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Mike_M2010 49 M
3  questions
public versus intimate personalities - 8/15/2010

Is it just me, or do the women who dress and act sexy in public become soft and girly when intimate?

However, women who seem soft and girly, or even conservative, become tigers in heat between the sheets.

4 response(s), 5 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
funny commercials - 8/14/2010

booty pop... this is a commercial about women underwear, that has padding built into it, to give a more protruding look to the butt

If you are a man, would you like it, then when the women got undressed, you discovered she had a illusion of a butt, that does not exist when she is undressed ?

As a woman, would you wear this product, and why ?

9 response(s), 4 votes
GoodGuy2039 63 M
4  questions
Why Get Married ?(Part 2) - 8/12/2010

I was reading the question from the guy who said he didn't need to get married because he could have a cheap maid in an Asian country. I kind of feel sorry for anybody who views relationships such as marriage soley in economic terms. There is more to marriage than how expensive/cheap it can be. Any comments are most welcome.

12 response(s), 9 votes
BBW_Thai 55 F
8  questions
what have I done wrong - 8/11/2010

sorry guys but can you please help me out I'm pretty confused here.

My problem is I once knew a doctor who treated my mom at the hospital. He was very nice to us.

Then one day after mom was out of the hospital. I need more info from her old doctor. Forgot to ask him his email at first but I really need him to answer my question regarding mom. So I decided to do a search on net ...

5 response(s), 6 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
What do you think ? - 8/8/2010

Ousted Hewlett-Packard Co. CEO Mark Hurd has settled allegations of sexual harassment lodged against him by a female contract worker for HP, a person with knowledge of the case told The Associated Press.

The harassment accusation set off a chain of events that led to the discovery of allegedly falsified expense reports for dinners Hurd had with the woman and culminated in Hurd's ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
changing the programming - 8/8/2010

what I've noticed in the organization where I'm involved with. The director is driven not only to improve how they perform the outreach, but in building within to make a team, that embraces the ideals, to up their level of performance, to see better ways to give and do for the community as a whole.

have you noticed in such changes in the business you are involved within ?

0 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
whats with the trend - 8/4/2010

I saw a girl today, with very natural large breast, wearing a "vest", very large rear end, with very short Daisy Duke shorts, with the zipper open down the front, showing white panties.. Is this the new trend??

3 response(s), 3 votes
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
"bought/sold passions".. sold and re-sold and, bought again... then comes - 2012 - 7/31/2010

How many ways is it sold, and by how many means is it bought? the circle which wobbles as it spin....

-------------------------------------------------- would you buy a car that tells you when you can drive it ? would you buy a soda that has conditions on when you can drink it ?

Again, "bought passion" is everywhere, shaped by condition and regulate by a price, and rarely is it ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
beyondfantasy3 112 M
103  questions
why did they delete my profile - 7/24/2010

yes... its strange ?

4 response(s), 8 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
how much do you see ? - 7/17/2010

when subjects come and go, what do you see ?

do you just see your view? do you see the abstractions in how things can be viewed, by a broad range of factors ? do you see things can have close and similar associations ? As well as, Very abstract and associations on a long list of serial points, as well as opposite parallel planes of perspective ?

what it goes to show, at a given ...

3 response(s), 10 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
Should you have (more) ? - 7/9/2010

Recently, an Australian and renown scientist predicted that the damage done to earth, inflicting global warming, is irreversible, and that Humanity will be (mostly) wiped out in about 100 years.

Other scientists confirm the danger, however they don't think anihilation will go so fast, and still give us a chance to rescue the world, or at least part of it and maintain the current life ...

16 response(s), 10 votes
Glassman472 60 M
3  questions
R-E-S-P-E-C-T - 7/2/2010

Here's one to get your brain cells working: Do you think woman really respect men as human beings? Now, after you have picked yourself up off the floor from laughter, look at it from this point of view: Women have spent centuries complaining to men that we do not respect them nor do we afford them the same opportunities, pay, intellectual "kudos" , etc. etc that we do our male citizens. However, ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
Glassman472 60 M
3  questions
Stupid Question Time? - 6/30/2010

Okay, I fully admit this may have an obvious, "Doh!" type answer, but maybe I am just too socially remiss to know what it is. Why does a woman wink at you online, and then when you email her and ask about her -- you hear nothing in reply? I suppose perhaps she may wink at a lot of people hoping to get a "strike" and when she does, the rest are tossed back in the water so to speak. Or maybe it's ...

1 response(s), 5 votes
GoodGuy2039 63 M
4  questions
Women? A Nice Mystery? - 6/25/2010

Women are a mystery to me. They all say they want a nice guy who will offer them fidelity and committment but when you offer them these things they run a mile and hook up with some lowlife and spend the next 30 years trying to stop him from drinking/gambling/being unfaithful. So do women need to see a guy as a 'challenge" in order for them to be interested in him? Any comments are most ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
Mike_M2010 49 M
3  questions
men's shoes - 6/20/2010

Many people say that women judge us by our shoes.

So ladies, please advise us I am about to buy a pair...

Mike

3 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
funny how blogs chronice much - 6/20/2010

One post is about moving here, and the next was about selecting Motorcycles.

time to make a move

Harley Davidson

It's amazing what changes over the course of just the past 5 yrs.. Outsourced after 28 yrs, and given nothing based on the poor design of the package they forced upon us. over-all, its been a cycle of trips for 10 yrs in total... accumulated and lost ...

4 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
just wondering ... - 6/17/2010

what would make you smile... in an instance ?

could it be something like this ?

is life interesting or what ...

9 response(s), 5 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
no wonder its like it is. - 6/17/2010

if you click on the language tab, you will notice it only gives two options, simplified Chinese and Tradition, once you select one, it is very much a challenge to get this thing to convert back to English. why they don't add the link in the Language bar at the top is very odd.

but once you switch to the Tradition or Simplified Mode... THEY DO NOT HAVE THE SAME MAGAZINE WE HAVE, their ...

2 response(s), 0 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
Communication... or not! - 6/16/2010

How do you deal with silence?

I had an experience with a woman who stops talking when a problem rises in the relationship. That means if it happened while I traveled, maybe for a monthor so, she would not pick up the phone, answer emails or sms messages for weeks.

At home, I would manage to get her talking within a couple of days because you have to when you live together.

2 response(s), 3 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
What is sharing? - 6/14/2010

Many men and women confuse it with 'owning'. To me, sharing is a temperarily mutual enjoyment of something, in which one or both choose to include someone they like/love in an experience, with the goal of feeling both happy.

That means sharing has a begin-point and an end-point. Since we are all individuals, and can not own others, it is obvious - but for some very difficult to ...

5 response(s), 5 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
are women irrational? - 6/14/2010

So you come home, and find your mailbox open on an old romantic email with someone you're not in touch with any more. It was from the time that your current relationship was still young and brittle, and you didn't just 'dump' your other online contacts immediately.

Since you consider your relationship stable now, you don't bother logging out of your mail all the time any more. But YOU ...

4 response(s), 3 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
cultural difference, once more - 6/14/2010

I see cultural difference not so much as 'too big a mountain to climb'. Yet the difference of social background can be.

They are the same thing, some may think. Well, I grew up in a poor family and had a relationship with someone from a rich family. I had far more trouble adapting than I ever had with overcoming cultural difference with an asian women.

Obviously, a mix of both ...

4 response(s), 4 votes
morethanafeeling 59 M
8  questions
dependence - 6/14/2010

I met a woman, and I like her. The thing is, she drinks. Her friends call her the beating heart of the group, and she seems to be essential for them to a succesfull night of drinking. So on about a weeks time, I've seen her drunk already twice.

She asked me : if we would start a relationship, would I go drink with her. Hmmm ... No I wouldn't, and I wouldn't want her to come home drunk ...

3 response(s), 2 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
crazy changes.. - 6/9/2010

I guess now, only paid members can post Photo's in blogs..

I'd like them to offer a service where an individual can download their own blogs, to removable storage devices... why they don't offer this option, is a missed opportunity to earn a profit..

if they prohibit the blogs with any more restrictions, then there's not much left for me to be on here to do...

I would ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what's the use? - 6/8/2010

what's the use of a woman being nice and shapely, and being generally pretty, if they are not sharing their lives and experience with someone, Yes, that includes sensual and sexual.

it results to amount to a waste that becomes a tease, which produces not much in the over-all.. as youth and beauty are gifts to attract, but they don't last forever, and under-regarded for the nature of ...

6 response(s), 11 votes
wanderer514 45 M
1  question
Can Premium Members' Messages be Read by Standard Users? - 6/7/2010

I've been on this site for a month now and got a dozen of messages, some of them from premium members.

However, I can't read them. I asked tech support why this is so and they told me it's because standard members can't read their messages until they have been on the site long enough.

Then I thought maybe I should become a premium member to be able to communicate with others. ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
Meeting Women - 6/5/2010

What do you think about meeting women....?



Meeting Women it certainly can be the most enriching engagement for both man and woman, which can be done..

7 response(s), 5 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
what is your thought about "care" ? - 6/2/2010

how is it conducted- is itself interesting>>

some think it means, perform an action or fulfill an expected response

this may be good in the ideal conceptual things, but each individual has their own things to deal with whic is real and true in their lives at any given moment, and many times, it may not be, that people don't care.. the issue may be, what ritual ...

2 response(s), 3 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
change in world standing. - 5/31/2010

Chinese Edge Toward Supercomputing Record By JOHN MARKOFF Published: May 30, 2010

A Chinese supercomputer has ranked as the world’s second fastest machine, surpassing European and Japanese systems and underscoring China’s aggressive commitment to science and technology.

The Dawning Nebulae, based at the National Supercomputing Center in Shenzhen, China, has achieved a sustained ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
touch213 69 M
762  questions
unconditional love - 5/29/2010

if you think it exist, buy a dog, and don't feed it.

but if you share what you have with it, it will share its devotion with you..

5 response(s), 3 votes