still have string attached to my ex... He's in France and I'm in Brazil... We seem to get along just fine as friends...

I think he's the best I could ever meet... So I'm very demanding when it comes to have some other candidate to conquer my heart...

Then I thought of an open relationship but it could only happen if the person makes me feel ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
6  Articles
The desocialisation of society   3/19/2016

So I live è years in SE-Asia now, and never regretted a single day that I came to live here. However, recently, I had to spend about 6 months back in Belgium to coördinate the renovation of a house I still have there. Surely winter is not the ideal time to enjoy Europe, but since weather conditions are more relevant than those 2 or 3 actual good months, it was a good time to find out how I ...


1 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
Snow_White9000 45 F
2  Articles
How Important is a Height Difference to You?   5/1/2015

How Important is a Height Difference to You?


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
_Hot_Guy_ 52 M
2  Articles
Fade to grey   12/2/2014

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[bg bgcolor="BlueViolet" width=80% cellpadding=20]I am approaching 40 sometime soon, grey is creeping in and looking a bit older in the face but I still feel like a . When I was younger I thought older people feel old in ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
lostinsydney 50 F
3  Articles
Question to ladies   11/4/2014

Ladies what would you find least attractive in a man, short, balding or overweight?


5 Comments, 107 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
MVPveli 35 M
11  Articles
Who r u?   7/12/2014

MVPveli is here for you


1 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes
kenhost 31 M
1  Article
lonely ?   6/1/2014

i am getting older now... 24 years old, and still not marry >_<


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Happy11863 55 F
2  Articles
I am a Thin and petite Asian Woman   11/30/2012

I am seeking a husband, who is mature and who has a Kind Heart. Looks are not important to me. What is truly important is Kindness, gentleness, Loyalty, and a desire for a Good Marriage to a Chinese Woman who can clean house, cook very well, and also drive. If True Love is what you desire; I am that person. Chinese Woman place a Husband's need over everything. I am Honest, Faithful, ...


2 Comments, 489 Views, 24 Votes ,4.49 Score
masada125 56 M
1  Article
The yoga woman   12/20/2011

I was once in love with my toga teacher. She was a Korean woman, about 50, so regal and amazing beautiful. She was both aloof and flirtatious. One day, I watched her, and I noticed the architectural perfection of her shoulders. I said to myself, "I want to become the king of all shoulder kisses." So i literally bent over backwards and turned myself upside down to achieve the flexibility of love. ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
10pjw 71 M
8  Articles
Where to Meet ??   8/3/2011

Your advice on where to meet please.

She lives in China - I live in Europe !!

Should it be at her place, my place or somewhere in between ??


3 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
nwguy2000 56 M
1  Article
Standard members can't do anything here!   7/28/2011

Man! You can't even wink without paying...


1 Comments, 395 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
10pjw 71 M
8  Articles
Life 's a Bitch !!   4/19/2011

Life's a Bitch - then you die !!

How agrees with that sentiment ??


1 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
smilingboy2020 52 M
2  Articles
love..   2/3/2011

Loving B.F are Hard to Find, Harder to Leave And impossible to Forget ….. LOVE is like a DIAMOND, … HARD TO FIND and LUCKY TO HAVE….. Nobody is Perfect Until you Fall In-LOVE with him..



Smile…. Just keep Smiling… You never know who is falling in love with your SMILE LIFE is SHORT …. If you don’t Enjoy it, you just lose it ….



NEVER Say “ ...


4 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
christianvn2010 71 M
9  Articles
Continuity and Change in Premarital Sex in Vietnam   11/25/2010

CONTEXT:

Premarital sexual activity is thought to be rising in Vietnam. However, there is little evidence documenting such an increase, and it is unknown whether levels of premarital sex differ between northern and southern Vietnam and whether premarital sex occurs primarily with a future spouse. ...


3 Comments, 91 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
bukem_dano2000 43 M
1  Article
Wife-swapping - Individualism in Collectivist Chinese Society   11/20/2010

I came across this article recently http://asiafriendfinder.com It made me wonder about 2 issues. In what context should consensual sexual activities between adults be prohibited/illegal? Whilst I see a lot of potential difficulties in any individual engaging in group sex or even casual sex, I don't see the benefit of any government, in any context making such activities illegal whilst they take ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
_Quintessence_ 44 M
7  Articles
Is pollution really related to global warming ?   11/6/2010

Some people say that the earth has phases it will go through ever now and then. It is a natural process that the earth is now getting warmer.

Some people say that global warming is a profitable scam.

Anyone knows something about this topic ?


0 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
_Quintessence_ 44 M
7  Articles
Worst Alcoholic Beverage Ever....   11/6/2010

What is the worst alcoholic beverage that you have ever tasted ( in your home country or on a trip abroad) ?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
_Quintessence_ 44 M
7  Articles
What is the best movie of the year 2009 ?   11/6/2010

According to you, what is the best movie of the year 2009 ?


1 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
lonelysummerdays 51 F
1  Article
gonna give it up   10/29/2010

having given it a try, now gonna give it up. a disillusion to find yr love with such a variety of selection yet what turned out to be more temptation than true emotion more attraction than real devotion, a picture, a smile, a few kind words those are enough to lead you astray. a cyber world, like the warm, wet green house, where the seeds of loneliness can easily grow and ...


1 Comments, 257 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
jenny2973 49 F
2  Articles
A GOOD STORY   9/21/2010

A blind boy sat on the steps of a building with a hat by his feet. He held up a sign which said: "I am blind, please help." There were only a few coins in the hat.

A man was walking by. He took a few coins from his pocket and dropped them into the hat. He then took the sign, turned it around, and wrote some words. He put the sign back so that everyone who walked by would see ...



1 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
DarkNite2000 42 M
18  Articles
someone special recognizes what a great person you really are....   8/26/2010

I've been to many countries and I understand the differences in Asian thinking and westerners and I'm say to say when it comes to love the people your all wrong, the only people who understand love are the people in love and I don't think they will be on this web site, it say I know but you can't go looking for love but you can run away from it, or brains want good looks and money but are ...


1 Comments, 196 Views, 1 Votes
Fabian1969 49 M
1  Article
online   8/5/2010

It is a great world nowadays with the internet. A world opens and I can get in touch with almost everybody. I am able to explore places I might never will come. I meet special friens from all of the world. It is good there is Internet


1 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Shinigamigurl 45 F
1  Article
What's the deal with virginity?   7/25/2010

What's the deal with virginity?

OK 100 years ago I totally get the reason why people would want to save themselves for marriage. I mean with all the diseases and the risk of having a back then when you weren't married could have caused some major problems, not only to yourself and your reputation but to your actual survival. But in this day and age why would anyone, male or female ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
emptysoul 49 M
1  Article
Whats up with AFF?   5/31/2010

Ive been a member now, for about 2 weeks.. I have received many e-mails.. but AFF wont let me read them.. In my opinion this is a very deceptive tactic.. people send others e-mail's... who they think have common interests, goals and ideas.. they might be attracted to them.. whatever the reason is.. they have no idea... that members cant even read their message and the poor person.. who receives ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
N_O_V_A_ 44 M
8  Articles
English language in China...   4/27/2010

While living in South Korea, I never really felt the need to be fluent in Korean as most people could understand some English...

I was wondering it was the same scenario in China...

Can someone manage well with about 1000 Chinese words ? Do most Chinese people have basic English skills ?


0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Insomnia2009 44 M
1  Article
EARTHQUAKES   11/16/2009

I am traveling to China and I was wondering...

Which part of China is expected to have another earthquake ?

Maybe someone from China would be able to help me out here...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 0 Votes
N_O_V_A_ 44 M
8  Articles
Teaching English in Asia...   11/11/2009

When one chooses a teaching position in China it seems to be a land of confusion.



Salaries are very different from one province to another.





Cost of life is also different from one province to another.



There seems to be a big difference in the attitude of the people living north and the ones living south.



I am used to ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
N_O_V_A_ 44 M
8  Articles
Learn spoken Mandarin quickly !   11/11/2009

I am trying to learn spoken Mandarin as quickly as I can...however I clearly notice that learning Mandarin is not as easy as learning Spanish or French.

I am using a method called Talk Now. It shows pictures of things and you have to click on the pictures in order to hear the audio recordings of the words. It is not a bad method...as far as learning new words go...

Does anyone ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes